Why do people elude the fact men fantasize about raping women? Are they in denial?

[Anonymous]

People only talk about the women who fantasize about this shit. But men do fantasize about the opposite…

[ZDoes]

Actually, statistically... And someone please correct me if I'm wrong here, but be prepared to back up the information with something more substantial than quick wikipedia scan.
If memory serves the fantasy is typically more often than not one. entertained by women as opposed to men. In fact there's no pathology too it from that perspective it being almost ubiquitous. Dare said "normal".
And aside from the "predator" steriotype individual you seem to be fishing for. It isn't generally pursued by men unless instigated by
our partner.
For those that are enticed by such a role play, please remember that a true Dominant position is one of stewardship. Not of Control. If this doesn't make sense to you... Please do not engage in this play untill you do. You'll get yourself or someone else hurt.

[Kaneki05]

Fantasy's and reality are different anyway. Many Fantasise about killing each other does that make everyone less of a person? or them actually killers? or bad people?
Many have fantasised about having a slave probably. Many have fantasised about having rule of the world by an iron fist. Many have fantasised about watching the world burn. People i have fantasised or wondered about what a human tastes like.

You see my point yet? What does it actually matter if one admitted to this fact or not? It's a fantasy for a reason it will not leave their head and only be thought about in a purely if not insane fictional sense.
In dreams we have nightmares about horrible stuff? what about when your the one in that nightmare doing the horrible stuff? Does that say a lot about you as a person?

Push what view you want. But a fantasy is just that, harmless unless the person wants to turn it into a plan.

[Asker]

Nothing exists in a vacuum.

[Kaneki05]

Not sure what that means to my comment. But actually not true, Virtual Particles exist within a vacuum meaning that something always exists and especially in a vacuum.

[Asker]

Lol How is that?

[Kaneki05]

Well when a perfect vacuum is created basically these other particles temporally form which therefore fill the space these particles cease to exist after the normal particles are back. They act to conserve the energy of the particles that should be there. So that way there is no actual true sense of no energy existing because you see it has to exist because of the universe law that energy cannot be destroyed or created only it exists in a finite state which them particles must make sure is there.
The universe itself is a closed system, so the total amount of energy in existence has always been the same. The forms that energy takes, however, are constantly changing. Therefore to make a Vacuum without any wouldn't make sense.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Virtual_particle

[xxNDMxx]

Both sexes can fantasize about raping/being raped. It boils down to having complete control or completely relinquishing control.

[Asker]

I'm not talking about women here Why do anyone makes it about women lol?

[God_of_Thunder]

I know you clearly won't believe me, based on your comments, but I've never fantasized about raping anybody.

Just because some people do, doesn't mean we all do, and I'm very sorry about whatever caused you to think that way.

[Asker]

Not all but many

[Lliam]

I'll cop to occasionally writing erotic stories, and some of them may include rape. The stories are about characters. I don't write about myself in first person. So the stories are more like movie plots. They are pure fiction. I don't condone rape any more than murder or terror. I am opposed to harming anyone or anything.

[Dexter_Morgan42]

I don't understand the desire to rape, I'm not turned on by forcing a woman to do anything. I want to be wanted and I like when women are into me.

[Asker]

So no force involved? All nice and soft?

[Dexter_Morgan42]

Yeah no force involved. I'm a lover, I like to please women and I need to feel wanted and needed by her. being attractive to women is a turn on in itself for me. The whole concept of having to physically force a woman to be with me is disgusting in a way, but I'm also one of those guys who wouldn't pay for sex either, it would hurt my pride. She has to want me.

[Asker]

It makes sense. You’re a pretty rare type of man.

[Dexter_Morgan42]

I think that's probably true, and strangely I seem to always end up with women who want it rough, or to be tied up or spanked. They say they like having sex with me, it's always fun and they climax, but I'm not the type to give her the other side of what she wants. Aggression, roughness, selfishness in bed seem to be qualities that I they feel I lack in bed. I'm always torn between "Do I change to be that way for them, or do I continue as a lover because it's what I wanna do?"

[OlderAndWiser]

How do you know what men fantasize about? If you are that good, tell me what I fantasize about.

[Asker]

Studies

[OlderAndWiser]

You learned about it in school! Great!

[Asker]

No Scientific studies lol

[OlderAndWiser]

"Scientific" studies that relied on self-report. That is NOT how real science works.

[Asker]

Hahahahahahaha! You’re really clueless.

[OlderAndWiser]

I can tell you that you have a very special way with men! FYI, I was doing research in biochemical genetics 50 years ago and I know what science is. Also, calling people clueless is a violation of G@G posting guidelines but I will let this slide.

[Berethor]

Want to it a step further? :)

https://witchwind.wordpress.com/2013/12/15/piv-is-always-rape-ok/

[Asker]

This is irrelevant

[Aishakaba]

Interesting article

[Berethor]

@Aishakaba yea. :)

[OlderThanILook]

I don't know anybody, male or female, that fetishizes rape. The fuck are you all going on about?

[Asker]

Just open your eyes lol. The all world isn’t just about yourself lol.

[slatyb]

I don't fantasize about raping women. I don't watch pornographic depictions of non-consensual sex. It's disgusting and disturbing.

[Asker]

Sure cause pornography is 💯 % consensual lol

[slatyb]

Some is, some isn't.

[Asker]

Truth is you don’t know what happened…

[slatyb]

I have met a couple of the actors so I know that some porn production is consensual.

[Asker]

Sure Some

[ManOnFire]

Women fantasize about it most. I'm sure some guys out there do, but there's a reason why rapey porn and rapey erotic are watched and read by women in a landslide.

[Asker]

And made and watched by men...

[ManOnFire]

🤨Made and written by women.

[Asker]

Porn is made by women lol?

[ManOnFire]

Erotica is written by women. Rapey porn is made by men but watched mostly by women.

[Asker]

Or is it?

[ManOnFire]

Do your research. Jordan Peterson already found out for us.

[ManOnFire]

Although it's funny you ask this question because I've been working on a Take about it for some time now.

[Asker]

😅 sure

[AviatorTom]

Men fantasize about impregnating a woman... that's instinctive... but that's not rape, and rarely does a man carry out that fantasy.

[Asker]

Most men enjoy some violence during sex.

[FilmGuy93]

I think the name for it changes, but the fetish is definitely there. Men who like being dominant and rough with women have their own little thing. I think that's the Daddy-Slave fetish. Women who like be raped have a Rape Fetish.

[Asker]

Yes, of course guys do lol.

[_piotr]

That is not true. I am a man and I NEVER fantasised about raping women. I fantasised however about women raping man.

[awkward_author]

I think it's because fantasizing about the top's role in this scenario is seen as disgusting and taboo, so no one wants to talk about it.

[Asker]

Sure. This answer is obviously the most logical here. Thanks.

[awkward_author]

No problem.

[TedDyd20]

I don't. I couldn't get hard if a woman wasn't happy about being in bed with me.

[Asker]

You can fantasize in rape when the woman protests but is willing at the end...

[VikingWarLord]

It's ALLUDE***
And I make it a point to ask all women what they fantasize about, over 90% of them said they had some sort of raape or abduction fantasy. And we would roleplay that out sometimes.

[Asker]

Cause that’s the type of women who go with a guy like you lol.

[VikingWarLord]

oh well gawdam... is that right I've been with over 500+ females of all races, shapes, sizes, mentalities, etc.. some were even christian good girls until I brought the sllut out of them behind closed doors.

[Asker]

Your personality may attract some types of women and not others... Not such a good experiment.

[Seangreen]

Wtf are you kidding me that's never crossed my mind and I'm not joking and I'm not just saying that to me that's a turn off

[Aakash_Hangargi]

I don't think so, it's one of the kinks of women which they have acknowledged themseleves. at least what i can deduce from Gag questions alone

[Asker]

GAG is full of prostitutes lol

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Maybe strippers and not prostitutes

[Asker]

Both

[Aakash_Hangargi]

But why would they have that kink as they are having sex like everyday and when it's your job it becomes almost boring

[Asker]

They need clients

[Aakash_Hangargi]

But getting clients doesn't mean they want to be raped by them?

[Asker]

No, but they don’t want to sound “prude”. Have you ever noticed how men enjoy reading or hearing about how women enjoy to be manhandled in bed lol? How women who say they love this and this get a lot of likes and followers? If I was a prostitute or looking for attention, I would probably do the same 😅

[Aakash_Hangargi]

I fail to see the connection , lol real prostitutes don't do that from what I have heard prostitutes just be naked ask client to do whatever they want and without feeling. Now there are escorts of high levels a bit more classy and highly paid now they will add bit of girlfriend experience and do role plays as client wishes but in both case it's demand of clients and not them. Some girls like rough sex bc they want to be dominated it's not necessarily rape kink , but others do have expressed that may be they just want to feel pain for some reason who knows why?

[Asker]

There are so many forms of prostitution these days…

[Aakash_Hangargi]

But how is that related to raps kink 🤷

[Recurrence]

I actually don’t fantasize about rape, I’m way more into women enjoying sexual stimulation

[Asker]

No roughness or anything like that?

[Recurrence]

No, I don’t like it

[Luopio27]

I never fantasized of rape.

[AndrésC64]

I don't. I don't know of anyone that does. Why do women fantasize about being raped? I don't think they do either.

[Asker]

I think some do. I mean when they’re something you’ve been taught to fear all you life, you need some catharsis…

[Wise4myage]

Women have rape fantasies too.

[Asker]

Not the point And women don't fantasize qbout raping someone.

[Wise4myage]

Yes, some women probably do.

[Asker]

Some, not most lol.