Did this guy lie? Condom didn’t fit? Did he use me?

[ShaeMac4]

The guy I was talking to lied about the condom not fitting when we had sex, I didn’t know at the time, I am very inexperienced so I passed it off as it actually not fitting, why would a guy have a box of condoms that didn’t fit. He said that the condom didn’t fit when I asked him to use one, he took it off and proceeded to try to have sex and I noticed he had taken it off and I said, didn’t you put on a condom. He than replies oh didn’t you see me take it off. Than he goes and grabs another one and fiddles with it and still says that it doesn’t fit as he “struggles “ to put it on. He than takes it off and I roll my eyes because I really believed that it didn’t fit. I now know that there is no such things a condom that’s doesn’t fit. And that is the oldest trick in the book. He also came on me without my consent and commented “oh look I got you all wet”. He also said derogatory things like my ass and pussy are the same when he hurt me trying to put it in. It felt like he was trying to put it in my ass and I said he was hurting me and he retorted with ass and Pussy are the same. He also asked if all black guys had big dicks? Even thought I had never been with a black guy, and because I was the first mixed girl he had been with. He also said he couldn’t get fully hard because he had jerked off the morning of. He kept saying I was beautiful and how cute I was and was making out with me. I just can’t help but feel he lied to me because he knew I was inexperienced. I felt degraded with the comments. He even rolled his eyes at me when I said to put the blanket over me and him because I felt insecure about my body. It was like an inconvenience to him. He tried to be nice by kissing my forehead and holding my hand and rubbing my cheek but I think he was compensating.

[Aerissa_Jade]

Inexperienced guys often do not know how to condom shop, I've been known to go with him to help him pick them out.

They also have this thing where they think they are bigger than they really are and think Large or X-large size is what they need when the vast majority are fine with medium or less.

Even experienced guys may grab a random box without paying attention.

I once had a guy who didn't know how to pick the size out, so he grabbed one and it was so large it wasn't even tight on him and would just slip off.

We never had intercourse, just played around that time.

It does sound like your experience though was more about lying, when you checked him out did it look like it was fitting fine and possibly he just took it off, cause guys always say sex is better without condoms and can sometimes try to sneak them off.

[andreea89]

You didn't say no so it's fair game. I'd love to have been in your place

[ShaeMac4]

Your disgusting don’t comment

[jshm2]

Well... you should report it and speak to friends about it, in case this is something he is doing as a behaviour.

As for the condom situation, yes condoms come in all sorts of sizes. You should have been suspicious a guy would turn up with ones that don't "fit".

The aftermath being you were not beaten, found by a dog walker, or savagely assaulted. Hence why it should be something you talk about in case he goes a step further with someone else.

[ohshee]

Look at guys are going to use any excuse they can no matter how stupid it sounds they're going to have an excuse but when you get pregnant then what this is why I always told girls better keep some hot dogs in the refrigerator just in case some guy uses that lying on you you could always say hold on I'll be right back go grab a hot dog stick it up in that rubber it ain't going nowhere. If they try to play you just play with him back

[DonkeyDan]

What an asshole, sorry it was a lesson to learn the hard way.

[ShaeMac4]

What do you mean

[awkward_author]

It looks like he played you.

[jasco]

Yea he did, honestly if their a virgin than yea it wouldn't surprise me but for someone who isn't than they should know what condom fits them

[ShaeMac4]

Yeah I thought why would a guy have condoms that don’t fit him and I had to ask him twice to put them on, and he made it seem they don’t fit, which now I know condoms can be put over someone’s head, what a ducking liar, I feel so dumb

[jasco]

well some condoms can do that

[ShaeMac4]

So why can a women from YouTube out a condom on her head, like wtf

[jasco]

like I said some condoms can, depends on the size.

[Naughtyboy71]

Did he cum inside you or pull out

[ShaeMac4]

It seemed he pulled out, and had to jerk off for quite a while until he came, but now im scared he might have cum inside me without me knowing.

[Naughtyboy71]

Oh may I ask when this happen I sure hope it didn't cum inside you If you ever like to talk I'm hear to listen

[Naughtyboy71]

Did he shoot his cum all over you love you to cum while I eat you out

[ShaeMac4]

Kk your a disgusting creep fuck off

[notwoke]

so was he supposed to get a written contract on where he could cum and where he couldn't? Should he have left it in? Stories like this make me glad I'm old.

[UsernameXLTX]

He lied and used you. Stay away from that dude cause he's a predator.

[ShaeMac4]

I feel awful but thanks for your answer

[UsernameXLTX]

What he did was very , very rapey.

[ShaeMac4]

No he came on me not forced himself on me

[UsernameXLTX]

The whole situation you described was very rapey.

[ShaeMac4]

Like ejaculated not forced himself but thanks again

[OddBeMe]

Yep you’ve been had.

[Luckycharms12]

You would know if guy cum in you right away for sure

[ShaeMac4]

I don't know but I’m terrified he did, I took plan b, but still.. this is all giving me chills...

[Luckycharms12]

You would cos it would be flowing out of you for real. Ya laws there that guys can't do that don't know any that would. Else both comfortable with it

[Anonymous]

He played you. They fit. Guys never want to use condoms. Most of the guys I’ve been with wouldn’t use on either and just did the pull out thing. Yeah they always cum on you at the end. It’s just what guys do…probably learned from porn.