Will you sexually fantasize about someone you find attractive?

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  • I mean if I had like 2 conversations with her and there is some connection - like I know her a bit no matter how small that connection is - even if we're technically acquaintances - then yes - But like I'd never fantasize about some girl passing by for a second or something..

  • If they are beautiful on the inside and I can feel their energy that's what turns me on and that's what I fantasize about if you've never felt energy before it is the most beautiful feeling in this world

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  • Yes, but I try not to because I’d rather have it with that person in real life. I feel like if I’ve thought about it I’ve already partially experienced it and I’d like to save it.

  • From time to time, but keep in mind that, as a man, I see a dozen - maybe even several dozen - women a day (when I'm out in the world) who I find physically attractive in the 10 or 20 seconds I see them. In most cases, I enjoy the view in the moment, and then immediately move on and more-or-less forget them.

    In the vast, vast majority of cases, I'd have to either find a girl INCREDIBLY physically attractive (that 1 in 50,000 who you are just drawn to physically) or I'd have to spend a good deal more time around her before I would remember her enough that fantasizing about her was even likely. There would have to be something special about her in order to break into that area of my brain.

  • It's inevitable but almost never goes to the extent of thinking about her later or masturbating at the thought of sex with her.

    I did that more when I was in my teens when thinking about girls in school. In my late teens and early 20s, there were even a few girls at work that I fantasized about.
    But, for the most part, there are lots of women out and about who have particularly delightful assets. In seeing them, I might simply have a momentary fantasy of their lovely, bare titties bouncing and swaying. Or seeing a woman with perfectly rounded hips and a gorgeous ass might elicit a fleeting image of penetrating her juicy center. They are merely cheerful thoughts. Beautiful women are like sunshine on a cloudy day. I don't ogle them in a creepy way or dwell on them. Although I'll watch and smile appreciatively if a girl deliberately flaunts her body, like flashing her tits or sashaying her ass while rollerskating along a beach boardwalk in a tiny bikini.

    Last summer, my wife and I went to a frozen yogurt shop. Right in front of us in line was a girl wearing a beach cover that was only long enough to cover half of her ass. She must have been wearing a thong, because her ass looked completely bare. Her pale, smooth, ample cheeks creased where they met the tops of her thighs and looked really squeezable. Both my wife and I noticed and glanced at each other with smiles and raised eyebrows. I made a faux gesture of reaching out and grabbing a handful of that luscious ass. My wife laughed quietly. I have to say that the image of that particular ass didn't leave my mind.

  • Very likely I would. Would you?

  • Nope not without some sort of emotional link

  • Sure, I guess. Fantasy is all I have left.

  • I do many times!! If I am out especially grocery shopping! If I see a hot girl in tight shorts or leggings or a sexy top. I will look at them with out being noticed I will kinda follow them. I like to see if there are wearing any underwear or not or if there wearing a bra! I will usually masturbate thinking about them!!

  • Yes of course lol

  • If I didn't I think porn would be out of business lol.

  • yeah i try to stop myself for some reason, but can't and end up doing it al the time lmao

  • I have.
    I think it is a natural thing that people do.

  • I do this all the time.

  • If I did I'd be fantasizing 24 hours a day as there are so many attractive women. I'm more likely to do it with someone I feel a connection to.

  • of course

  • Most of the time, yes.

  • I can't help what happens when I'm asleep.

  • I think it happens.. though you are a good person and if you feel like that you fanaticise about it.. I think it is common. It might be wrong.. but happens.

  • At some point, probably.

  • Yes, that’s the point

  • Will you mind if I fantasise about you? :) <3

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