Why do girls hate sex?

why do girls hate sex? It seem like the only do it cause guys want them to. Some girls at work said they just do it for there man. I know they do not like it as much as guys do but I want them to enjoy it. If they do not want to do then I do not want to make them. sometimes all I want is to spend time with a girl or a relationship or to do fun things. Like go out somewhere. is there any way to make girls like it more? I want to do something with them that they enjoy.
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people on here think I am bad at sex that not true. what I mean is people at work said that they hate sex. I only had sex with one women. She said that I was cute and that I last a long time. She did it cause I told her I wanted to and I did just to do it. it may be with someone else not her. She was ok. I just feel like it wrong and she may me sick. I do not like what she wanted me to do for her just so I could do. I did not want to be that type of guy. I pick the wrong girl.
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  • ? Girls hate sex?

    How did you deduce this? Let me show you how miserably wrong you are:

    1) right here at G@G, try to gather the usernames of pink members who ask or share opinions on sex, sexuality and relationship.

    I'm sure you can't even list 10% with the help of a Spreadsheet.

    This is an obvious demonstration that girls don't hate sex. But instead, they are at least curious about it.

    2) not considering porn, attempt to list all the web sites where females talk about sex, promiscuous or married.

    Again, I'm sure you will find it mind blogging.

    3) apart from fucking, try to make your SO cum at least once each time you enter the bedroom. (During PIV or foreplay ok. Just make her cum)

    Within 10 sessions, see if she is all over you.

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    No. Girls don't hate sex. In fact their sexual desire is as strong if not stronger than us guys. Experience it, then you'll know what I'm talking about here.

    • Update: You wrote "is there any way to make girls like it more? I want to do something with them that they enjoy." And I think this is the right attitude toward sex and intimacy. Perhaps like many guys, you can't express this desire properly, orr perhaps girls of this age faced too many Players and hence are shielding herself more rigorously when approached by guys. My opinion still stands: girls do like sex. It is now up to us guys to open up her trust so that she can choose vulnerability for us. And in my opinion, it's a new age challenge for us.

  • I've never met a lady yet that didn't love having sex, especially if you take the tlme to get her fully aroused with foreplay and then care enough to give her 3 or 4 orgasms orally before penetration. It's better for both her and you when you take your time pleasuring her before you concentrate on your own pleasure.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Ugh... im gonna be that one aren't I?

    I dont HATE sex... I just don't crave it or really want it. Even when I so it's super specific in how I want it that its not even worth the hassle. I am not the norm though. Most girls enjoy sex just fine.

  • I don’t hate sex at all. I think most girls can agree that we just can’t stand selfish men that have no interest on learning about womens bodies and only want to get their nut. A man that wants his lady to cum is the sexiest man on the planet

    • I think the same.

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  • I have never met a woman who did not like sex, let alone hate it. Something must be wrong with you.

  • Only some dislike it. Maybe because they have not found a good lover or trained their partner well enough. Everyone else loves our greatest natural pleasure.

  • Women like sex as much as men do. I've had several partners that loved it and were ready anytime.

    We see more letters on GaG from women asking why their partners aren't willing to have sex as often as they would like.

  • A lot of girls like and/or love sex. It's just a matter of finding the right one and learning how to please her.

  • Wow you are a loser haha. It would actually be quite hard to find many women who hate sex. Women are absolutely crazy for sex. YOU can't get laid, but your little ego copes better by telling itself it's because women hate sex 😅 Damn you are a joke.

  • We don't wtf xD

  • All girls don't hate sex. At most, all you can say for sure is that the girls who date you hate sex.

    • Reponse to update: And women who are experenced at sex usually don't enjoy teaching a guy who is inexperienced and inhibited.

  • You must live under a rock!

    • You must be lesbian

  • Yeah it seems like it but some really enjoy it so you just have to find a good one