I agree with domination being the first place to test. Find out if he likes being told what to do, and get into his head, in a good way.
The rest depends upon how dominant and merciful you are. Some people are too nice to do certain things.
If you can enjoy it without feeling really bad for him, try teasing him, and keep pushing it to see how far it takes him to flip/break. Get naked with him, but really take your time, lick and kiss whatever he likes, except for his dick, and rub his dick on your clit while making out, but don't let him enter. Do it for as long as you think is right, then ask him if he wants to be inside you. Make him say it, and ask him how bad he wants it, see if he'll say "Anything".
If he doesn't automatically say "Anything", tell him to eat you out, and not to let you orgasm. If he gets close to making you cum, then do whatever it takes to stop him. Then bring him up, start making out again, and let him get close to going inside you, rubbing your clit some more with his dick head. Just don't let him actually go inside you for as long as you can. Stop and tell him you want to do more things to him, and start licking his body again, sucking his fingers/hands/whatever, and making out. You can play with his balls, but not his dick, other than letting it touch your clit, lips, and letting it get close to entering. You can have him eat you out again.
Just do this cycle over and over again.
If you keep teasing him, and keep letting him get close to going in without letting him actually do it, he'll either get really close to just forcing it (or maybe he will actually force it), or he'll start to beg and weep. Then you can figure out what to do from there.
If he breaks down, tell him to make whatever promises you think are best, and/or make him beg in whatever way you want. If he gets crazy and gets close to forcing it, then establish who is in charge, and do whatever you think is right.
If you don't like that sort of dynamic, then buy some toys, maybe find out what kind of porn he likes. If you're into it, text him naughty things while he's away, a few or a couple hours before you see each other. Tell him what you want him to do to you.
Maybe do some hickies on body play. Tell him to put a hickies on parts of your body that are hidden by clothes. Tell him he's writing his name all over your body, and that he owns it. Maybe tell him that he can put a hicky on you every time he makes you cum. Depends on what you want to get into.
Also, I made a sex game with a guy, and I thought it was pretty fun. Just ask, and I'll tell you about it. It requires a deck of cards, one die, and probably a timer.
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@youngmix it’s the Most Helpful Girl / Guy award, what gives you your Most Helpful Opinion (MHO).
A good honest, blunt talk is the best way I've found. Just get it out there, what you want to do or listen if its him saying it to you. Do not dismiss anything at all. No matter how bad it sounds or what you may think that sounds bad.
Sure beats trying to give hints that never work, just be honest... try to ask him what he wants, his deepest desires and be non judgmental no matter what. He may have idea's just afraid to let it out cause might think you'll think less of him.
Let him know you won't judge, do the same for yourself. Ask him to not judge and tell him what you want to do or try. Please don't judge me and I won't judge you.
I think I will defer on this one.
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for me it’s all about communication and understanding each other’s boundaries and limits.
try writing down what each other’s fantasies are, what your likes, okay, dislikes are.
Its important not to jump into the deep-end straight away, for example introducing bondage of any type without first understanding if he likes it is wrong and can kill things.
You also have to decide if you want vanilla, slightly kinky vanilla or more BDSM focused.
Then were the Dominant / submissive thing sits, is it something you want him doing all the time, is it a 75/25 split or more 50/50.
or do you want to be more Dominant partner.
Do not do anything to extreme or too much out of character, you can actually turn people off things.
Teasing and withholding orgasms for both of you, can really ramp up the dynamics and move people of their comfort zone.
personally @youngmix has a good balanced opinion.
@chrismaster69 Its a working progress, taken your teasing advise.. Stay tuned 🤣
@Harleigh90 personally it’s best way, there is only so much a guy can take. Everyone has an inner animal, it might be a chest pounding Gorilla that will throw you on the bed and Dominate you or it could be cute little bush baby that you just want to cuddle. If it’s the latter best you get out those thigh boots, corset and riding crop. Alternatively. Play him some of our ‘tunes’ he will be throwing you over the sofa…
@chrismaster69 🙄🥺 I'll settle for whatever is in-between a gorilla and a bush baby 🤣 The boots work well, a corset is the usual 'date night' outfit also works well. The chair also works well too.
Some night before he gets home tie yourself to the bed and put up a list of instructions for him to follow of what you would like him to do to you for his reward.
Nothing better than being tie helplessly to the bed while he makes you cum 4 or 5 times, might have to use a vibrator for the last few, so make sure buzz is all charged up.
Are you or he into tickling, that would also be a good time for that since there would be little you could do about it all tied up.
Make sure you include some of his favorite things to do to you on the list.
Buy a couple of toys for him to use on you.
There are some very discreet ones you can use in public that he can control.
Nothing like going out to dinner and having him hit the on button to keep you on edge and just aching for relief that just doesn't happen.
By the time you get home you will be so turned on you might not make it out of the car.
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Get a few Margartas in him and then challenge him to play Winner Says, Loser Does:
Need some excitement in the bedroom? Are you willing to take a challenge?
Be specific, pull no punches, and tell no lies, when bringing him onboard for some linky kinky sugar nookie cookie 🍪
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I doubt he's into dominant and submissive roles in terms of sex. Most vanilla people believe in 50-50, which isn't necessarily bad, just not that arousing if you are into bdsm.
Anyway, if you're really planning an intro to bdsm, start with telling him about aftercare and consent. As most people are unaware of it, they misunderstand the whole concept. Once the concepts are clear, you can do roleplaying or bondage cuffs and blindfold, maybe public sex, whatever floats your boat.
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HELP! Anything will do? Then did you let him butt fuck you?
YES I DID 🤣🤣🤣 and that’s as good as it’s gotten but like. I need it to get kinkier without making him feel weird
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If he's embarrassed about trying new things because they are new to him or he's had a strict upbringing, it may help him normalize what you'd like him to do if he sees others doing it. Consider watching porn or reading erotica that includes the kinds of things you're into so he gets used to them. As you're watching/reading point out the things you think the two of you should try and ask him what he's turned on by.
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It might help to start with something light that you enjoy, and bring it up with him. He might be open to trying it. Then you can move on to kinkier things if he seems open to it.
i would say just be super sexual like try to be more demanding in bed and doing things you want and see if he goes with it, do something you would only see in like a hardcore porn or something
Trust me my life used to be a hardcore porn 😭 my boyfriend got amazing dick but I need more of the extra stuff not just the part where he puts it in and strokes yk?
i mean like go for the hardcore parts, like lay down lean your head back and suck him offf and let him titty fuck while you suck his nuts or have him lift you up and wrap your arms and legs and push you down and up on his dick, or tell him just to go as hard as he can if you are into some pain
trust me guys love it when we can lift you up and move you around like that
Communication!!!
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How vanilla? Missionary kinda guy?
No like he’ll try a few poses but he’s just not vocal at all 😩
@fireguy17 was spot on!
Go to your local adult toy store and pick out a game, or a coupon book that has suggestions of things to do two and for each other. Read erotica, watch porn.
Try some roleplay and be very seductive. Maybe send him explicit messages or pics to his phone or if your really want to get him going send him you masturbating you thinking about him. Tie yourself up and be naked when he gets home. You gonna make him being dominate or less vanilla by stimulating his brain to switch into being dominate.
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Ask him to watch some porn with you. Gradually introduce scenarios you are envisioning and ask what he thinks about them / if he would like to try them.
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Initiate sex every once in a while, and don’t be a cold fish lying there doing nothing while he has to do all the work. Not every guy has a rape fantasy.
Does he spank you during doggystyle? That's a good starting place if he doesn't. Tell him that it turns you on and ask him to when you're having it so he remembers.
Current boyfriend? Anyway, I can help. Age of dude? Body size?
21 he’s around 150 lbs he’s slightly above average standard
I suggest sensual overpowering. Pussy in guys face works wonders for ones that don't take charge.
Wear some leather bra and panties and buy a strap on and a pink paddle. Walk into the room and smile :P
You need to communicate between each other to find out. Having a woman take control sexually might be interesting to try.
Sex is like a food. We don't have same food with same flavour or taste. Same way you have to try your sexual desires in different ways.. Go to New places.. Have fun. Try something with your boyfriend wants.. Tell your boyfriend what you want. Having fun in public places is thrilling and also try to go out without bra and panty. Try sex in open beach. They are many things you can try.
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