Should I continue waiting until marriage? Is this good advice? Am I correct in my assertion? Do less mature men have sex the most often?
But I’ve heard from a close friend (who had pre-marital sex himself) that it is better to wait.
He regrets his decision.
He says that sex is not all you make it out to be in your mind.
He says that having it with multiple women cheapens its value.
Anyways, I can kind of see the argument to be honest.
Maybe it is best that I continue waiting.
I suspect I’d just have to wait probably around six or seven more years.
I am a fairly attractive male and my confidence has improved.
So I’d say it’s highly unlikely I’d be a 40 year old virgin.
Worst case scenario I become consumed with work and I end up meeting my life partner in my 30’s.
Either way if I became busy with work I’d still be developing as a person and I wouldn’t be thinking about all the sex that I missed out on.
At the end of the day I just feel that while for certain people sex is the greatest thing known to mankind, I’d rather share that moment with someone truly special
I feel like I’m just more focused on my dreams and aspirations in life than I am with cheap material pleasures.
I’m not saying sex isn’t enjoyable, I’m only saying that I tend to have other things on my mind far more often.
I just feel as though the guys I been noticing who have sex the most often in college, also tend to be the most immature in other areas of life.
A lot of them seem to being doing very poorly in terms of academics. They don’t seem capable of providing for a woman in the future.
But am I correct in this assertion?
To me it’s almost as if guys who want sex all the time just don’t have their priorities in the right places.
But I understand that every guy still has the natural curiosity of wanting his penis to explore a girl’s lady parts as I think about it myself every once in a while.
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