Why do so many Black men fetishize White women? Why I don't see White girls fetishizing Black guys? Why do so many Black girls fetishize White guys?

[Anonymous]

[Effably]

What? Surely black men are far more fetishized. There is a whole vast category around it which has grown so common people don't even bat an eyelash anymore.

I don't really feel there is any common fetishizing happening between white men/black women. Obviusly it might but I have yet to run into that in real life.

Even the whole interracial bit with more fous on the white girl tends to actually sensationalise the black dude.

So if anything I feel it is primarily black men being subjected to it. As to why it remains prevalent? While it might be demeaning most times when a guy is in a position to encounter it he has incentive to just go along or even encourage things.

[Jersey2]

But that’s mainly guys watching porn, not women.

[Effably]

While men probably consume more porn women use it a lot too. I am happy to be wrong though. So feel free to show me how things really are. Learning is fun!

[Jersey2]

There are categories for women, Women Friendly. I am guessing that is where they go. I am sure they browse others but spend a lot less time on prom sites than men. Men are visual. Surprisingly I heard that older white men favor BBC category which I don’t understand. I read this from a woman in the porn industry.

[Carolus]

Because of some biology that they have no control over, if one can prefer to date or marry in terms of height, weight, size, complexion, age or material, what makes race unique? Nothing. You just gotta do what you gotta do, follow your heart. I find blue or green eyes intoxicating like some mysterious animal 🙄, blonde hair is 🔥 and unfortunately you don’t find that in my community.

[Anonymous]

@effably are you even aware of the BWWM novels? Man, that's the most popular kind of interracial novel. In fact, Black men are extremely unpopular on Wattpad where girls write interracial novels.

[Effably]

No, I will admit I have not really been keeping up with my smut reading lately. But is it something you would consider a fetish? Is the focus on their porcelain white skin? What is the selling point? Asking as much out of curiosity as anything.

[Opinion Owner]

@Effably their race and penis size. This is followed by the social status.

[Effably]

Could it be due to the media? White men are probably seen as the most business savvy (although that would be Jews) and socially integrated. And in a written media where the focus is on words and immersion this level of perceived depth might be more attractive than say, something more primal? I will admit as a white dude I do not feel against this though. Write away if you want!

[Opinion Owner]

@Effably I’m relatively sure that Black men are not seen as more desirable than White guys. Height and size matter a lot to women.

[Effably]

Height and size I do not think are very different between black and white men. But yes, I am also rather convinced white men are generally perceived as most attractive. Its just that I do not feel that has much to do with a fetish.

[Opinion Owner]

@Effably The average height of 18-year-old Black men of different ethnicities- San people- 1.5 m (4'11.055) Hadza people- 161.32 cm (5'3.512) Sandawe people- 167 cm (5'5.748) Hausa- 169.84 cm (5'6.866) Hutu - 5'5 Bantu people- 5'6 Congo- 166.8 cm (5'5.669) South Africa- less than 166.68 cm (5'5.622) African Americans- 172.7 cm (5'7.992) Mali- 171.12 cm (5'7.37) Niger- 167.68 cm (5'6.016) Grenada- 176.97 cm (5'9.673) Dinka- 5'9.449 Masai- 5'3.662 Batwa Pygmies- 4'4 Mbuti Pygmies- 4’7 Twa Pygmies- 4’11 Namibia- less than 166.96 cm (5'5.732) Guinea- 167.54 cm (5'5.961) Nuer- 5'9.173 Tanazania- 164.8 cm (5'4.882) Belize- 168.73 cm (5'6.429) Jamaica- 174.53 (5'8.713) Madagascar- 161.55 cm (5'3.602) Botswana- 171.63 cm (5'7.571) Burundi- 166.64 cm (5'5.606) Mauritania- 163.28 cm (5'4.283) Angola- 167.31 cm (5'5.87) Ethiopia- 166.23 cm (5'5.445) Liberia- 163.66 cm (5'4.433) Ghana- 168.85 cm (5'6.476) Rwanda- 162.68 cm (5’4.047) Malawi- 162.23 cm (5’3.87) Guinea Bissau- 167.9 cm (5’6.102)

[Effably]

I googled up a comparison in the U. S and it does appear white men are on average One inch taller there. So I guess the tall thing is true. I wonder if the netherlands wouldn't make girls go crazy.

[Opinion Owner]

@jersey2 nope, most of the consumers of interracial porn are African men.

[Somegirl678]

doesn't every race fetishize every race lol

[Dexter_Morgan42]

Exactly, people are getting carried away calling everything a fetish when it isn't.

[Somegirl678]

@Dexter_Morgan42 Lol true

[Somegirl678]

@Dexter_Morgan42 its just called being attracted to something

[Dexter_Morgan42]

I agree.

[NYlatefun]

Dude these questions are so boring, you're just setting up to get the answers you're looking for...