Is it okay I've only had sex the first time since I lost my virginity at 22?

I haven't slept with anyone since because I'm single and dont usually do hookups this was just a one time thing and we did take precautions but i do have a high sex drive but don't wanna put myself on a low level sleeping around..
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Im 23 years old now.
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  • If you're seeking approval, what you get here will likely be opposite from what your Pastor will say.

    The few opinions already shown: "its your body, do what you want; no big deal, just sex".

    But if you ask you Church, it'll likely be "repent and wait jntil marriage da da da".

    So what's your purpose of asking? I believe you know the two opposing schools of thoughts regarding promiscuous living.

    My opinion is: decide what you want, and then live by it and don't regret. It's just a lifestyle decision.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Nothing happens when you lose your virginity. The sky doesn’t open, there’s no choir singing to you, no flash of light, no epiphany, your body doesn’t change, you don’t change, your mind, brain or emotions don’t change.

    You had sex. That’s it. It’s not that special, you’re not special and it’s normal, not earth-shattering or magical and people don’t just magically fall in love forever with the person to whom they lost their virginity.

    Except sad, delusional people, perhaps.

Most Helpful Girls

  • It is absolutely fine snd is always your choice to enjoy sex or not.

  • You actually doing the right thing by not just sleeping with anyone

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  • One time?
    So this guy was some one night stand, casual sex thing?
    Otherwise I'd expect you and him to keep being intimate.

  • That's completely fine. There's nothing wrong with what you're doing.

  • Well, you made a major mistake. But good for you for not continuing it.

  • That's totally fine.

  • It wasn't until 25 for me

  • i was close to 28

  • It is ok.

  • Your body your choice, nobody can judge you for that, doesn't matter if you slept with 2 man in same time or couple of man different time..

  • Can you describe it?

    • Describe what?

    • Yourself

    • I'm average id say with my features but im 4"11, half latina half white and also average weight, i have a butt and medium size chest.

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  • It's fine. your choice, but in about 20 years, ask yourself, "Would I have enjoyed sex more if I had pursued it with more of those I was attracted to? Was I missing out for MY sake on pleasures in life that only come by on fleeting occasions?"
    More so, "Did it really matter as much as I thought it did..."Virgin / Non-virgin?"