Anyone out there married and their wives have a boyfriend on the side too?

[Anonymous]

My fiancé and I have been talking about her having a boyfriend. At first I was really upset about this and was super against the idea. Now I kinda get it and I understand. She has convinced me it’s ok. I know she loves me and wants to be my wife and only me as her husband. She just wants and needs a little more from time to time. She met this guy and has been talking to him for a few weeks this has been with my permission. He showed her his cock and she can’t stop talking about it now. His dick is huge, kinda shocked me actually. I’m not sure how to keep moving forward with this situation I want to be excited and in some ways I am happy for her and I am happy she is happy. Tell me girls if you have this situation with your husbands and how does it all work out for you guys pros and cons and are your husbands happy and enjoy it. Husbands tell me why do you do it and why does it work?

[Anonymous]

If you're happy that you aren't enough of a man to satisfy her and give her permission to go elsewhere to get dick then I guess that's your call but I don't really understand why you're married and why she is still with you. She probably won't be with you for too much longer when she finds out she has feelings for the guy with the massive cock. And when she does leave you for him just remember you brought it all on yourself

[Asker]

Well I’m not happy about it but it makes me happy to see her happy! I wish I had a big cock to give her. I don’t think she would ever leave me. We love each other very much which is why we are trying to experiment with this situation she wants to be with me she loves me loves our time we have loves our fun she loves everything about me but I can’t give her sexual satisfaction so we are trying to make it work.

[Leonharted]

@Asker, this is painful to listen to. You're not happy about it. Have you no self-respect? It's one thing to like the humiliation, it's another to go along with it while being unhappy. Stand up for yourself and set boundaries.

[Asker]

I’m not happy about having a little dick that can’t please her ultimately I wish we didn’t have to do this but I can’t change my body and I am trying to cope with the situation. She does not want to leave me and we love each other very much we are just not compatible sexually and I’m not compatible sexually for most women out there for that matter. I am adapting to the situation and having an open relationship so we can still be together

[Leonharted]

You’re NOT together. You are unhappy that she’s fucking other men. This isn’t a kink. This is castration. You are buying the cow while others get the milk for free! Stand up for yourself! Have some dignity! You’re a man, act like one, and not like a doormat!

[RobT312]

Sex and marriage are personal things, If it works for you then it’s ok.
for me personally it crosses the line and is too open relationship for me.
we have done a kinky threesome, but doesn’t compare to what u described.
if I were u I’d be jealous, and I don’t think it can make you happy long term.
im engaged and we are bound at the hip, glued together when it comes to everything these days. Neither of us can imagine it any other way.

[Ez-Bri-Z]

My wife and I are both poly and are perfectly fine with the other one dating other people.

[Asker]

Ok thanks

[Leonharted]

No, I am not a cuck, nor do I have any interest in being a cuck.

[Asker]

I don’t want to be with the guy or anything like that. I just want to make her happy

[Leonharted]

A cuck isn't a homosexual. A cuck is its own thing.

https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/cuckold

[Asker]

Ok but she has my permission, it’s better then her doing it behind my back it seems like it could add to the relationship. She’s just being honest. Besides I was asking an opinion from those who currently are doing or have tried this thanks

[Leonharted]

Ok. Your permission doesn't change anything. It's still cuckolding.

[Berethor]

Pathetic, you allowed her to turn to into a cuck and beta male.

[Asker]

It’s not like that, I’m not trying to be with the guy and let him fuck me or suck his dick or anything I confident in my sexuality and understand because I am not made for penetration

[Berethor]

But you made for sloppy seconds, don't you? and what was the point in marrying her?

[Asker]

I love her very much and we have a really great relationship and have a lot of fun together. I get why she needs it I am much smaller. She hasn’t been with the guy she’s talking to yet. But she gets so excited talking about his cock. He sent her a dick pick and it’s huge. One of her exes was like 8 inches so she says it has to be at least that big for her to feel anything now. She loves me but I’m much smaller

[Citizenkirk]

You mean are there any hedonist out there?

[888theGreat]

You are a wimp , maybe a closet fag

[Asker]

Not sure why you have to talk shit just trying to figure this whole mess out. You have no idea what happens in peoples lives you’re an ass

[Zygum]

In USA and Europe, it is very common, that married women have affairs with other men, cheating their husbands

[888theGreat]

Look at Europeans , the morals of a goat , so that is probably true and their countries are shit holes

[Anonymous]

My ex-wife had a boyfriend on the side.

[Asker]

Ex wife so it didn’t work out then?

[Anonymous]

Dude, if your fiancé is already talking about having a Side Boyfriend and you haven't tied the knot yet then something is seriously wrong with your relationship. I really think it's disrespectful on her part and a Big Red Flag.

[Asker]

See I think we talked about everything before marriage we worked through it all and the only real Hangup we have is the sex. I have had issues with penis size my whole life with all women. With my fiancé she loves me and we want to be married for ever but we are trying to work out the sex. This seems to be like a coping decision so we can be happy forever

[888theGreat]

She probably likes his money , but if he said no, she would just sneak around , then they would divorce and she would get half. I think that is her plan marry the smuck , then run off with telephone man and she will still get half of the smuck's money

[Anonymous]

Im married to a white girl,

but she only sleeps with black men,
and all of our kids are black/ mixed.

we are married, but she won't let me touch her, unless it’s cleaning her up. After she has sex with a black guy.

[Asker]

Well that sucks, my fiancé is not like that we still have our sex fun together and our relationship is awesome. She is only missing being with a larger man. She was married for 8 years to a guy with a 9 inch dick and she is used to that I guess. So now we try and make it work and this is the way we are trying to cope with it. I’m just trying to learn as much as I can about what her and I are trying to do. She hasn’t yet been with this other guy yet. I have to admit I seen the dick pic this guy sent her and I’m actually not worried and curious to see it this thing is huge. She says it’s bigger then her ex husband.

[888theGreat]

That is BS troll trying to be funny

[Anonymous]

the idea was a big turn on for me, we started like that at first with her telling me everything about it and how big his cock is, now we advance to me watching her with him all the times, I discovered that I'm a true cuck, and this lifestyle is working for all of us, she is happy and I am happy, now we are considering advancing to me sucking his cock and we are both excited about it.

[Asker]

Oh wow I started getting aroused just reading your post. She hasn’t met the guy yet which has been super exciting for me to here about their conversations. When she told me she found the perfect guy with a bigger cock, I had no idea it was going to be that big. He sent her a dick pic and this thing is huge. Her face lights up when she talks about it though so I’m happy for her just never knew she wanted something that big. I don’t want to ever have to suck this thing it’s way to big.

[Opinion Owner]

I get aroused every time I think about it, sucking a big thing doesn't mean you have to deep throat it, just feeling it getting thick and erect in your mouth is arousing enough, but I understand it'd not for everybody, haven't you ever though about touching it at least or even just seeing it up close in person?

[Asker]

I mean it makes me happy to see my fiance light up. I have never seen a big cock before especially one this big. I do kinda want to see it just for the sight of it. I’m not sure about touching it. Depends what my fiancé would want but I’m pretty sure I don’t want it in my mouth maybe just touch it.

[Opinion Owner]

Nothing wrong with that, it's normal to have such curiosity, I also like when my woman talk about it with enthusiasm just like you do, it's hot.

[inked2014]

Is your wife/ girlfriend your dominant and you are submissive to her?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes I'm more submissive to her especially when it comes to sex

[inked2014]

This is what I thought. Are you kept locked in chastity?

[Opinion Owner]

No she keep me unlocked because she likes to see me getting little erection while watching her with his big cock

[Anonymous]

Not a boyfriend but she's had other sex partners

[Opinion Owner]

I like seeing her happy and enjoying herself

[Asker]

While you guys are married I’m assuming? How did that come up how does it work for you guys? Did you like it? Did she like it, was it good or bad for you guys?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes well we were married she wanted to try a bigger penises. I'm a little bit jealous but also very aroused by it but it works good for us now we both enjoy it

[Asker]

Was it hard to do at first how did you cope with it? Had she been with any that were really big? The guy my fiancé is talking to is scary big but her face lights up when she talks about it. He sent her a dick pic and I saw it this thing is massive.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah I was a little hard at first and yeah she's had some really big ones she usually shows me pictures or tells me about it. How did you feel when you seen how big he was did it turn you on at all

[Asker]

Well when she first told me she saw his dick my heart dropped but then she told me it was a picture he sent she just told me he was huge bigger then her ex husband which I knew it was 8 inches but skinny. This guy she showed me his picture is almost 10 inches he used a ruler next to it and it’s really fat like super thick. I mean I am curious to see it to be honest because it’s like wow even for me!

[Opinion Owner]

Well that is big only bad thing is she probably ain't going to want your dick anymore after having that one

[Opinion Owner]

Would you like to watch him put it in her