Why did he cheat?

[MorningStar69]

I give him head at least once a day, we have amazing sex everyday. He cums 2-3 times a day minimum, so why did he cheat?

[MrOracle]

There's not nearly enough information to know WHY he cheated - we can just say that the AMOUNT of sex he was already getting wasn't the problem.

But we understand the reasons why most cheating men cheat:

- lack of sex from their partner (not the cause here)
- feeling unwanted or unappreciated by their partner
- generally being a selfish, self-centered, entitled person
- being approached/seduced by a very attractive and very willing woman (rare for most men)

As stated, the first reason clearly doesn't apply here, so you would have to figure out which of the other reasons it might be. While I suspect it's the third reason, it *could* be the second reason, even despite the sex. In other words, you might give him a ton of great sex, but if you don't appreciate or respect him in other aspects, he might still feel bad enough that he felt he needed to seek solace and validation elsewhere. I'm not in any way condoning that behavior, rather I'm just saying that in that situation, that's how he would justify it to himself.

You're the one in the best position to determine the likely reason.

[JoeyyZee]

When did he cheat? On a long weekend away from you, or in the same day you've been having sex with him?

If he a was away, guys just like sex. Women are beautiful, and we like to touch and taste them, especially if they have a lot of testosterone.

If it was in the same day you guys were having sex, he may not have much of feelings for you and find you disposable or she was so gorgeous he thought the risk outweighed the reward.

[MorningStar69]

On a night out, right after we had the best sex ever. He went out and had sex with another woman

[Firesparks]

He's not the guy for you cause it sounds like all he cares about sex with any girl n not being faithful.. I can't see why anyone would cheat... I'm 100 % faithful

[SnakeBoop]

sex doesn't equal everything... the fact you thought so says it all

[MorningStar69]

No, we have a good relationship overall. We travel, do a lot of activities, share some of the same hobbies. I feel like our relationship is very good. We really get along.

[SnakeBoop]

obviously not that good if he's cheating.

[Berethor]

Greedy, it was not your fault that he has cheated.

[AviatorTom]

Maybe because you put too much emphasis on sex. Try emphasizing doing things together, having a relationship. Men usually don't cheat for just sex, it's something deeper... companionship.

[exitseven]

It is not always about the sex. Maybe it is the excitement of getting away with something.

[Zebadee88]

Just maybe you gave too much?
He might feel pressured to perform.

He has no excuse for sex elsewhere though.

[awkward_author]

He wanted someone else to fill the gap he felt was in the relationship. Maybe he wanted something new? Bad decision while under the influence? Hyper-sexuality?

[VikingWarLord]

You have average looks, he thinks he can get away with it.
I know how dudes think, I'm the same way, if she she's below 7 out of 10 in looks, I'm definitely gonna cheat.

[jspl90]

well sir that just make you a cunt with no selfcontrol

[VikingWarLord]

@jspl90 Oh ya, I am definitely a sadistic baastard prick for sure, but I have more control than ye might think little lad

[jspl90]

eh sure whatever you say "big" lad

[Mr1derful]

Great question! If I was getting that much attention, that thought would never enter my mind to cheat. Plus I'm not a cheater by nature anyway. But that scenario sounds amazing!

[Caunsos]

Because he a fucking idiot

[vald9inches]

We are all human 🤷

[hafinjun]

Well let me guess , gee honey , I just couldn't resist her, you know me I'll fuck a cute dog.
Etc. Etc. You can't trust him, not now not ever, you sound like a good woman go find a guy who appreciates more then your willingness to satisfy

[jahaims]

Probably because you are a simp. A bad person took advantage of that.

[Still-alive]

Cause he's an asshole. Dump him

[motownplayer2000]

So, did you ask him what he likes.. what stimulates him other than sex? Do you push him to be better in his dreams… sex won’t always keep a man. Y’all think men are super easy and simple. However, there are some men that need more than just a wet pussy and a warm mouth.. keep doing that, but also need to find ways to stimulate his mind and keep him mentally and emotionally invested. Not just physical.. because it’s like they say, new pussy is more exciting pussy. (I don’t know who said that, I think I made that up)

[Juxtapose]

Men have a biological drive to impregnate many women.

I find myself sometimes fantasizing about other people if I am with somebody for a while but I am not the type to sleep around without permission. Cheaters are bad.

[jasco]

Some people just can't be happy

[Naughtyboy71]

Greedy more he get more he wants
Does he ever think of your needs

[Ray123456]

Cause you're showing your body to strangers on the internet

[legalboxers]

who knows, I never got amazing head, then again I dont want amazing head after she thought it was a chew toy

[Twalli]

Variety or because despite sex you weren't giving him all that he felt he needed in a relationship.

[LegendaryIcon]

why does anyone cheat

TO GET AWAY WITH IT

I guarantee you, the only LEGIT reason to cheat... is to get away with it

Just look at trump