Why do some people with high bodycounts think they're the best at sex?

[Anonymous]

If you've been with 75 different people and none of them wanted to keep you, isn't that saying something?

[RearEntryGuy]

I wonder how many here play a musical instrument like violin or trumpet?

During school days, we might have multiple instruments. We tried the horn, the trombone, etc. But none of us dare say we're "amateur", much less professional in it.

But once in a while, we read of auctions of THE instrument of a renounced professional who passed away.

Ya. This is my analogy to sex.

Have more doesn't make a person professional, perhaps not even amateur.

But when committed to one, that's what makes a professional when that special one follows through all big and small "performances".

[ManOnFire]

I think it's like a war medal mindset for them: "I've fucked loads of people so that makes me an expert." Nah. They have simply had opportunities to fuck more often than others but really doesn't necessarily equate to being good at it.

However, I think the only people who think they're experts are the ones who've fucked loads of people from hookups, one night stands, etc. People who've had sex with several different partners in an actual relationship don't think of themselves as experts when the truth is they're more qualified for the title than the people who just fuck at random.

[Jamie05rhs]

It's not even about opportunity. Shit... opportunity is abundant! It's out there if you go looking for it.

[ManOnFire]

@Jamie05rhs Well, I suppose that's true. Always seems to be for me though that the women who want to have sex with me are not my type. They're available but I just can't get into them. Pardon the pun.

[Jamie05rhs]

@ManOnFire Yeah. I didn't say they were good options. And lol. I see what you did there.

[Jamie05rhs]

I wouldn't go for any of them simply because I wouldn't date a girl who's willing to have sex before marriage. I want a woman with morals.

[ManOnFire]

@Jamie05rhs I need your discipline😂

[Jamie05rhs]

@ManOnFire Haha thanks, man.

[kyleelyn199723]

If you have had sex with 75 people and you didn’t want to keep any of them, are you really a quality person or so you just go for any person? That’s how I look at it. Can’t say much about the 75 people, but having 75 bodies and none of them are your girlfriends /wife or boyfriend/husband that says a lot about that one person

[ManOnFire]

@kyleelyn199723 True, and I don't have a great opinion about them either, how do we know these high body count folks didn't want those 75 bodies as gfs/wives/bfs/husbands either? Maybe all they wanted was just the fuck.

[kyleelyn199723]

@manonfire those people that wanted all those people as husbands/wives have low standards. A person that is husband/wife material is hard to find

[ManOnFire]

Very, very true.

[RobT312]

Why are people so into body count?
i think it means nothing. Maybe you learn stuff from different partners, maybe that helps make you better... but it’s not really gonna change the way u have sex or change your drive.
when I was looking for a girlfriend , her past as a slut or virgin meant nothing to me

[Wester1967]

Their entire self worth is connected to sex because they get taught wrongly that's all men want. Like Brittany Renner. Constantly acting like being a good whore is the end all be all. But can she cook a wall to wall italian spread? Can she sing? Play guitar? Does she have any skill besides nobbing? Can she hold a conversation that is not about the dumbest most vapid superficial BS imaginable for more than 2 minutes? Does she have a philosophy? A purpose? ... High body count is a huge turnoff for me. Even board banging sex 24/7 for 100 straight years doesn't make a meaningful life.

[awkward_author]

Some people choose to have casual sex, so a high body count doesn't, necessarily, reflect on their ability to please their partner.

[VikingWarLord]

Much practice Much wisdom Much Mastery

[clampfan101]

A and B. Especially B.

[Dchrls78104]

I know a taxi driver who'd been driving since I was a small boy over 30 years ago; his wealth of experience on the road did not make him a good driver because he wrecked every car he ever drove! A high body count only adds mileage; and higher mileage equals shorter service life, more wear and tear and other complications, and lower overall value!

[hafinjun]

Probably for the same reason some guys with really big dicks think it's enough that they have it and they really don't have to do anymore to satisfy someone

[Luckycharms12]

Good sex is about quality not about how many you had

[Anonymous]

People with high body counts are people that no one wants for a long term relationship. They just keep coming and going. If a girl was a cute sweetheart I would try to keep her like a treasure. Not find some other whore to have sex with.