Are people who feel they are against BDSM practices quite vanilla in your opinion?
i personally think yup. they need to chill. traditional sex reminds me of fixed gender roles... which is a huge turn off (and kind of a deal breaker). lemme save you the trouble of asking "so you wouldn't date a man who's anti BDSM" i would say i wouldn't date a woman like that either. sexual compatibility is a huge thing, and i don't want either of us to be uncomfortable.
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