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Why do girls pretend like penis size doesn't matter?

My girlfriend has openly admitted being penetrated by a larger one feels way better.

She's not the first girl I've heard that from either.
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  • For most, average size is sufficient if the guy has staying ability and can give her a g-spot orgasm. They are unaware of erogenous spots deep in their vaginas. To them penis size doesn't matter.

    Girls that have experienced orgasms from those deep spots definitely want longer penises in the future.

    Those that have had thick penises want a size that's comfortable but gives then a fullness feeling. The larger thickness also puts more pressure on their g-spot and more likely to give them an orgasm.


    I have a long thick penis and this has been my experience.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Because a lot of women (and men) like to lie?

    8" is a little too big for her, 7" is the ideal, 6" is not good, and 5 is "don't even bother wasting my time."
    8" is a little too big for her, 7" is the ideal, 6" is not good, and 5 is "don't even bother wasting my time."

    • so 7 inches is ideal?

    • According to women and various scientific studies, yes. 7 to 7.5 inches is the ideal length. 8.5 or more can hurt them by hitting the cervix and anything less than 7 isn't desirable/wanted by most women. (Some women under five feet tall may be into only 6 inches, though. Most women don't want that though; it's barely "average.") Girth matters more anyway, and performance matters the most. But yeah, more than 6, less than 8, is ideal.

    • I usually date women 5ft2 in height, would they need less? I'm 7 inches for the record, 5.5 around

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Most Helpful Girls

  • They don't want to hurt the feelings of lesser endowed men.

    The truth is size DOES matter... quite a bit. I've kicked men out of my bedroom/hotel room/etc. because their penises were too small for my liking. Thankfully my current beau has a freakin' monster between his legs.

  • I've never understood this pretence myself. I think it was put out there by doctors to make tiny guys feel less inadequate

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  • Because just like you found one who does care there is another who doesn't care. It isn't a universal statement for all women either way.

  • Well it is pretty obvious there are girls who do like being fucked by a guy with a larger penis especially if he knows what to do with it!

    • sounds like you've met a few guys like this

    • I have and am married to one as well

  • Most girls don't care for the weirdness of men measuring themselves.
    Size will always matter to an extent, but it varies person to person as to how much.

  • First size preference is not universal for all women second yes it can feel better but its not the most important factor to feel good

    • It's the second most important factor, though. You can teach a guy who's 7 inches how to be good, but if he's only 5 or less, then he'll never be able to satisfy a woman.

    • 5 can easily be enough And even a guy with 0 can satisfy a woman

    • No heterosexual woman on Earth wants a guy with a small dick. I'd say queer women maybe, but they don't want men at all. Why you lying? That's exactly why this guy asked this question.

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  • There’s no pretending. To me it simply does not matter. I can’t speak for anyone else, nor can anyone else.

  • She's right. I don't pretend it doesn't make a difference cuz it does

  • @allrightbyme lol !!! penis size matter for girls !

  • Because girls need an emotional connection to be able to relax and enjoy the experience generally. So while it matters there are other things that matter more.

  • To protect our ego.

    Mostly it does matter, but not a lot if it's around average. They are just " oh look it's a dick and it functions."

    It's just a huge bonus if it's a bit longer and girthy, but not too long. Then they are "oh, interesting"

  • Women will lie--intentionally or otherwise--about many things they pretend aren't important but are. Penis size is not the only one.

    Why do you think so many men are utterly confused and lost with regards to attracting women? They're told all the wrong things.

  • I've never met a woman that says it doesn't matter; I don't know where you get that from

  • it matters if too big or too small

  • because they would never get any dick, if they said it does... DUH... they don't want to hurt 99% of the male population

  • Penis size matter to women, I have 9x5 inches , girls/women, they like to have sex with me and after sex, they are very happy and praise my penis

  • You can measure me by the number of times you say "Oh my God" while I'm making sweet, sweet love to your lady parts.

  • Just as everyones body is different, everyone has different sensitivities in different areas. Some woman feel deep penetration is very painful, others it feels very, very good. Might just be natures way of matching people up.

  • Size matters to them, no matter what they might say otherwise.

  • They know how much it can bruise a guys ego.

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