Guys, Date Rape : Do you think Girl is Also Responsible ?

Question

If a Girl get raped on her date then do you think girl is also responsible to trusting on that Guy Blindly? with out Giving enough time to know and Verify about his Back Grounds and Past History and Records?
Many Girls Just see " Rich Guys " and they fall for them like " Gold Diggers " !!! And then if they get raped/ abused/ Deceived then they put All blame to those Guys !!!

Guys, Date Rape : Do you think Girl is Also Responsible ?

JasM0 · Accepted Answer

Thanks for the invitation!

First, I’ll attribute some of the victim-blaming no the possibility of English not being the OP’s primary language. There is never a circumstance to justify physical or mental violations of people.

Secondly, violations are only the responsibility of the perpetrator (s).

Finally, agency is the responsibility of both parties - meaning that each party should avoid participating in the hook up culture and invest time in due diligence before being intimate with an unknown person (s).

Regards

MrKinktastic · Accepted Answer

Obviously the guy is 100% at fault if we are talking about him raping a girl.

It’s a tiny bit more grey if she gets herself drunk (as opposed to has her drink spiked or he buys her a bunch of drinks) but it’s still shady to take advantage of a drunk girl and no decent guy would have sex with her if she’s obviously intoxicated and didn’t agree to sex beforehand.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

Misogyny 101, chapter 1: Blame the victim. 👎

Stoner710 · Answer

No she’s not she should be careful no one is slipping anything into her drink but it’s not her fault

libsaretards · Answer

Yes and no. Just because she let her guard down does not mean the guy had to be a prick and take advantage. That being said, at the end of the day each person is responsible for their own individual safety and need to take steps to ensure their safety. We live in a cruel, unfair world.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Or, guys that merely LOOK rich.
If they're gold digger, I guess it kind of IS partly their fault but ONLY if the guy IS rich or LOOKS like he's rich. Any ordinary schlub would NEVER get away with blaming HER for being a gold digger.

backdoorman · Answer

Nope.

whosDmann · Answer

You can't rape the willing...🤷‍♂️

Luckyman298 · Answer

I mean everyone has a responsibility to keep themselves safe, and be aware of general dangers around them. Yes it's bad to put yourself on bad situations but we can't exclude the guy who actually doing the date rape. He is always going be the one to blame and it's kinda insane to try and shift the responsibility to the victim

AndrésC64 · Answer

No. Rape is always wrong no matter what the situation and no matter what the genders of the people involved are.

Jay3344 · Answer

Date rape is horrible whether it’s a man or a woman being raped. It’s tough to prevent because it can happen whether it’s someone you know or don’t know, trust or don’t trust. It can happen because of drugs or threats of violence. That’s all I really have to say about it.