I’m sexually attracted to my boyfriend’s best friend?
Have you been in this situation?
Is it common for friends fantasising sexually about other friends’ partners?
I am married but we don't have much of a sex life. I don't fantasize about other guys girl. But my wife and I have a mutual friend, I fantasize about her. I don't know if I should tell her or not, mostly because I don't want it to be awkward. But also she doesn't give out a whole lot of hints. So I get your pain. Give it some time and focus on the after effects. Will you be together with him or is it just a one time fling.
Im sure it’s perfectly normal especially if you can’t “technically” have the other person. Human beings tend to loathe what they already possess and envy what they dont have. “Grass is greener on the otherside”. Unfortunately this lust usually backfires so tread carefully
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You know how the best friend is avoiding you? That's because he's not so sleazy as to hurt his best friend in that way.
Don't do it, don't pursue it, don't cause it to happen, unless that you know for sure that both of them are willing to go along with it.
Otherwise you are going to cause a lot of misery that won't easily, if ever, be forgotten.
It's common. If you think you're be night be up for it you could ask him for a threesome.
Um yeah it happens. We have a 3 way love crush with my best friend.
he started it actually. So, we had a threesome. It actually made our relationships stronger
Well just remember the truth always comes out then ask yourself would you want it happened to you in reverse your boyfriend picking up on one of your girlfriends and doing that are wanting to do that is be better just to get out of the relationship but then Blue Skies go out with one of their friends girlfriends there's kind of a buddy rule about that
He would keep avoiding you.
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I would say that it can be common. Do you think if given the chance that you would totally do it?
Before we get started how would u feel about this situation if your boyfriend wanted to fuck your best friend
Yes, of course.
Been there.
Try asking your boyfriend if you can. Maybe he would like to watch
Or
Ask if you can have a 3some with him
Or
Just do it and ask for forgiveness
I’ve been there
yeah it’s common
hey girl 😊
Yes, it happens we get hormones, and it drives us crazy , Welcome back gorgeous
It's common. We're all human. I suggest giving it time to see how things play out.
He avoids you cuz he's smarter than you. LOL
Everybody fantasizes, but mature adults know what to act on.
Sit down with your Boyfriend and read the book "SEX AT DAWN" by Cacilda Jetha and Christopher Ryan. It's your only hope
Yes. I have been in that place too
This is not good and you are being very unfair to your boyfriend. So get a grip.
All I can say is stick with your boyfriend. One man at a time, hoping he’s “The One”.
It's common but that's cause your building a relationship with that person and sometimes there personality gives you that sexual tension. I suggest that you talk to his best friend and talk about this sexual between you two and see if talking about it ease the sexual temptation. Its okay maybe to fantasize but if you act there might be some problems.
Leave your boyfriend. If you want to fuck other dudes you shouldn't be in a relationship
I mean yea it happens, as for me. No not that I know of
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