Guys, do you fantasise about having sex with your friends’ girlfriends?

Yes, quite a lot
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It depends, sometimes
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Very rarely
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Never
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  • I did when I was young because their girlfriends were often my friends who happened to be girls too.

    However, this was rare and became rarer because of ethical issues regarding their couplehood. Also, if I sensed that she never thought of me in that way, that would disincentivize me to fantasize about her.

    For instance, I have a very very attractive coworker. You can see the impact that she has on any male. Yet, despite how close we've been, I RARELY (but still do) fantasize about her. She is married and I've worked for her husband who is a wonderful guy. I love them both platonically. So, I usually do not think of her in that way. Also, I am not good-looking anymore - definitely not as attractive as her husband, I believe (I'm not a girl, so what do I know) - so I doubt she ever thought of me in that way. Still, on some occasions (like her birthday), I do fantasize about her.

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  • I said "Never", but upon further thought, it actually HAS happened before or after they were dating. Not while. I don't do disloyalty, either my romantic partners OR my friends. Once they're dating someone, that someone is off limits, so far as my fantasizing goes.

    • Once my friends are, that is. I'm allowed to fantasize about myself.

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  • Never. My SO is extremely good looking. Her girlfriends are decidedly NOT.

    "I don't understand why Susan can't find a guy?"

    The fact that Susan weighs over 100 kilos likely has something to do with that.

    In any case, there isn't a single member of the herd that I'd want to see naked, much less take to bed.

  • Yes I used to do this a lot. Horny w/ high sex drive when I was young.
    more tame now and satisfied with my girlfriend

  • Haha no not really there was a girl a long time ago maybe. To be honest I always had that fantasy about you though.
    When you used to come on here a long time ago used ask some hot hot questions it always had me turned on welcome back LOL

  • I think it’s probably the most natural thing to imagine. If it’s constant that may be a problem.

  • I mean, guys fantasise about everything. So, yes.

    However, I usually don't get emotionally involved for obvious reasons.

  • Nooe for me that's a line I wouldn't cross so no point thinking about it

  • If I like them or there attractive of course. Just the same as any other girl really.

  • Everybody does, I think. In my early 30's, my boyfriend's girlfriend asked me: (when he was in Canada fishing) "Why have you never made a pass at me"? She made her intentions known. HE, her boyfriend asked me: "Does Sue (my girlfriend) moan when you are fucking her"?

    Almost impossible not to at that age

  • I don't have many friends; and many of THEM have a partner who's not really my type.
    So my temptations are at a minimum.
    It did happen once or twice in my life - but my friends are too dear to me; no action was taken ;)

  • When I masturbate I can think of them while I'm doing it and think about a female friend who makes me hot

  • Very rarely. Even the ones that were hot.

  • nope never go there
    my own fem friends yea
    not my male friends gfs

  • Of course, we're not Monogamous creatures, especially as males, we are looking to conquer as many heauxs as possible.

  • Usually in a 3rd wheel/submissive situation. Kinda hot when she’s in control ;-)

  • If I am attracted to them, sure.

  • Yup, if they are attractive or if they are a tease.
    Some of them I knew well before they became boyfriend and girlfriend, so yeah definitely thought about having sex with those ones as well.

  • Not really, I just can't. There are too many women's on earth, I don't why I would phantasize with a friend girlfriend/wife or ex.

  • C. I have done that.

  • I try not to but if I accidentally catch one of my bros girlfriends naked or in a sexy outfit showing off the goods it kinda hard not too. But its very rare especially if I got a girl myself.

  • I think about sex so much that it just may pop in my head by default, but I swiftly change course.

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