How to tell a girl that I have a small dick without showing so that she knows and doesn't shout later?

[Genief]

[youngmix]

Don't worry, no one is appealing to everyone. Just let everything flow, and although it sounds like you don't want to waste your time, which I understand, I don't think most women will care.

FYI, I can easily orgasm during sex with a guy who has a 4.5 inch penis if he knows how to angle himself, grind it the right way, pound it right, and very easily if I'm on top. I can orgasm in seconds from a 4.5 inch penis when I'm on top.

I know this because I was with a guy who was acting like you are, and it was a little sad. Everything was going very well, and when it looked like we were going to his place, he got all self conscious and hesitant. He wouldn't even look me in the eyes. And then he asked me how I felt about size.

I told him size doesn't matter to me, and then I got ready to see a very tiny penis, but he was actually kind of thick, and once he got hard, he seemed normal to me.
Eventually, he told me that an ex-gf cheated on him with a guy who was about double his length.

Later on, I asked him if he liked having sex with me, and he said yes. Then we had more sex.

[Genief]

Nice actually. It always feels like maybe d girl might desire other guys who are bigger. That is what goes on in the mind that maybe she fantasises other men who are bigger

[youngmix]

It sounds like this has gotten deep into your head, like it's what you are thinking about most if not all of the time while you are having sex. Maybe you're thinking, "She looks like she could take it deeper, and I can't give her any more." Have you put her in position to give her more, positions that go really deep? Have you started pounding? Is she flexible enough? Do you care if she starts to act like she is in pain or moans loudly? Most importantly, I think you should start thinking about this in an entirely new dynamic. Try thinking, "If we have sex, I'm going to do everything I like, and use you to get what I want." Because I don't think you are really using your or someone else's body to get what you want. Forget what someone else thinks, just kick the door down and take what you want. I'm not telling you to be a selfish person, just to start actually enjoying the sex you are having. If you like eating pussy, or you're good at it, then get some of that in there in between trying new positions, or after pounding a while in the same position. I would much rather have sex with a guy who is there to fuck and get his by using my body, than a guy who isn't really there with me, a man who hasn't accepted that we are actually having sex after I have chose him. When you do get to have sex, accept what you are doing, and until she says "No" or "Stop", take everything you want. When you or her are ready to end it, if you need to do something specific that helps you orgasm, then tell her to do that thing. That's my advice to you. It sounds like something inside of you is telling you that you are small, but you don't have to be that way. You don't have to accept it.

[Genief]

Yes but even I have seen her checking out other guys that's when I start seeing inadequacy. I m so pressured about sex that I don't feel like having. After sex she just tells uff and sleeps off. I won't even know if it was good

[youngmix]

I'm sorry that your relationship feels that way for you, but her checking out other guys doesn't make you less of a man. And I will keep to what I said, get what you want out of it, and if she wants to stay, then she does. But until then, get as much enjoyment out of her as you can. Appreciate the time you have with another person's body, use it as much as you can, and if she wants to leave, then she will. I don't think you can do anything about that, but only you have a chance at enjoying yourself.

[Genief]

Interestingg let me try that out. I think that would reduce all the anxiety about sex

[acooke-13]

Don't. It's like me telling a guy I have small boobs so he's not disappointed, and they usually aren't anyway. So don't worry, you'll be fine.

[Genief]

Small boobs are visible right. Guy already knows it

[acooke-13]

@genief Yes, as much as I hate them they're still there!

[Loveisgirthy]

Dick size is fairly visible as well just a reminder

[2021biguy]

Tell a girl right away and she won't talk to you anymore, but at least you won't get heartbroken later after you fall in love and she finds out you have a small cock and disappears.

[Genief]

If I say using words it might look like I am some predator or she might just say I don't need to know that

[2021biguy]

You can't win, lol

[Anonymous]

Start making out, pt your hand in her panties and finger her til she cums, then ask her for a handjob.

[Genief]

Yes but definetly she would need sex right. It would be like lesbian sex

[watercolor_lions]

How big is it? It might not be small

[Genief]

It's lik 2 inch soft. 4.5 hard

[bones_20]

How do you know that it’s going to be an issue because it’s small?
Most normal people do not care or even notice things like that so just don’t say anything and don’t worry about such things.

[awkward_author]

You can just tell her what size it is, and let her decide for herself what she thinks.

[VikingWarLord]

Get a Penis Extender and a Hydromax Bathmate.

Trust me IT WORKS

[BarryLiverstone]

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We have a troll here. Nothing to see

[Genief]

Is it a troll if I really have a small dick. What's a troll

[BarryLiverstone]

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Internet_troll

[Loveisgirthy]

Noone knows except her, how she's gonna take it

[TheFlak38]

tell her and you'll get dumped.

[HelenJacob]

show yourself

[Genief]

How do I show myself? Without being nude or flashing

[Jintendo18]

Bruh

[Neko_Nya]

Tell her the size

[nudeNhorny]

I don't think that is a good idea, but you can try to find out if size matters to her in conversation.

[Zygum]

You asker her about her favorite size, and you know your size, if you are OK, according to her favorite, then tell him, I am ok

[Mentallyexhausted]

Most girls really do not care. In fact, for some women it can be painful. So being small down there isn't really all that bad. You are probably being harder on yourself... Don't compare it to other guys. The average size is only about 5 inches.

[Genief]

I am like 4.5

[Anonymous]

tell it to go, why do you worry so much? Why do you always attach importance to people who only like your limbs and don't like you for who you are?

[Anonymous]

Don't even bother.
You have a small dick and most women have small minds, it's a bad combination.
If you can't compete with porn these days it's gonna be a rough relationship.