Guys, He ejaculates more from masturbating? What could this mean about me?

[Anonymous]

So my boyfriend and I have sex everyday. He cums inside my vagina and I always see it coming back out of me. Sometimes it's a huge amount and sometimes it's pretty small. But he also masturbates. Well, one day I saw a napkin that he used to jerk off with and the whole napkin was wet. We had already had sex that day and e came a lot from masturbating but I don't think he usually has big loads like that inside me. Is it possible that I'm not completely get him off? He always says that he cums really hard with me but I don't know. Why does he have bigger loads when he masturbates than he does when he has sex with me? I'm really curious.

[RearEntryGuy]

Science: average volume of an ejaculation is about 3 to 5 cc.

Hence your eyes create deception on both the napkin and that which flows out.

If you want it accurate,

1) suggest to him, that you have a fantasy to see him masturbate and then ejaculate.

When he did, use your hand to contain the cum. A single hand is likely big enough to hold all the cum. Try it.

(What you do with it after that will determine if he'll let you do it again.)

2) and after sex, whatever that flows out is just a portion mixed with yours.

It's about the same amount when he masturbates.

To conclude, no worries. You're good because he keeps having sex with you everyday.

All you need is to think of a "reward" scheme so that he stops masturbating. (Ya, if you guys fuck everyday, he doesn't need to wank.)

[Asker]

I have the same question. Why does he still masturbate then if he has me? Kinda seems like maybe my pussy isn't giving him adequate orgasms, right?

[RearEntryGuy]

When I was in my 20s, I'm legit a bull LOL! I need to fuck 2 to3 times a day, almost daily. Likely we're the highly sexual type. If you want him to stop masturbating, then propose to him some "exchange". Like I suggested, masturbate with him, or bj or two rounds a day. But the conditition is no wank no porn. Yes, be creative. It's a good opportunity to "buy" him with your charm. (Smile)

[Asker]

We do fuck one or two times. everyday. Lol I don't know why he still needs to masturbate. And yes I suck his dick as well.

[RearEntryGuy]

Then he really have no self-control. You can gently request him to focus on you and "save up" for the next session. I find doing so exciting and romantic.

[Asker]

I have asked him to do this for me. He will not.

[RearEntryGuy]

It may mean a porn addiction or compulsive habit to masturbate. The vagina is made up of tissues and can expand contract to fit the penis perfectly. But a hand has bones and hence can grip very hard, so hard that in a long run it makes the penis less sensitive. (Just guessing) Your boyfriend may have this symptom, making him desire masturbation despite just had sex. Do not confront him or he may retaliate. It's a very sensitive issue. If you could encourage him NOT to use strength to masturbate, or even without hands, then the sensitivity will return after a few months. Just a guess. You may find out and then take positive action.

[Asker]

He cums with me I'm pretty sure. I see it running out of my vagina and it lands on the bed. It doesn't leave a white crusty stain though it just leaves a clear stain with an outline around it. Could that just be precum I guess? He says He cums in me..

[RearEntryGuy]

Of course he cum, fully and completely. I was saying the difference in feelings if he masturbates with a strong grip. Get me? Your vagina is tissue. The "grip" is like muscles at most. His hands are hard with bones inside. Hence he may feel a lot better masturbating, after sex. And I think this "habit" can be abolished because I was once such a guy.

[Boromir]

You are giving it _so_ too much thought… First of all, the amount of semen that comes out is mainly defined by how long ago it was that he had an orgasm and not about the difference in intensity between an orgasm in a vagina or self made. It’s not a competition between his hands and your vagina.

You can’t compare what flows back out of you with the stains on a cum rag, you’re really, really imagining things here.

Most men will still masturbate when they’re in a relationship, like a lot of women too, that’s totally fine and normal, he might very well think of the great sex he had with you just hours before. And what’s the final aim here? Keep his balls drained like 24/7 ? Get some stress out of this story please and enjoy the good sex.

[IceEmbers]

If I may help. It also depends on the frequency of masturbation. If you say it after sex, it probably a lot due to the fact only a percent of the sperm will backflow out of your body. And when you see him ejaculate, your seeing an exact volume. Also after about 5-15mins the sperm mobile outside of the body so it will essentially spread over the surface area that it is covering. It may seem like it more, but being simulated by sexual activity usually does produce more than soloing. This is what I've notice over time with my wife and our lifestyle. Hope this help.

[Asker]

While this makes a lot of sense, I do have to ask what you mean when you say that only a percent of his cum will come back out of me? I believe I see all of it come out pretty immediately after sex, because I don't have anymore of it come back out later or anything?

[mark000h]

You sound like a sweet girl. It's not you. Different times different amounts come. It also depends on how often he did it before.

[Asker]

He came during sex and then a few hours later masturbated and had a really big load. It seemed like it was a bigger load from masturbating than the load in my pussy, but maybe it just seemed like a big load on toilet paper because it got absorbed it.

[mark000h]

You have to remember not everything is going to come out of you right away. You can't know how much was inside. Besides, the amount doesn't equal enthusiasm. Different times, different. Sometimes a guy will ejaculate a lot, sometimes hardly anything and still will have enjoyed it.

[bubbakong2006]

It turns him on well he might be cumming inside you more than you think or when jerking off he thinks of something that turns him on more

[FilmGuy93]

The amount he shoots honestly doesn't mean anything about how good you are.

[Kabluie]

There is only so much a guy can come in a period of time. Like if he wanked himself, then you gave him a blowjob, and then he came inside of you, it's going to be less volume. If you want the most, he should cut out any self-wanking on days you'll have sex.

Like for me I remember we got into the hotel around 2am, got a blowjob, came inside her about three times, and we got about a few hours of sleep. We woke when it still dark and had sex again in prone position. I pulled out to try to cum on her back and there was barely any cum left to come out as I did orgasm.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Load size varies a lot, wetness reduces friction, a previously dry napkin is going to show more of the liquid than an already wet vagina.

[Luckyman298]

One guy already said it but if it's not fresh the napkin going soak up the cum and become all wet eventually even if it's not a lot. U would kinda need to see him masterbaith to know if he actually Cummings more

[Asker]

Actually I remember, it wasn't a napkin. It was a couple pieces of toilet paper. Would that make a difference?

[Luckyman298]

Nope if it's absorbatant it's going spread. Sperm kinda becomes more liquid if it left out. So it could be a napkin, toilet paper, towel, sock, all of then will have the same reaction

[BobbyC65]

The more you ejaculates in one day you get less and less semen sperm coming out of the penis. So if he ejaculates after masturbation then cum then have sex with you shortly after he gonna have less semen sperm coming out. You can't masturbate then have sex and expect full loads of semen cum.

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The testes generate sperm, the male sex cells, as well as testosterone and other sex hormones. The production of sperm is constant and occurs within numerous lobules in each testis. First, structures called seminiferous tubules generate stem cells.

[Wise4myage]

Loads can and do often vary, so don't overthink this.

[Surely]

Don’t stop after his first orgasm. Just keep on riding him until you get sore or until he cries uncle! See how many rounds he can go after that first one.