Did my ex find his past girlfriend more attractive?

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He said to me when he first met me I’ve been telling my friends how much better it is to sleep with someone who’s actually attractive. He bragged about me to people.

But I wasn’t into sex at all.

But he’d still always want to go for two rounds most times. But never more. We’d have sex 3 x a day max. We were 19.

His previous girlfriend from 14-17 he had sex with 8-10 times a day and they never stopped apparently. They were both super into sex. But then he told me there of times they hung out with no sex. But he said that to not have sex with me one time. He only ever did that the one time to me though. They apparently always had multiple rounds.

Did he find her more attractive?

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Anonymous
+1 y
Yeah. Plus she was also into sex so I guess that’s why they were having lots more sex together. Their sexual attraction towards each other were probably off the chart + there’s the teenage hormones
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- hi8sm3
  +1 y
  and they might love each other more. love makes the person to be more attractive in the eyes
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  @hi8sm3 that’s also very true!
- hi8sm3
  +1 y
  Did we just make the asker more sad!
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- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  @hi8sm3 yeah but hopefully we’ll also be helping her out. She seems in denial, been asking the same questions over and over again… she gotta face the truth and hopefully she’ll move on and find someone better 😌
- hi8sm3
  +1 y
  I agree. the guy shouldn't make her to feel like this. he should make her to feel like the world is revolving around her. She should find a better guy
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  @hi8sm3 couldn’t agree more!
- hi8sm3
  +1 y
  If you agreed to follow me, I couldn't be happier! :)
- Asker
  +1 y
  Why did he tell his friends he was finally sleeping with someone attractive then? And never loved someone like me I just was not into sex
- Asker
  +1 y
  I literally saw messages he says she was a 6 and me a 9 I just didn’t like sex
- Asker
  +1 y
  If what you guys are saying why did he keep choosing me over her? She was always available and she still is and throws herself at him yet he won’t take it But begs for me back? Is he so superficial cos I’m more attractive he goes for me?
- Asker
  +1 y
  He told me I can’t compare that time of his life to now as well. He said they did it that much cos they didn’t have jobs or bills. He even said it was only a period in time they had sex that much and would hang out with no sex often. Then all of a sudden he stopped being bothered by her. And that he thought he had good sex before then had it with me and we took it up each time. Claimed he can’t stay away from me and not sleep with me. Whereas he just stopped being bothered by her. He was into chubby at the start of us and she was. Then his type changed to what I am. Was that it? When I got into sex we did start doing it a lot more. 3 x a day after 3 years of being together so I guess that’s good. He was also depressed about being in debt during us whereas he was a child with her. He claims I was so much better than her in every way and the sexual chemistry and attezcfion is just so much more between us
- Asker
  +1 y
  But you guys don’t believe that?
- Asker
  +1 y
  Don’t know if I do?
- Asker
  +1 y
  Could I message either of you?
- Asker
  +1 y
  Cos I feel like my heads being messed with But he could have her back without trying? She’s so easy and is constantly at him. And yet he still chooses me? But he does care too much about looks etc so it’s that? He also used to talk about me during their relationship how he wants me but takes her instead..
- hi8sm3
  +1 y
  then this is your insecurity. If you are confident of your appearance and abilities, you don't have to worry of he liking other person. If you feel that you have a competition, then it is not a relationship to be with. relationship should have one way. I wouldn't be in a relationship like this if I were you. If you want this, you should overcome your insecurity.
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  Well he’s your ex now isn’t he? Then I think you need to let it go and move on… I’ve seen you post repetitively about the same topics but you don’t seem satisfied with the answers given bc it’s not something you want to hear
- Asker
  +1 y
  I can’t decide if I do believe his word to me or not.
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  You know what they say, action speak louder than words 😉
- Asker
  +1 y
  And his actions are choosing me over her? Barely lasting 5 mins during sex with me? Saying that it was only a period of time cos he was a teenager and now he’s an adult and we have 3 kids he doesn’t have enough as much time. You seem offended and like you want to make me insecure compared to a girl I’m more attractive than. Did I offend you by talking about the fat his ex was overweight?
- Asker
  +1 y
  The overweight topic seems to have made you come gunning for me. Sorry bout that 😜
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  No one’s coming after you luv, what I mean is you should trust his actions not what he’s saying. You said he kept choosing you over her so there’s your answer, no need to overthink the rest. Everything else is in the past just let it go