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Why did he have more sex with her because he found her more attractive etc or because he was so young? and has no responsibility?

So my boyfriend is weird about things. He claims I’m the best he’s had, best sex etc

But 5 years ago I seen messages when we split saying his ex was so much better at sex etc. After he’d found out I’d moved on. Then shortly after siad he wanted me back

I was not into sex at this point at all.

They had sex 8-10 times a day apparently. Never stopped. But he just got rid of her like it was nothing. He went back to her for sex until he was 18 and could go out and drink, drive etc. Have tinder. He was with her from 14-18.

He met me at 18. We had sex twice a day max. But I never started it. Never enjoyed it. He just thought I was bad at sex not that I didn’t enjoy it.

Then I got into sex and he struggle for last 5 mins with me etc.

Sex became about 3 x a day after 3 years together.

Did he prefer sex with her? Or find her more attractive?

I don’t see how our sex could be better cos it’s just normal sex

We do some fettish things like pee things, butt stuff spitting in mouths

But nothing unusual.

They had anal and we don’t

I say things, moan, plenty of forepkau. He said the head is insane and one time I had his legs shaking (only ever once though). He normally finishes from head
But to be fair he hasn’t in like 9 months because I couldn’t really be bothered.

He always finishes quick when I’m on top.

But now could there’s not be better than that
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  • I'm not sure what it is exactly that you're wondering, or what's caused it I should say? You're up to 3 times a day correct? And you're wondering why it's not 8 or whatever that he claims he had with her? And I highly doubt it was that much. That's a lot for anyone and unlikely a guy can physically do that even. There's a refractory period, and it's less for younger males, but still there and never that low lol. I know myself, I've had max 3 orgasms in a day, then my penis literally swells up from over stimulation. So I can't imagine 8 times a day, that just seems ridiculous lol. But if he did have more sex with her, ask him why not with you. Only he can tell you and will tell you I'm sure if you asked. And it sounds like you've been up and down as far as "wanting it", and I can only speak for myself, but I'd definitely pick up on that and it would make a HUGE difference for me. Again, only he can tell you. Maybe the sex isn't as enjoyable, and that could be "fixable" with communication (which sounds like you guys lack big time?). Getting to know each others likes and dislikes is key, but that requires communication.

    • It puts you off a lot if you think they don’t really want to I’ve seen him do 5 times in a row

    • I’ve tried asking him he told me “he really does like it all” and there’s “nothing he want to try” in an argument he told me I “kinda” know what he likes during sex but would never tell me more than it’s all good, I really do like it all He’s never tried anything new between us it’s always me but he always goes a long with it Said they spoke about what they like cos they’d both never had sex before but never had that conversation with me. But after other people he said they spoke about what happened during sex I speak about it and he gives me yeah it’s all good I like it all

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  • What a beyond toxic way to live a relationship. Who the hell cares about his agenda with sex when he was 18 years old. So you went through his phone and now you have to live a lifetime of insecurities because you couldn’t have just left his phone and messages alone.

  • I say it’s probably both. Teenagers are usually super horny plus he seems to actually like sex with the ex a lot more - doesn’t mean that he loved her more tho. Why do u care about his past anyway

    • What makes you seem he likes sex more with her?

    • They did it way more times, he said she was better at it, he came back to her for more sex when you guys broke up. Him liking sex with her more doesn’t mean that he has feelings for her tho.

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  • probably both

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  • Maybe a combination of both

    • Why say that? There was no proof of finding her more attractive and he literally says I’m better in messages?

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