Why all of a sudden my friends with benefits is having actual conversations other than sex?

[Anonymous]

[RearEntryGuy]

Fact: guys could be "slower", where emotions are concerned. A lot slower.

But, Part 2: we're flesh and blood to. And in truth, trust me, our blood are red too, just like you girl's.

Hence, feelings can also develop in us.

Yes, we crave to "only fuck" when we started friends with benefits. But hey, we could be "slower", but we can become emotionally attached too.

After all, we're red-blooded intelligent and emotional creatures too. Don't you agree?

[Asker]

I see your point maybe over time he started to like me

[RearEntryGuy]

Like many suggested, ask yourself "what do I want?" If you also want a relationship, then talk to him about it. Draw new boundaries and define new terms. I think if what you wrote in your Details is accurate about him, he'll likely say Yes. Wish you the best.

[Asker]

I noticed he's becoming more interested in me emotionally we are talking about things other than sex. He talks about my drone hobbie and I think he wants one now

[RearEntryGuy]

(Smile) I found such expressions sweet. And I think he can be very romantic. (Just a suggestion) why not go for it? Ask him if he's interested to become an "official" couple? Could be fun. I don't know.

[EmyyWolf]

This kinda happened to me as well with my Fuck Buddy. He started watching movies and shows with me. He wanted to eat out at a restaurant with me once and almost invited me. Another time he said that he wanted to travel with me. And finally he mentioned that I could have feelings for him. And I didn’t respond XDD.. I felt so bad.

I mean I am attracted to him sexually. But I don’t know him enough to be attracted emotionally. I was using him as a dildo from the start. He even pointed out that I wasn’t very affectionate and I apologized. He then said “it’s ok, I know you’re using me for sex and I like it”.. then I didn’t bother to say anything after.
We’ve been just fuck buddies ever since. There are times I do want something more with him. But I am just afraid. And I don’t think a man would respect a woman who started out as a piece of ass.

[Avcfhcic]

This is a possibility of friends with benefits. You share intimate moments with each other, you obviously are attracted to each other physically. Maybe now he wants to be more than friends with benefits and actually get to know you more.
It happens. If you only want his dick then tell him straight, but if you feel a little more than fuck buddies then I think you go along with it

[Asker]

I'm quite shocked he is talking to me about other things apart from sex. Normally he would say I'm boring but now he's intrigued about my drone hobbie lol

[Avcfhcic]

It's him maturing possibly. What do you want?

[Asker]

I'm just really shocked he was act like such a child for the last 4 years

[Avcfhcic]

It's not acting like a child. He maybe was just into it for the fun, but not be sees you as a lifetime partner

[DonkeyDan]

I'm currently going through a change in relationship state with my friends with benefits too at the moment. We're not getting into an actual relationship but we are basically taking each other more seriously as future partners, its just we've talked about it.

Maybe his is looking at you differently these days and likes you other than for just sex. The question you have to ask yourself is how do you feel about that.

[ashish804]

because he is loving fucking u

[Anonymous]

Would you prefer that he only talks about sex?

[Asker]

He still asking if I wanted to move in

[Opinion Owner]

How do you feel about it?

[Asker]

I dunno I'm quite shocked since this was a very casual thing over 4 years he wouldn't give a damn what I said

[Opinion Owner]

Well if you have doubts about it just say so.