Is a 24 year old virgin a bad thing?

[Anonymous]

I know after a certain age being a virgin still will have people look at you funny. Is being a virgin at 24 seen as something bad?
I haven’t made out/French kissed before and I’ve never had a real boyfriend or anything. I’m curvy, my waist and my hips is a 15 inch difference and my boobs are a G cup and I get told I have a baby face a lot.
The guys i come across just want hook ups and when they find out that’s not something I’d do, they always drop me

[RearEntryGuy]

If it were a guy, I would say by 30 because many guys failed to get his first girlfriend in his 20s for many hood reasons.

But for a girl, I think by 24 25 because girls usually have more opportunities to be offered sex than guys.

Hence if she refuses guys and hence a virgin, why? (a rhetorical question.)

Or if she never been approached, why?

No discrimination, but I think if you don't have specific reasons to save (like religion, personal principle, parents, etc), then I think you should start looking for a guy whom you can love (and hopefully loves you too) and experience it.

It's a world worth exploring and something you would want to experience before you reach 30. I think the pursuit is worth it. But the final decision is still yours.

[jb12358]

Not necessarily a bad thing but it’s probably better to start earlier so you get more used to it and more experienced at it. It’s an important life skill and I definitely think from a guy’s point if view you should start doing it as soon as you feel ready

[Anonymous]

Why do the girls and women here always feel ashamed and downtrodden for being virgins? I really do not understand. Even women who f**k with every man aren't as shy as you. Being a virgin is not a fault. nothing funny at all. I think those who find it funny because you're still a virgin should open their asses and laugh at him/her. On the contrary, be proud of it for not giving it to any man who comes before you.

[Opinion Owner]

Nothing funny at all.*

[Anonymous]

I’m 21 and in EXACTLY the same boat as you. Never properly kissed, had sex or even been on a date.
these days lately with covid being a thing doesn’t help because I don’t go out to school anymore, and there’s no one my age at work, so yeah it is definitely harder to even meet guys lately and like you, personally I’m not into having flings with someone I barely know.

[SecretsofKB]

Losing your virginity is not a race. There is nothing wrong with still being a virgin at your age. If anyone thinks it's weird then you don't need to be with that person.

Sex isn't everything in the world.

[Riley_writer]

Nooo! Not a bad thing. You just haven't met the right person yet. But if you feel ''tired" of being a virgin, pick up a toy, create the perfect for you atmosphere and do it yourself. That's how I lost mine at least.

[bean2k21]

I would love an obedient little virgin slave

[BarryLiverstone]

It can be

[Jamie05rhs]

It is not.

[Gal67]

Yes, it is, because by that age you shouldn't be one anymore.

[Dchrls78104]

No, it's not; these days, it's a very good thing!

[moviedude714]

I was until 25

[TheSpartan]

No, it's great; I would happily date a girl like you, and the virginity is a massive positive.

[IHateBeingaMan]

for a guy, its not unusual, not weird, for a girl, woman, it is

[Adogdog]

I would love to find someone like that!!!

[Love_50]

Virginity has no limit

[B4852]

Nothing wrong with it.

[kareka]

That means u didn't find the right person yet
Why its bad? Lol

[Anonymous]

Not a big deal for a woman but once you start getting into your 30s people will wonder why

[Anonymous]

That is good