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Should I go to a swingers club as a single female?

I want to go to a swingers club but I don’t have anyone else to go with. Is it weird to go as a single female? Any tips?
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  • Probably not the best thing to do to go alone. Guys who sit and watch naked women, and throwing money on the table, etc. get pretty charged up. So it might not be safe for you to be walking out to your car or sitting at a table by yourself.
    If you were my SO or even friend, I would be happy to accompany you.

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  • What state are you in? I have gone as a single male and as a couple with my BDSM Submissive. It was better when i went with her, because the hottest couples came to me. You'll need a hot dude like me to come with you to really get the best couples there. I'm on the West Coast.

    • I’m in a different country to you even … ;)

    • luckily i travel a lot lol maybe you can give me a tour around the hidden areas of your country, and then i can show you all the hidden areas inside your pussy 💦🍆👅😂🤷🏾‍♂️

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  • Yeah it’s fairly common for clubs to have single girls.

    organisations such as Killing Kittens (KK Club) have them fairly regularly.

    it’s worth contacting the organisers first, also check if any others girls have been.

    not all swingers parties or clubs are the same, some can be very iffy and dangerous.

    Also work out what your limits and boundaries are.

    what you will and will not do, lines you won’t cross.

  • If your going to the one in Reno I can either meet you there or we can go together. Yeah that's right I just invited myself LMAO

  • In terms of worth, in every sexual place on this planet (I hope I am not exaggerating lol)

    Single woman > couple >>>> single men Single men are almost a nuisance.

  • You will get absolutely bombarded by horny dudes. Unless you can really handle that I would not recommend going solo.

  • It's not weird, though it's still best to go with a friend when it comes to safety and such

    • Safety is important. Best to find a guy to go with. Should not be hard since you are willing to have sex with even strangers.

  • Just check the club rules to see if they allow single females, they usually do, but often don't allow single males, some are strictly couples only.

  • let’s go together 😁 just add me we’ll have a great time together

  • All right absolutely love to go with you and I'll let you suggest what we get into. But going alone is so much fun

  • If you want to, why not?

  • Yes, single women are usually very welcome at swinger's clubs.

  • Go for it. If you want sex, that is. If you're looking for anything meaningful, though, that's probably not a good idea.

  • First, what's a swingers club

    • Google it

    • I feel I shouldn't. Sounds like something I should just leave unlearned

    • It’s not that taboo haha. It’s basically a place where people go and indulge in consensual non-monogamous sex (if you want to - no pressure). Or people just go for a drink and enjoy the atmosphere.

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  • Lol, you’ll be popular, for sure.

  • Not sure you get what swinging actually is

    • Yes I do… ;)

    • No... no I don't believe you do

    • I normally go with my boyfriend but he is ill right now. Trust me, I know.

  • There are sites can talk to singles and couples about swinging that go to clubs and private home parties

    • Fabswinger is one site

  • Aren't these things normally just for couples? Otherwise you get an odd number.

    • There’s a thing called threesomes.. couples need singles for that ;)

  • It is Not unusual, they will welcome you with Oopen Arms... have fun

  • It's not weird to turn up single, many men and women go to such parties alone

  • That's absolutely your own choice. Just be careful and stay safe.

  • do your research about the lifestyle to see if it's for you before ya go

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