Is this a normal sex life?

[Anonymous]

We do every position and different once during or different each time. Mainly me or him on top cos we can connect more. Through talking and eye contact.

We almost always have for play too and that’s different each time too.

It’s different every time like different pace, how the mood is etc. What things we will say or do to each other

I’ll demand things each time and say keep doing etc or do that etc.

Every other time we will dirty talk etc

We will mainly always be rough like spanking spitting etc. Different thing each time

It can maybe here and there be just him on top three nights in a row with different things demanded or me on top row nights in a row different things said or nothing said just when contact and enjoying it.

He said once I figured out what he likes then I do it to death. Is this what I’m describing here or have I over thought.

[RearEntryGuy]

I found not very difficult to choose my vote. Then I got got the "bug" in your Details, and I voted B. This are my reasons.

(No discrimination at all, just sincere, critical analysis.)

1) you "over-think"
You striving to be creative, to reach out to he "different" is commendable.

But in my opinion, you care too much until you become insecure. And this is not good (I'm not saying it's bad).

It's like planning to cook a daily family meal. Do we need to hold a meeting to decide on it everyday? If we do, aren't we getting "overly concerned"?

The deed itself is commendable, but the effort is too much to the extent that it becomes wearisome. And this is not good. You missed the purpose of sex.

Much like the food analogy where you'll feel like business or work than a family enjoyment, your sex becomes "too corporate" and you missed an important purpose of sex: carnal joy.

2) you "over perform".

Let's use the food analogy again. Say you want to cook pizza. There are so many known varieties. Is it a must to have a "new taste" every time? Or is Hawaiian good enough (not all days)? Or are you worry that he'll say "OMG!!! Hawaiian again?"

Delicately, I say, you're doing fine, but don't be too concerned about your plan and your performance.

Like pizza, sex satisfies a desire, especially when a person is "hungry".

Hence, you done well. Perhaps starve him at times. It enhances the appetite.

Be assured, you do good, perhaps too much. Cut down the "ingredients". Enjoy the family meal too. You deserve it.

[NamerOfStars]

Wrong question. If you're not trying to get pregnant (and everyone involved is a consenting adult), there is no right or wrong way to have sex. Does it satisfy you all? Then your set. Are there changes you'd like to make? Then there's room for improvement. That's what it all boils down to.

[kyleelyn199723]

Sounds perfectly normal to me

[Asker]

I’m so scared of making him bored. I’ve asked what he likes and he just says all of it is good and there’s nothing he wants to try.

[Asker]

Even if there’s 7 days in a row it’s just missionary eye contact and me demanding that’s fine and normal if 90% of sex is like that

[kyleelyn199723]

Some men just aren’t that adventurous. When me and my man first started dating, he tried to have car sex with me and he kept getting anxiety and siking himself out. Some men are just more comfortable in the bed room doing their norm.

[kyleelyn199723]

If he is cumming from it and not bringing up different ideas, chances are he isn’t getting bored. It’s in question if you are getting bored though. Are you getting bored from that kind of sex?

[Asker]

See in arguments he said to me that I used to be dull in bed and most people would like that but not him he’s had really good sex But then told me there’s plenty of times ours has been amazing and the best he’s had But I’m pretty sure we’re doing what we used to when he said this

[SkipPerk]

What you like is good. Just remember to keep having sex. It keeps you close and connected.

[loveslongnails]

No, that's not normal sex... that's WAAAAYYYYYY better than normal sex for most people !!

[Asker]

Is it I thought it was vanilla

[loveslongnails]

Maybe so, but it's really rich vanilla !