How do I help my boyfriend with his breeding kink if I don't want kids?

[Jo1918]

My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now. He had expressed in the past that he has a breeding/pregnancy kink.
I am on birth control and really don't want kids right now because I am only in my second year of college. He understands that and is very respectful about my wishes however I feel bad knowing I can't give him what he wants. Also seeing how turned on the idea of making me pregnant makes him is soo hot.
So the question is how can I give him what he without compromising my choice because kids are not an option for me right now?

[Anonymous]

You could pretend. But the over all issue is the pregnancy scare. What makes him hot is likely the act of filling you up.

First off, you need to know what he's going to do, run? Or take responsibility.


Try having a conversation with him about it. see if pretending works. Tell hem you're off BC during sex just before his climax.(this should work because it's the act of actually releasing inside that gets him hot. If it doesn't work there's a bigger problem)

If it doesn't, and I don't say this lightly, because its messed up and will damage your relationship. Lie. Tell him you're off BC a week before, during, and after sex. Then no sooner than 3 weeks after, but not more than 5 weeks, tell him you're pregnate. If he runs, you dodged a bullet. If he stays, he's a keeper, but he should see a therapist about the kink, something isn't right there. You will also have to repair your relationship. Do not lie again. during this its important to stay on your BC but never take it infront of him. I'm sorry.

[slatyb]

You cannot. He’ll have to wait. Are you interested in having children in a few years? If you are, just tell him that he’ll have to wait.

[Jo1918]

I am open to the idea of having kids. I love kids I just am not ready for the responsibility just yet. I have already basically raised two kids that weren't mine so I know what it takes but I'm not ready yet. Thanks for your input.

[PrettyPriya]

Oh hell. Tell him to stop. You say he is respectful but apparently keeps bringing it up.

You are in university! Like what are his priorities? You want to entertain someone who essentially wants you to have to quit uni for his kink?

[CanineAcronym]

Well if you really wanna give him his fantasy you could ask him if you 2 could roleplay it! Fake pregnancy test, shouting kinky stuff and just playing pretend

[Oigit]

Run the fuck away and do it now! Because chances are you will probably wind up a single mother and he won't be around. Also Do you best to hide your birth control from him. I wouldn't put it past him screwing with it.

[DonkeyDan]

Maybe you could put him out to stud lol

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I think you need to sit down and have a serious talk with him cause the breeding kink/ pregnancy kink is something serious to consider

[JosyJosy]

He thinks of the kink not the consequences. Red Flag.

[magiusX26]

pretend. probably best to talk to him 1st but mote or less lie while going at it. something along the lines of " i stopped my bc days ago, fill me up" even though you have not actually stopped using your bc.

[awkward_author]

Breeding kinks are based in fantasy, most of the time, anyways. Just pretend. Stay on birth control, and don't use a condom.

[MrtoddsWildRide]

Having lived with a pregnant woman twice I think I can answer this.
Shove a pillow under your shirt. Go to the bathroom at least six times in an hour. Demand he rub your feet. Be extra cranky. Eat weird crap. Cry a lot for no apparent reason...

[VikingWarLord]

Run he's a fuuckin idiiot!
Too young to have rug-rats right now and it'll destroy your lives.
Come get wit me instead, I don't want kids at all, but I'm into tons of other kiinks that he would never even think of at his young age.

[Legendofdon]

If he was a man he wouldn't give you a choice. I love knocking girls up. But its not a fetish it's the whole purpose of sex. "Second year of college" in a sane world women would have no option to go to college. You were designed to be a wife and mother.

[Silvermantis]

Ya fuuuuuuck that

[Jmmmfi4]

This is a horrible reason to have a baby

[Brucieboy92]

Hey, as a dude that has this kink, i just wanna add my opinion. I dont wanna have kids rn, im in uni, but the thought of breeding a woman turns me into an animal. When my partner roleplays with me i just lose control and the sex is amazing. The woman i'm having sex with notices that as well. I'm sure that your man doesn't even want kids rn but... Its just a turn on you know? Roleplay with him and use contraceptives and you'll see that the sex will be amazing, he'll become feral.

[Anonymous]

Fake baby bump.

[Anonymous]

That’s not a kink , don’t fall for that, he isn’t thinking of the responsibility afterwards