How do I get better at giving head?

I am really bad at giving head because of my gag reflex. My technique is good but my gag reflex sucks. What can I do to help with that. I have tried the numbing spray for my throat but it doesn't help as much as I would like it to but maybe I need a better one.
0 1

Superb Opinion

  • deep throating is not that pleasurable it’s mostly Aesthetic it’s more important to understand that the most sensitive area is at the bottom under our dick head so suck and while you suck run your tongue across the bottom of our dick head right under the hole, same as right under your clit. also use your hands to jack the dick off and act as if you love each and every inch of his dick. lastly while massaging the balls place your index finger Knuckle right under the balls in the “taint” area , our dicks continue inside our body and can also be stimulated and that’s our Urethra

Most Helpful Guy

  • You can give excellent head without deep throating! Just do the things that please him but do not push things into your gag zone. If you still insist on the deep throat, all I can suggest is lots and lots of practice till you can overcome it, if you ever can. Pretty sure any guy you like would be happy to let you practice on him.

Most Helpful Girls

  • If the guy is big and you have smaller mouth, you are going to gag regardless. You just need to know how deep can you take. I don’t think you need to do a lot of deepthroating to be good at it so just focus on the sucking part.

  • G@G reflex is something that happens over time. This site can be toxic sometimes. You just have to hold back the urge to vomit and click another question.

    • 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

What Girls & Guys Said

1 28
  • Your relationship sounds perfect

    • Thanks for your input again ☺️

    • You’re welcome ☺️

  • Do you hold your breath when you are in gag reflex territory?

  • Have your guy pin your head against the wall and thrust. Spend a couple of minutes doing this each day and you'll get it. Just make sure he knows not to cum in your throat.

  • Practice, m'dear! Practice! I'm available for training sessions.

  • Control the depth with one hand against your lips. Deep throating is not required. Good head only requires an inch or two of the dick in the mouth when combined with good lip, tongue, head-bobbing, and stroking technique. Don't let the guy hold your head to force his dick any deeper than you can manage.

  • Just lots of practice. There are tips about practicing with toothbrush... etc.
    Just don't go practice with things that can break off halfway like bananas. Cuz if it breaks off while back in ur throat, you'll be in trouble.

    Just so u know though, some guys DO get excited with a girl gagging. So check what ur boyfriend thinks about u gagging.

  • Why are you putting it that far into your mouth? And actually ask the dude what he likes. If he wants some pornstar shyt i. e. where the chick is literally choking on it, maybe that dude isn't a match for you.

  • The choking and GAG reflex is what makes that shiit fuuckin fun!
    Face fuucking you until you're gagging on my big fat Diick and you have tears coming down your cheek

  • You don't have to deepthroat. Just make sure everything is lubed and use your hand for the shaft and use your mouth and focus on the head, that's the most important spot anyway.

  • Get your tonsils taken out if you still have them, and keep practicing.

    • Thanks

  • Work the tip. Use your tongue and tease the balls.

  • Ask the guy your with to show you what he likes, and keep giving head often. You don't have to deep throat a guy to be good at giving head.

  • Watch Old School

  • I had to buy a dildo and practice practice. If you search it there are lots of people on with tips for increasing your abilities , good luck

  • Practice, practice, practice…. Use a flavored toy, food and of course, the real thing. And concentrate on the build up / activation of the gag reflex and work on mentally suppressing it and / or proper manipulation to avoid the area most prone to initiating the feeling. Probably a combo of all (just guessing though, I have only gave one once and it wasn’t long enough to give me the gag reflex).

  • you don't need to take it down your throat. all the nerves are in the frenulum just like your in your clit. lots of tounge on the frenulum and pressure at the base of the shaft. id be happy to give you any tips (no pun intended) if you want to DM

  • So you suck at sucking

  • Practice, Practice, Practice... use a substitute for the real thing.. Kielbasa sausage? Oscar Meyer Weiner? you choose the size and then Practice... deep throating it... (Put a condom on it...) that way you have something to hold onto, and you can use the same one over and over...

  • you don't necessarily need to do deepthroat-sucking to satisfy a guy.
    JUST normal blowjob id sufficient if you do it emotionally.

  • Ask him what and how he likes it

  • Show More (9)