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Why are guys with good "D" jerks?

Guys with good dicks pretty much lol

And by that I mean amazing sex
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  • Anyone - male or female - that is super desirable, will also as a result have a LOT of options. When you have a lot of options, it's VERY easy to be a jerk or a bitch, because the minute someone annoys you, you can replace them - you've got a waiting list of people to take the place of your SO, so you don't have to put up with their crap.

    The most attractive men (regardless of what it is that makes them the most attractive - looks, money, status, etc.) are nearly all womanizers, even though they're usually with extremely attractive women. Why? Because they CAN. Why do you think you can have a pro athlete with 20 kids from 18 mothers - none of whom are his wife? Why has Brad Pitt cheated on every girlfriend, including Jennifer Aniston and Angelina Jolie? Why did Tiger Woods bang a bunch of women when he had a hot Swedish model wife at home? Because they COULD - women were waiting in line to take a turn.

    Many very attractive women often do the same things to men, except women tend to take money rather than sex. There are tons of very rich former trophy wives, and they aren't rich because they worked hard or founded a company, but because they cleaned out the man they were with.

    The lesson here is that the "most desirable" are actually NOT the most desirable - they just seem like they're the most desirable at first glance. Once you get to know them (if you bother to do so), and once you look past their looks or money and look at their values and behavior, you'll see that they're usually not very desirable at all - unless you're just looking for a night of fun.

    • Wow *slow claps* This was great I had a question so is it true that if a regular guy was given the opportunity to cheat he would?

    • And how do I find a man who'll show me respect and not cheat

    • There are RARE exceptions who have a strong moral foundation who probably wouldn't, but the temptation to do this would be incredible, and most men, faced with a relentless onslaught of temptation, that's so easy to just reach out and take, would eventually do so. Of course, the vast majority of men never experience this, so it's not really an issue for them. As far as finding a man who will respect you and not cheat, it's pretty straightforward and simple; it's just against your instincts, and VERY against what society and media encourages you to do. You have to pick men based on their morals, values, and behavior, and NOT on their looks, height, wealth, or status. It's easy to say that, but most women simply can't overcome their social programming to seek an "Instagram man" - a handsome/successful guy who looks good in her social media posts and makes her friends jealous. And if a girl starts dating a more average man, but of good morals and values, her friends are likely to constantly question her choice and encourage her to dump him for this hot guy or that rich guy, because "she can do better." The problem is that those friends don't have to live with the guy. He might be pretty, or he might have money to take her around the world or provide a huge house, but does that matter if he's banging 3 women on the side? Women want to believe that they can have it all in one man - but how many examples of that can they even point to in the entire world? Not many. But women all believe that they're the exception - that they're going to find the winning Lotto ticket despite the incredible odds against it - and then are surprised when they lose time and time again. Worse, most women burn through their youth doing exactly this.

Most Helpful Guy

  • (PROTEST!!!)
    NO NO NO NO NO!!

    Not all guys who are good at sex are jerks! I refuse to accept this as a fact!

    Let me put it as gently as I could: it's girls who don't know sex choos jerks and think they give good sex! LOL!

    And of course not all jerks are well endowed. And not all who are on the smaller side gives bad sex.

    So I protest. There are plenty of GREAT guys, average, earns ok salary, but make good husbands and fathers and are GREAT at sex.

    Facts has spoken. Hence I put it across to you, as gently as I could, young and inexperienced one (smile)...

    • I totally agree with you I guess I just can't find the good ones who are great at sex and will treat me good :(

    • OIC. Look outside Europe and America then. These 2/3 of the earth's population are taught to be responsible persons; and the guys to be sweet romantic husbands.

    • Gotcha thanks

Most Helpful Girl

  • I DON'T KNOW!! But you're soooo right! Most guys who are UNforgettable in sex, turn out to be huge jackasses. Like a solid 8 out of ten.

    • What do we do about it?

    • We have sex with them and dump them first before they ever get a chance to actually hurt us?

    • Bet. Bet.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Because Hypergamy. Just like always.
    Women don't want good men.

  • I think you have discovered the "flip side" of the Crazy/Hot Matrix, or Bitchy/Hot Matrix:
    What does it mean when a guy says you’re crazy but at least your hot?

  • Hey, not all guys with good D skills are jerks.

  • because we have good dicks 🤷🏾‍♂️😂😂 the same reason attractive women are usually ass holes because we are rare and we know it 😂 but older men who are blessed with the knowledge, passion and long dick for pleasure we usually grow out of our egotistical self and are actually good people. also sometimes he’s not Maliciously trying to hurt you but you are just a casualty in his path in life. convenient pussy will get used regardless of how attractive a man is because getting pussy is a lot more labor then women think

    • Thanks for your knowledge. How can I be more than conviant pussy to him

    • if that’s what you want then no problem just be open to his late calls. but make sure you have your own self as the paramount experience. so if you’re ever wanting more than what he delivers distance yourself and move on

    • I'm sorry I think maybe I used the wrong term? I was asking how do i become more than just pussy to him

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  • Because they have too many women in their lives! lol Trust me, it gets straight up annoying sometimes.

  • because more often than not either they were non-jerks that circumstances turned into jerks, having had good D all the while or most of the non-jerks with good D are the guys being overlooked most of the time by most of he women for an array of reasons that often come across as silly to most of us guys.

  • We not only have big D, but we can manhandle you and rough you up in the sack just like you fantasize about all damn day.

    Plus I've been in P0RN before so I know the ropes and how to completely devour a biitch.

  • I am pretty confident and pretty good at it…. For the most part, not a jerk but thinking back, I have had a few moments. It was generally due to lack of interest in wanting a relationship with that specific person. It really only happened with girls who practically threw themselves at me (I didn’t have to chase, gave it up quickly/easily)

  • Confidence is the reason

  • If you're sleeping around those guys aren't looking for a relationship, and they will treat you like a slut.

    • Why? What did I do to them?

    • They don't love you, they just want sex. They don't care about you as a person or want a future with you.

    • I know that but why not me and maybe yes with another girl? Make it make sense

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  • I do not thinkI am, at all, ever

  • I am not a jerk.

  • Formula of supply and demand 😉

  • Because girls keep going after then. No need to be nice when they have lots of girls feeding their egos.

  • I have a small dick and still I am a jerk

  • Not true...
    I know guys (via female friends) with horrible sex skills and small cocks who are absolute fucktards.

    I myself have a 7.5” and 5.5” around penis and know how to use it very well.
    I am respectful, caring, compassionate, and loving. That being said, I have also been cheated on by every female I have dated and treated like shit. So I can only assume that when guys like myself get tired of this crap, they become more like the assholes women seem to love.

  • Lol you're about to hit the wall.

  • The guys who are sweet and will love you and cherish you are the ones with small dick.
    Stop going after big dick jerks

  • Because they can get away with it.

  • Not really worth much if they're well endowed but got nothing going on upstairs.

    • This guy I know is smart and rich maybe I just dont interest him that well

    • Smart and rich, then he's got his pick of women so he'll probably use and move on to someone else.

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