Every guy has been this way during sex with me were they not attracted to me?

[Anonymous]

They’ve all taken like 10 mins to orgasm and seem to not look at me or go really fast to reach orgasm.

I’m above average looking but I have small boob and big bum.

They all seem hard enough and never really seem to have pre cum. The sex last 10 mins before they orgasm. All I do though is moan, say it’s good, tell them when I’m going to orgasm and my body language is a bit meh you can tell I’m not dying for it but I’m not completely off put by it. I’m acting into it I think. Yet it takes so long. I’m saying things and moaning. I don’t seem to be mind blown but I don’t seem disinterested.

My long term boyfriend was like this at the start too then when I got mroe comfortable and seemed like I really wanted it he struggled to last any length of time. But even when I wasn’t he still struggled.

Why does it take so long?

[nonyabeezwax132342]

5-10 minutes is actually around the average.

They probably won't look at you so they can last that long. Its probably because of positive attraction.

Try foreplay. Try being more aggressive. Ask them to go harder. Faster. Get on top of them. Try creating situations where they are forced to cum earlier.

What exactly are your dimensions?
like how small are your boobs
how big is the bum?

Compared to the average woman, is your bum massive? Or just a little bigger. Do you have smaller than A cups? If so it maybe a problem, although its fixable. I dont think these are your problems, but it might help. Try the first set of suggestions before worrying about how you look, okay?

I only ask because I new this women who had a medical condition where her body would store 90% of her body fat in her bum, so it was, I shit you not, about 4ft in diameter...

Another theory is that they are all sex bots from the future... So... Lol

[Asker]

What would be a problem? I’d my boobs were smaller than an A cup Or if my bum was just slightly big?

[Asker]

I did the harder faster with my ex at the start and nothing. He took 30 mins each time. But then became 5 mins at a push

[nonyabeezwax132342]

Sounds like its a him problem. Was it always spontaneous? If he masturbated before sex, it would make him last much longer. He could have been doing that to impress you, or pleasure you. Most of us guys feel like we cum premature even if we don't. So he may have been compensating.

[PositiveNote]

Yeah, I agree with nonyabeezwax132342. Sex is not always a perfect scenario of either party (or parties?) It really is something more like how you increase into a perfect relationship... it takes effort. I mean, it takes communication between each for an extended time, and it takes understanding by one's own physical state. The physical part changes as we mature—and the makes it all the more a lifetime occupation!

[PositiveNote]

I think what you are saying is that you aren't cumming quickly, and it's because your guys haven't been interested in you? Is that right? Can you clarify?

[awkward_author]

They probably need to be better in bed, and it might help if you were a bit more active in the situation.

[Wise4myage]

They're attracted, but they are very selfish and lousy lovers.

[2021biguy]

Do you want it to last longer? You have to find someone you love.

[rebeliouse]

maybe your laying there like a sack of potatoes?

do u expect the guy to do all the work?

[JohnQue74]

Pigs. Go get a shy guy and dominate him

[Hulk30]

it's true

[Asker]

What is true

[Yellovv]

Depends how you look like...

[Asker]

Above average face wise. Small boobs and big bum

[Asker]

I’m obviously not stunning but I’m not hideous

[Yellovv]

I like to see

[Anonymous]

When you become more enthusiastic it really turns them on and then they can’t last