I don't know why some men try to force a 3 way. But dear, if you have any inkling you are uncomfortable with it, say no. (You have the right to change your mind at a later point, for any reason, or none at all!) Don't let him keep haranguing you, this is disrespectful. Your boundaries are what they are, they are not unreasonable, and shit you don't even need a reason! It will be uncomfortable, but I think you ought to say "Hey, remember that 3-way conversation? After further reflection, I'm not comfortable with that. What do you think?" If he guilts you, tried to convince you otherwise, or is a dick, drop him like a hot potato.
You deserve the best dear! You'll be okay even if this ends!
you should not say yes to things you're not going to do? thats just a twat move.
We don't try to force anything.
If you're a vapid, boring, vanilla, uptight PRUDE, then we don't waste our time in the first gawdam place.
And this is usually what I hear from AVERAGE looking biitches. The hotter she is, the more likely she will want a 3-some. That's why men try to get hotter biitches , we know they're not only good to look at but are kinkier too.
well if he’s just a friend with benefits, sex is the only focus so I wouldn’t really take anything seriously. If this were a real relationship there would be red flags but not In This situation from what you wrote.
also since you are only fuck buddies you shouldn’t be so hurt that he no longer wants sex with you. No strings attached is the deal you made
We actually didn't really make a deal... however I'm sort of a brat. But he's only withholding sex because HE can't get a 3 sum... so it doesn't make sense to me
You are not a couple though, right? You just get together for sex? If that’s the case he’s just looking to please himself and not necessarily you
Okay I see then he's the selfish one not me
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I think he needs to learn an important maxim: "LEAVE WELL ENOUGH ALONE."
It seems like it is all about him and what he wants. sure he wants to try a 3some but you don't. He has to get over it. Is there a problem with your sex life with him currently?
We have great sex and I want to keep it at that. But we haven't had sex in a while because that's all he wants (3 sum)
Well I guess it's something he really wants and maybe found someone else to do it with, at the end if the day you were only friends with benefits, I wouldn't lose any sleep over it.
A lot of men are fairly selfish about sex. It's more about what makes them feel good and less about what makes you feel good.
Usually younger men are more prone to this, but an unfortunate number never grow out of it. It's sad really, because the more he concentrates on his partner, the more she will concentrate on him and the better it will be for him (and her)
I never have
Wait... you said you would then aren't going to do it? Yeah I'd be upset too.
2 women at once. It’s every man’s dream. I did it once when I was 24 and it just happened. Both women were 19 and hot. But I’ll tell you this. It never works out. Someone always gets jealous.
I love to be fucking her goggle as she eat the other pussy
then switch it around
Doggie
Well your relationship is sex. Therefore if he wants to try something else in sex it makes sense he'll try it with someone who isn't a romantic partner. Also you said vh you would so maybe he believed you. If you had no intention thrn maybe you should tell him you lie to him.
Okay but why doesn't he want to continue sex with me? He literally told me last night he wasn't interested anymore because I never stay on my word about the 3 sum
Because he wants to try it and you never said you wouldn't
He has done it that's the thing loads of times...
they think its a moral thing to do
He wants two girls or nothing...
If this is just a friends with benefits situation, he just wants sex so he doesn't really care about how you feel or your feelings.
Men are visual animals. A three sum shouldn't be forced. Turn the tables, ask him to sleep with a guy.
I did and he said thatd be gay
Tell him to drop it
What about another guy into your relationship?
He thinks its "gay"...
No, I want to say do you like if another guy join you while having sex?
You gave him a reason to expect that it would happen and he finally is realizing that you are a liar.
So... he told me he was 30 when he's 40,
Okay. You are both liars.
Well since you’re already only having a friends with benefits situation then he figures why can’t you just add another girl since you guys are not really in a relationship
What does that mean exactly. So if we arnt in a relationship he can't respect the fact I dont want to have sex with another girl?
Well it’s just based on sex your whole arrangement so adding another woman in his mind probably doesn’t make a difference to him
I'd drop you as well.
You said you were down for it but you aren't, that's honestly just selfish.
If you told him no, that would be different.
But since you didn't, you are clearly just taking advantage of him without returning the favor.
I'm taking advantage of him?😂😂😂 no you've got it all wrong
Nope, I haven't got anything wrong here. You deliberately lied to him because you knew that saying no would probably turn him off and make him go look for someone else. You are in the wrong here.
No... this guy makes me buy him bottles of liquor each time I go to see him with him returning any favors to me. He just takes and takes... I give him my body that's not good enough? I can change my mind any time I want about what IM NOT COMFORTABLE WITH... so I can't agree with you on this one..
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