He’s said I bored him sexually in the past am I again or overthinking?

[Spoon1996]

For months and months he got pre cum and seemed super into sex

Then past few months the pre cum was only on occasion. Sex was amazing on occasion and the rest was just good. Just moaning similar sex.

I asked if it was boring he said no. Should I just believe him or how else would I know it’s boring?

It was a lot of the time similar or the same or just normal sex. But he said it’s always good just not always amazing.

Only maybe 3x it was really good last month and he had pre cum etc. The rest was all just good.

90% of our sex is just missionary, moaning and saying things it’s not changing positions each night or doing differently things maybe once a week it is but the rest is just missionary and moaning etc. We have sex 3-8 times a week. One will be amazing the rest just good.

Will I be boring him again or is this normal?
Will he think sex is boring when we are together all the time?

[Anonymous]

You should find a boyfriend who won't think having sex with you is boring. It's ok to like a certain way and if he's shallow and looking for something else, then find someone who will be satisfied being with you.

[andy530]

The same position would be boring to me but that’s just me

[Spoon1996]

We do change it up but say there’s 3 nights in a row it’s just missionary

[andy530]

Yeah I don't know it sounds kinda boring to me tbh but that’s just me

[Spoon1996]

So every night you change the position? He rarely ever wants doggy to see my reaction and have that connection. He rarely ever changes the position during the one session It’s usually him on top or me on top. To be fair 90% of the time is him on top but it’s what we’re doing that’s getting us off

[andy530]

Yeah I don't know to me I enjoy changing positions and mixing things up. But if it’s good for you both then great don’t change a thing. It just sounds like it would get mundane to me

[Spoon1996]

Is that why he always go for the same type of girl (which I’m the opposite to) But then he told me he does that cos he knows he can easily get that type of girl and it’s so easy for him. Or is it cos he thinks they are better in bed? He went for people that look like me during his Riley ried phase. They all turned him down. The other type of girl doesn’t turn him down. And seems more sexual

[andy530]

What type are you and what type is the normal girl he goes for?

[Spoon1996]

I’m petite small boobs big bum. I have an above average face. They are overweight, they have below average faces

[andy530]

Oh ok. Do you think he thinks you’re out of his league?

[Spoon1996]

He’s said it before

[andy530]

That might be part of the problem. He might be kinda afraid to do things or change it up too much in fear that it won’t be good for you and he’ll loose you

[Spoon1996]

I’ve requested to follow you to message about this

[andy530]

Oh ok

[2021biguy]

Maybe the honeymoon is over.

[Anonymous]

Do you love this guy or is just sex? That could be the problem.