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Ex boyfriend is willing to travel 2 days by train to have sex with me even tho he had no intentions of getting back together?

Why is he willing to go travel across the US to another state just for sex with an ex that he doesn’t want to pursue a relationship with anymore
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I don’t know if this matters but I dumped him. And 5 days later we talked and he stated he was hurt and how much he loves me but he can not pursue a relationship with me bc of the reason I dumped him.
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So now he is saying tomorrow morning he is taking me to get my nails and toes done. WHY? Why would he do this for an ex he doesn’t want to get back with? Someone help.
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  • My thoughts are that he does still want a relationship with you and is just using reverse psychology on you, he thinks that if you think he's not after a relationship but is willing to travel thay far you might change your mind about him. To an extent it is working otherwise you wouldn't have asked this question.

    • You really think it’s that deep? He has had it VERY clear several times that he can not pursue a relationship with me no time in the near future. Are you sure about this?

    • Well i can't ve sure obviously, but it seems weird that he would state that and then travel that far to see you for sex when he could get it closer to home. Also the fact that you ebded the relationship and not him it would be completely understandable that he still has feelings for you.

    • Yeah I ended it so I get that feelings are there. I just know if the roles were reversed I wouldn’t do the same. Even if I still had feelings. I would not travel to him for sex if he dumped me. So I guess that’s why it’s so hard for me to fathom.

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  • because it's sex.

    https://youtu. be/_DQv2GxFHt4

    watch the clip and you may get an idea.

    • Steve Harvey is hilarious!

    • Soo basically a guy is willing to do just about anything for sex. Got it. lol

    • in general yes. thing is some of us hold back from at least some of those type of things for various reasons. some of those may apptly apply to after finding the right mate too such as die for or kill for, but saddly you can read up on news reports of men doing every one of those (billions of times over) all the way back to the very first form/s of documented (not just written) history. in fact i can give you a refference of killing, dieing, lying, and traveling for it in 2 words, Trojan War.

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  • sex is just sex.

    • Yeah but to travel across the country tie it!! Lol he’s an attractive guy soo getting sex in his state I know for a fact isn’t an issue lol

    • Haha I knew that was coming...

    • it still means nothing girl. stop reading into it, and stop offering sex if you're mind is going to try and add meanings to it.

  • To have sex... DUH

    • But to travel that far seems kinda wild to me. You’d travel 2days by train to have sex with your ex?

    • Yeah sure, I don't know why you are making a big thing out of it. Most guys would do it. And he isn't getting any where he lives or he wouldn't be making the trip.

    • Good point

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  • Sounds like you're just a bloody good fuck.

    • I don't know I’m just shocked that he’s willing to travel across the country for sex. Over 2k miles. Can’t be that great.

    • Perhaps you should simply ask him... After all, he's the only one with the answer.

    • Trust me I have, his repose is “because I know you want it”, which to me is a bullshit answer. If the roles were reversed I wouldn’t do the same for him. I would not travel 2 days by train to go fuck him. That’s crazy to me

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  • Because he wants to have Sex particularly with you. So for that I think he needs to come to you right?

    • Yes that’s true. But the extent that he has to go is what’s mind blowing to me. 2 days traveling by train. Over 2k miles. Just for sex w/ his ex that he doesn’t want to get back with. I don't know can’t wrap my head around it

    • To the OP: Yes but if the sex is that good... and the desire for it with you is that strong, then a 2-day trip to do it is more than justified. I will add... I am currently willing to travel 8,000+ miles to a different continent to have sex with someone who I have never had sex with... and I'd be doing so knowing there was no relationship future (she's almost 30 years younger than me) - but I would do it in a heartbeat - and feel it would be more than worth it - whether it was 1on1 sex with her or within a mfm threesome. It reminds me of the saying "is the juice worth the squeeze" and when it is, a guy would do almost anything including traveling for however far and long :)

    • Hmm interesting perspective. I guess I didn’t think of it from that get if view.

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  • He's probably bored, and been a homebody during the pandemic.

  • He probably still likes you, desires your company, and the sex was amazing.

  • Eh that's beta behavior of going that far just to get laid.
    That turns you off too admit it!
    It means he can't get laid anywhere closer to him.
    But you must be somewhat hot for him to travel that far

    • What do you mean beta behavior?

    • It's what a simp or pussy beggar would do. He must not have any options and face it, that turns you off. You need a more masculine alpha male who knows how to put you in your place.

    • It doesn’t turn me off. I’m just shocked more than anything.

  • She's good in bed

  • For that good pussy xD... probably not a good idea to keep engaging in sexual acts with him though if all he seems to want is sex while you seem to want a solid, committed relationship.

  • You should be proud that he is willing to do that. lolol

    • Proud? Lol why?

    • Because it likely means you are GOOD at it. lol

    • I just feel like if it’s good enough to trace 2 days for, then it’s good enough for him to still want a relationship with me no matter the circumstances

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  • What is the reason that you dumped him?

    • Re: Update: He wants you to feel confident and beautiful during the sex.

    • Really? Lol

    • Yes! Also, I'm curious as to why you guys broke up. If you don't mind sharing.

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  • Sounds like he just wants to use you, and the sex must be good.

    • It’s not using me bc he started very clearly his intentions and where he is mentally regarding where he’s at. So I know his intentions. Just unsure why he’s willing to travel over 2k miles for sex with me

  • Because you give him free sex

  • I drove 12 hours for pussy once and to be honest I'd trek through the arctic to get my penis wet.

  • sex means that much to some men

    • Does it mean that much to you?

    • honestly no the other thing is ya can't be so concerned with gettin laid that ya dont consider women that you've been with's feelins hypothectical but if i was your ex and i actually wanted to fuck ya the way i'd get ya to fuck me is not by tryna hook up with ya because then it looks likes i just want sex from ya and automatically your defenses would go up as a result if men are tryna get laid they gotta be much smarter and smoother about it than that

  • Because he wants pussy

    • You’re willing to travel two days for some pussy?

  • She must be good on bed

    • Maybe so :(

    • hey how are you

  • you must give him a lot of ass

  • guys are crazyyy for sex as if u dont know gurlll

  • What a simp

    • How? He don’t want to get back together

    • So what. He would travel 2 days by train just for your Vagina. Big simp move.

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