Is it bad that I'm a slut and I caught herpes and syphilis?

Question

Should I keep my tinder account?

EmyyWolf · Accepted Answer

By saying that you’re a “slut” you are trying to tell us that you’re having sex with multiple males?

Here’s the thing… Behavior like that can be very harmful to your health, and even your mental health. You might want to speak with a Therapist or Psychologist, because usually women who are behaving like that, is usually a form of Self Harm. It’s just like binge Eating Disorder and stuff like that. I; for example have a very high sex drive. I used to see countless different men in just one week. Until I realized how it was affecting me mentally. Nowadays I understand that I have High Testosterone due to a condition known as PCOS that is giving me a high libido. So now I try to keep two men alone, and I purchase countless sex toys. I try to take care of my needs in a healthy way. Now I use condoms no matter what. I don’t swallow nobody’s fluids. And if any of my two males disrespect my rules. ILL CUT THEM OFF. It’s my health above everything. And ever since I haven’t had an issue with STDs or anything. Make sure you always see a doctor. Make sure you get your Pap Smear done yearly. And don’t forget to always use a condom no matter what. The truth is that there are some diseases out there that’ll literally give you cancer, or otherwise literally change your anatomy down there, and in some cases you might even become infertile. You might not be able to have babies due to some of those STDS and what they really can do to you. BEST WISHES, TAKE CARE. <3

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't call you a slut. I'd call you careless and sloppy.

You need to find out exactly what it IS that you have. Syphilis is a disease that can cause infertility and in its tertiary stage, madness. You want to have this treated and cured immediately. Once cured, it is done with. Same for Chlamydia.

The fact that you've gotten these illnesses means you aren't practicing safe sex and aren't careful about who your partner is. That doesn't make you a slut. It makes you foolish.

If you keep re-exposing yourself to veneral diseases, you might miss symptoms and end up ruining your reproductive system for good. The other side of the coin is you'll pass along illnesses to others.

The reason you might want to cancel your tinder account is you're irresponsible and you clearly have hooked up with OTHER irresponsible sex partners.

Might want to reassess why you're putting yourself in harm's way. Herpes isn't curable and it's also contagious, and genital herpes can pass to your mouth and then be passed to someone else's genitals through oral sex.

If you have gotten these illnesses from tinder partners, they might not know they have them. You should call and tell them.

Isn't this messy? It's what happens when you aren't careful and don't care about yourself and your future. THAT is the main issue I hear. You don't care.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

No use complaining now. You did this to yourself and it was absolutely avoidable. Women these days don't want to accept consequences for actions. They just want to do whatever the Hell they want as if it doesn't matter. Look where it got you... just gotta accept it.

DonkeyDan · Accepted Answer

Looks like you need to get yourself down to the doctor to deal with the ones that have treatments. On the way back maybe pop in to the orint shop and get a 1 reem mail shot made up to send out to the guys you've slept with 😂

laurieluvsit · Answer

"Typical" would be more the word if you are not being safe. Yes, cancel your account and stick with people you know and not strangers once you are well again.

horatiohornblower · Answer

You can keep at it. Try to catch everything. Sort of like trying to catch all Pokemon.

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

This is why getting tested and using condoms are so important. I don't care if people sleep around as long as it's with of appropriate age, consenting, and not cheating.