How come men are not good accountable for anything?

[Anonymous]

How come when a man uses a woman for sex people say that she is a fool and if a woman used a man it is still her fault.

[Socal99]

Wait a minute say some men don't say men in general say some men aren't accountable because I'm very fucking accountable and I'm sure a lot of other men out there are as well

[LegendaryIcon]

says who?

[Asker]

A lot of these guys who answer doesn't think it is wrong with participanting in fornications with some they don't see as a life partner.

[jaybee281]

First of all if a man used a woman for sex I do think it's on her - The same way if a man is used by a woman for money then that's on him - Neither men nor women take "responsibility" for either act it isn't illegal and they genuinely don't care either - You can't guilt or make someone responsible about something they 100% couldn't give half a shit about and there is no one to stop them - The reason why we say that the woman is a fool isn't because we hate her - It's because I'm 100% sure if she consented to it then she either gave it up too easily or he played her all along while she gave him excuses for his behavior (i. e not being serious about the relationship, never promising a serious relationship, theggirl giving him non existent alibis for not committing to her, spending his life as a player then she thinks she's the one who'll change then she's just another one..) - I could still list like 10 more examples - maybe 5 with my eyes closed - But I still want you to read it - No one hates the girl that does that but how couldn't she see it and then after wanting it wants the guy to take responsibility? She can blame him for it because he's a dickhead - he's still not responsible simply by the fact he doesn't care enough nor does it take away the fact that she was extremely naïve and she has to be smarter from now on - FOR HER OWN SAKE that's the most important part - I mean the only point I'm trying to make is that you're all you got - If you're not going to look after yourself then no one is - The same could be said about the simp or the dude that the girl only dates for money - Bro you look like a 4 and you act like a bitch - Do you really think this 10/10 who has a billion guy friends will somehow choose only you - Come on...

[Asker]

Says the person until it happens to them. It is the person's fault who does the wrong no matter if you are a man or woman.

[jaybee281]

Well it never happened because I'm already smarter than that... And there's a difference between fault and responsibility - if you read what I write I wouldn't have to say - It is his fault he's a dickhead - But he doesn't care enough for you to put the responsibility on him because you can't make someone who doesn't care responsible - Also it doesn't take away from the fact that you were naive which is where it's on you...

[Asker]

Excuses excuses excuse anyone can be fooled by anyone I think that you are a damn liar if you say that not anyone has never cheated on you. What is their excuse for scamming you? What is the excuse for being a shitty person? Because I know if I was doing crap I knew better not to know people be like you need to do better how about you all do better and stop making up excuses on why you take advantage of somebody.

[jaybee281]

I was never really scammed in the matters of love to be frank with you - lead on sometimes but I read those things quickly - when I think of scams I think of that Nigerian dude who scammed me with black money - Now that dude made me pay over 8000$ because I thought it was real money - He ended up leaving all the while acting nice to my face - Now he's a shitty guy, a conman - but that's what he is and he did it well - meanwhile I am a moron for not even looking into it - I was literally one google search away - And even if he scammed me - Now I genuinely think the dude is a G - Like how he stayed in character all that time - Holy fuck - If I saw him I'd actually buy him a beer.. he was doing what he set out to do i should have been smarter - I wasn't he beat me congratulations to him - That's genuinely how I see it - I'll obviously put him in jail after the beer but that's also just me doing what I'm supposed to do

[Asker]

So scammers get affords and don't suffer from any consequences scamming people on a daily basis. There is a lot of people out there who try to use you. So it is an excuse that they don't give a shit so you should leave them again because they see you as naive. Nigga please all that is doing just making the world a worse place.

[Asker]

Anybody that walks their way can be use by them it doesn't stop they going to try to find to use someone.

[ohshee]

Because a lot of times women play the victim and they don't hold the guy accountable just do not jump into bed with any guy listen to him watch his eyes is he talks to you every time that he's lying to you in the same breath he's telling you the truth don't fall for manipulation don't fall for bulshit don't let him con you listen to the words watch his eyes don't put yourself in that position

[Asker]

Why is he wasting his time don't you think that he doesn't have respect for himself either if he is just going to waste someone else's time

[ohshee]

I agree with you 100% can see you are a smarter person because you think deeper than most people most people wouldn't even go there and when you see things like that happen and you cut it off right then and there

[Asker]

Do you really think I can talk to a man that is going to do what he wants anyway? It is like dealing with a 2 year old.

[Berethor]

Women are expected to know better, men are acting like men. :)

[Asker]

Fuck you there isn't an excuse for men to act like they are retarded.

[DonkeyDan]

Nobody blames a woman for using a man for sex, where did you hear that?

[Asker]

If a woman used him for a free meal.

[DonkeyDan]

Not something I've ever blamed a woman for.

[Asker]

People always say that it is the woman's fault that is the only time they pay attention when a woman is doing wrong. If a man does a woman wrong than she is just a fool.

[DonkeyDan]

If you say so.

[mark000h]

Women over 18 are adults and are expected to act like it and accept responsibility for their choices.

[Asker]

And men don't?

[mark000h]

What's for him to take responsibility? He wanted sex, you agreed. There's nothing to take responsibility for. If you didn't want to, that was on you to say no, not cry about it later. Act like an adult.

[Asker]

Women might as well just stay single and people just don't get married because it be a a different story and you understand if a woman used you because you had money. If you really took her serious but when a man is manipulative and tries to control the woman she doesn't have any other choice but to leave. Men be trying to get into women's pants and sometimes they force themselves on to them.

[mark000h]

Force is different. Nobody's talking about forced. If any man forced you, that's rape. But, what you're describing is you regretting your choice to have sex with someone. That's not the same. You're grown and are expected to make adult decisions. If you can't handle making those decisions, by all means stay single. If a woman uses a man for his money, that's on him. He let her do it and if she takes him for everything, that's because he let it happen. You have to be responsible for your choices.

[Asker]

Yeah but your shallow ass is just like a narcissist you don't see someone with a good heart you just want to take advantage of someone if they were to easy for you. If a woman did used a man did it be her fault too. In society men can't do wrong. Ain't anybody can get married if one another is plotting evil schemes on one another.

[mark000h]

What? Why you talking about me? You don't know me. I wouldn't use any woman, never have, but I'm saying "a man" did you wrong but you made the decision. It's up to you to make choices about your life. Some people are fucked up and will want to take advantage and use people. You're grown woman and are supposed to be responsible for your choices.

[Asker]

So a man isn't responsible for their choices?

[mark000h]

He's responsible for his and you're responsible for yours.

[Asker]

Must men do only want sex it is really hard not to 100 percent trust anyone. Always making up excuses for men just might as well just be alone if people like to scam.

[mark000h]

If that's what you want, that's your choice. Some men will scam or be dishonest, but there are good men and you have to look for them. There's always good and bad people out there.

[Asker]

Only men who use women for sex already had bad intentions in the first place. I don't understand why they even waste your time when they only wanted sex to begin with. I'm fussing because the stuff is stupid. Only douchebags leave after sex and highly likely the men sleeps around more.

[mark000h]

Because sex for men is either #1 or #2 in priority, for women it's part of relationship usually after getting to know them. Men are biological to sleep with as many women as possible, some men don't use control and follow their urge to fuck and leave. It's why I said there's good and bad guys. Wanting sex doesn't make him bad, as men we all want sex, but what's bad is some men mislead or lie about their intentions. That's bad.

[Asker]

Easy for you to understand because you are a man but women don't understand men you don't know about another gender if you are not them. Do you understand everything about what women do!

[mark000h]

No.. only some

[Asker]

Well then shut the fuck up about what a woman does better. Maybe it is common sense to you but when women are exposed to bad behavior it doesn't mean that she understands why he is doing it.

[mark000h]

I'm gone. Don't disrespect me.

[Asker]

Well women don't understand why men cheat a woman can do everything for a man and he is still manipulative and controlling. Women might as well just go there own way because the men are going to do what they wanna do.

[BeMuse]

Sex is a shared experience... If you think you're being used by men for sex, then you are probably gay.

[slatyb]

How dies a man use a woman for sex? They are both having sex.

[Asker]

Because that is all that he wanted but if a woman uses a man for money than it is understandable why he would be upset.

[awkward_author]

Men are able to take accountability for a lot of things. Many of us simply don't accept blame when it's not our fault.

Society has a lot of double standards. This is just one of them.

[Asker]

I'm not trying to be the victim I just think that the stuff doesn't make any sense how people know better not to do stuff but when a woman does wrong people tell her that she knows better and to do better. People just say that the man doesn't need to be said anything to because they don't care anyway.

[awkward_author]

It's just a double standard. Many of them exist. Ignore it, and move on.

[Asker]

I wish that I was a guy so I can have an excuse to use girls for their bodies.

[awkward_author]

Trust me, you don't want to be a guy. It's definitely not easier. You're just suffering from the "grass is always greener" syndrome.

[Asker]

When it comes to relationships men have it easier it that wasn't true I wouldn't be on here complaining about the childish stuff that men do. They don't really get talked to about what they do like women do.

[awkward_author]

I think they both have it equally difficult in different ways. Why do you have a fixation with trying to prove men have it easier? Is your goal to make us agree that women have it rough or something?

[Asker]

Because we do we have more responsibility for our actions than what men do that is why men feel like they don't have to settle down if they have too many options and if you as a girl makes it too easy for him when he feels like you as a woman haven't made him work for it.

[awkward_author]

That's your choice, though. Women don't have to settle down. They choose to. Similarly, if I don't want to get married and have children, I don't have to. In reality, you don't have more responsibility. They're your choices at the end of the day.

[Asker]

Choices in your mind when you are desperate for something and nobody is giving you what you want. Than it is too bad for you it is not easy getting what I want.

[awkward_author]

Then figure something else out. This sounds like a personal problem. Why are you blaming men for it? If you made poor choices, own up to them.

[Asker]

Because majority of men are complacent when it comes to dating why do I have to be the one to prove my worth to someone else to people who just want to use me as a hookup.

[Asker]

And what part don't you understand that men only want sex doesn't process in your brain. You can't make anyone do anything that they don't want to.

[awkward_author]

You're the one who feels the need to prove your worth. Some men just want sex, and it is what it is. Men make our own choices based on how we want to live our lives. Some of us simply aren't desperate for a relationship and are busy with other things. Your insecurities and issues are not our problem.

[Asker]

And I am tired of people saying that I made poor choices what about the men they make bad choices and they are doing what they are doing. I can't help it that a man just wants to sleep with me but start blocking and deleting their asses

[awkward_author]

I'm a guy who only wants sex with no trouble getting it if that's what I desire. However, there are guys who want a relationship. You just need to find one, but none of us want a woman who won't stop complaining about how men have it easier.

[Asker]

See that is the response I get that what you all do to me is not y'all's fault it is my problem. Why don't you all just stay single you all's damn self and stop wasting other people's time for you alls selfishness. It has nothing to do with low self esteem I am talking about the reality of things.

[awkward_author]

If all men want to do is sleep with you, and it's a pattern, have you considered it might be a vibe you give off? An unattractive personality, perhaps?

[awkward_author]

Speaking as a man, I'm not attracted to women who bitch and complain about how men have it easy. Desperation is also extremely unattractive. I'll sleep with a bitchy woman, but I wouldn't take her home to meet my family.

[Asker]

You all have excuses to do what y'all want to do but when a woman does stupid stuff than it isn't an excuse that is how you all have it easier because you all get to give other females headaches for you alls bad behavior and when a woman acts bad than it is on her. That is how you all have it easier because you don't have to suffer from much consequences for your actions so fuck you.

[Asker]

I don't understand how that is desperate when I haven't even do anything to the man when he just wanted sex from the very beginning without me even doing anything. It can be some of the dumbest stuff ever that you make up excuse just because you don't like the girl just be honest that she isn't the one instead of playing games and not saying how you feel.

[awkward_author]

If you're going to allow other people and societal norms to dictate your life, you're going to be miserable. It's not my fault, nor my problem, that you engage in this behavior. Your personal issues are on you. Regarding your last statement, I'm flattered, but your personality makes my dick flaccid, so I'll have to decline.

[awkward_author]

There's nothing wrong with only wanting to have sex with someone. Women are like this as well. It's not just men. We're not using women if we only want sex. It's called a one night stand.

[Asker]

That is why I get tired of you all's bullshit for you alls bad behavior nothing that I can do is stay single so I don't have to put up with your childish ass. It is funny how they tell women to grow up but men can remain a child in the brain.

[awkward_author]

Men aren't more childish than women. We just don't blame our personal problems on other people. I, honestly, think you might need professional help at this point.

[Asker]

What you just said tells me that you men do have it easier because you already don't have respect for a woman you only want to sleep with but see her as an sex object and then be like she is a whore. And no telling what you men do but bring a woman in your bedroom every night. Women can't be sleeping around you stupid ass. Especially if is for no reason and doesn't make any sense. It makes no sense for a woman to be dating a man for no reason.

[Asker]

I'm not being a victim you don't realize how much it drains me and I don't be getting tired of the foolishness that you men do on the daily basis. Go hire you an excort and use them for sex to someone who really wants to get paid to be used.

[awkward_author]

I think you're the one lacking respect for women. They sleep around, too. I'll even go as far as to say they enjoy it. Also, some women date for fun. Others remain single, and sleep around. It's also valid to enter a serious relationship. At the end of the day, it's just preference.

[Asker]

You men are sorry as hell you are going to regret your choices in the future when you end up with a bunch of baby mommas or with aids.

[awkward_author]

I'm not interested in an escort. Why pay when I can get laid for free and enjoy myself more in the process? Most importantly, I can give my partner pleasure, which makes the experience quite heavenly.

[Asker]

And then you are done using her you just drop her.

[awkward_author]

Don't worry. I practice safe sex.

[awkward_author]

That's how one night stands and hookups work. You have sex, maybe spend the night, and it's over.

[Asker]

You are young and dumb that is why I don't like young men.

[awkward_author]

How am I dumb? Is it because I see women as equal to men?

[Asker]

Not because you see women as sex objects and don't realize that you are spreading germs.

[Asker]

You are nasty as hell.

[awkward_author]

How am I viewing women as objects by saying they enjoy sex, too? There's nothing wrong with sleeping around as long as you're being safe about it.

[Asker]

Whatever I know that is a lie from the pits of hell because if I do stupid stuff as sleeping around that looks bad on me for a guy it looks cool to a man.

[awkward_author]

That's a societal double standard that you should ignore. Also, people are changing the way they view women who sleep around.

[Asker]

No they are not

[Asker]

They say that a ho isn't wife material.

[awkward_author]

They actually are. You're just choosing the wrong men, so you're lashing out at all of us. I, personally, don't care if I have a significant other who slept around in the past. As long as it's not going to impact our current relationship, it is what it is.

[Asker]

You sure do like to lie first you said that you would just do the one night stands and don't even know what desperate is because it wasn't going to work out anyway if you wasn't feeling the girl in the frost place. You probably tell women all sorts of lies so they can sleep with you and then when they fall for. it. you say oh it isn't my responsibility that you have low self esteem when that is just an excuse because you really didn't want her anyway you thought you can find better.

[awkward_author]

I know what someone being desperate looks like, and I haven't been lying. For myself, I prefer one night stands, hook ups and friends with benefits. However, if I meet the right person, I'm open to a serious relationship. I was engaged at one point.

[Asker]

If you think that a woman is desperate that means that you don't see her as the one because if you are turn off because she wants a relationship that just sounds dumb. You know that if you really liked a girl you will give her want she wanted and not play games with her. Which is what you do so that is why men have it easier because if you men don't like someone you can just drop them.

[Asker]

Just using that excuse that doesn't make any sense that sounds crazy.

[awkward_author]

Someone is desperate when they need a relationship, as though they're not complete without one. They'll, often, consider settling for less or blame others when they're not seen as attractive. Also, I don't give my partner everything they want. I have boundaries that need to be respected in order for anything to work. Women can drop people they don't want anymore as well. It's not just men.

[Asker]

That stuff doesn't make any sense don't you think that is desperate messing with someone that you don't like and then making up the excuse that they are desperate just because you changed your mind about them. Why messing with people you don't like make any logically sense at all? Some people do think that you want something serious that is just making a cycle of a bunch of broken minded people. It doesn't make any sense to mess with someone you don't want to marry but makes you to be selfish. That is crazy and doesn't make any sense. Why people do that stupid stuff clearly you do not have respect for yourself either. If you act nasty towards people especially if they haven't done anything to you.

[awkward_author]

I have an extremely high sex drive, so I'm horny quite often. Sex is a physical act that can be divorced from emotion. It's also enjoyable for me, so I engage in it with others.

[Asker]

You are toxic and selfish you need to be taught a lesson. Because what you say doesn't make logically sense it just sounds like a bunch of wasted time.

[awkward_author]

You believe sex should only occur in a serious relationship. That's fine. Don't shame others who think differently. At this point, I also think you hate men, which will put a wrench in your relationships if you're attracted to men.

[Asker]

I have a reason to ashame people who do because they know that that ain't right but do it anyway. How would you like it if you liked a girl and she used you? Treat others how you want to be treated not doing stuff from you being selfish.

[awkward_author]

If I was attracted to a woman, and she only wanted sex, I'd be completely fine with it. I just hope we have fun together.

[Asker]

Whatever just lying

[awkward_author]

How is my opinion a lie because it doesn't conform to your worldview?

[Asker]

Because it doesn't make any logically sense

[awkward_author]

It actually does when you take into consideration the fact that we're animals. Sexual arousal and acting on said drive is natural to our species. You can see this behavior in other animals as well. There are also a lot of things that don't make logical sense. Emotions are one of them, but they're still experienced. They impact us as well. Life doesn't always make logical sense, and you need to accept that. If anything, serious monogamous relationships are less natural than sleeping around.

[Asker]

You just prove my point to what I am arguing if you think that men have the shorter end of the stick then you are a damn fool. Because the stupid stuff you are saying if I was talking about sleeping around they think that I was a whore.

[awkward_author]

I've said this multiple times. It's a societal double standard. Why are you letting the opinions of others dictate your life? Stop blaming men for your own problems and sheep behavior.

[Asker]

You need to be place into a daycare center with the rest of these assholes who answer this question so you all can sit in the room together.

[awkward_author]

I don't mind being cared for by attractive women. Thanks for the offer.

[Asker]

Talking to you men on here is like having a conversation with a 2 year old you can't ever be on the same page with them they are always in the right.

[awkward_author]

When you're egalitarian and speaking with a sexist woman, it's difficult to be wrong.

[Asker]

Clearly you are adding to the problem using women for their bodies.

[awkward_author]

Everyone I've ever had sex with knew I only wanted sex. I don't have a problem having no strings attached sex. If a woman believes she can change me and that's why she's screwing me, that's her problem. She knew what she was getting into.

[Asker]

So it isn't your responsibility if she gets pregnant?

[awkward_author]

If I got someone pregnant, we would both be responsible. However, all I'd do is support her decision. It's her body, and, based on what she decides, we'd figure it out from there.

[Asker]

It sounds like to me if you just hooking up you won't take any responsibility in raising a child

[awkward_author]

I, personally, don't think she should keep the child. If we're both just hooking up, neither of us is ready for that kind of responsibility. If I was allowed an opinion, I'd tell her that. Children deserve to be raised by someone who is ready to care for them.

[Asker]

The person who says that women are adults and when a man is in a mess than he doesn't have to grow up if he doesn't want to.

[awkward_author]

That's not what I said. Why are you twisting my words to suit your narrative? It's overly emotional and childish, to be honest.

[Asker]

You are childish because you think that hookup culture makes you a man.

[awkward_author]

I never said that. Hooking up should be someone's choice. It doesn't make anyone a man or woman. Maturity and age do. No strings attached sex is my preference. If it's not yours, that's perfectly fine. You do you.

[Asker]

Well not is a choice that is shitty and means that neither one has respect for one another.

[awkward_author]

I don't care if the person I'm sleeping with has respect for me. It's a hookup or one night stand. As long as we enjoy each other, I'm more than okay with it.

[realandcurious]

Realistically short of rape. Women have all the power sexually this is why society looks at her as the fool. The basic understanding is men are naturally wired to spread their seed while it’s up to the woman to find the suitable mate. This is the basic instinct of the animal kingdom. With this being said that’s why I believe society typically will put responsibility on her. Not saying it’s right it’s just the way the ball bounces. We can’t have our cake and eat it too.

[Asker]

That is the problem in this world that men can do no wrong.

[UsernameXLTX]

You can't be "used for sex" If you consented, you wanted sex equally.

Don't know one man who complained he was used for sex by a woman.

[Asker]

Yes you can if a woman was pressure by a man to do it. She can say no but he can force himself onto her too. There are guys out there who intended to use women just for their bodies but when they spread and std or get a woman pregnant he isn't accountable for that either

[EnglishEuropean]

Because women are dumb but men are dumber.

[Tstrbrainer]

Well, if you don't want to be used for sex, don't give up so easily

[Asker]

Yeah wise ass it is funny how a man can just up and leave and don't take accountability for any responsibility like giving someone an std of pregnant. So he can just run and do it to someone else. Men already intended to use that woman for sex I mean if he didn't like her why don't he have sex with a woman that he actually wants. Because if a woman used you for your money and you actually wanted to take her serious you wouldn't like that either

[Tstrbrainer]

Nobody likes getting used. But one should be responsible for one's own safety

[Asker]

I guess a woman needs to take her own car and meet men in public places since they don't know how to control themselves either. All they want to do is act like wild damn animals if they are in a room by themselves with a woman. Why can't a man grow the fuck up? Why everything has to be out on the woman to think of everything? A man should be able to want to protect a woman.

[Tstrbrainer]

He will look after you if he really likes you. The thing is we will have sex with almost any woman

[Asker]

That tells me right there that you men are the whores. I wish thay us women would judge you men like you do use. Because you are all hypercrites but actually worse because you all sleep with more women then use women sleep with men.

[Tstrbrainer]

Exactly. And women love it

[Tstrbrainer]

A guy who sleeps with more women is more likely to get more female attention

[Asker]

Men only like bitches who are mean to them because being nice they don't respect that. If I sat here and talked about a woman going around using men just so she can get free meals you men wouldn't like that shit. So maybe we need to be teaching y'all a lesson and being slack playing you all's asses

[Asker]

You are not going to be able to marry anyone if you think like that using a bunch of women because you can.

[Tstrbrainer]

Well, I'm not sure marriage benefits men, so it's not something I'm worried about

[Jmmmfi4]

It just is

[MacLove999]

Because woman are the price. So if you give yourself away for free. Dont blame him.

[Asker]

Oh course I'm going to blame him if he is going to want to use me like I'm a proustite which is selfish because it is for his selfish desires.

[MacLove999]

Man can't do what you don't make yourself. If you see yourself as queen he will treat you as such. If you allow him to walk all over you as well. He will do that. But never allow any human to see you less just cause you want to be a prostitute. Its your right to choose what you want to be. No one has rignt to judge you.

[Asker]

I wish I had a dick so I can have an excuse to be a douchebag I can just say that the girl allowed me. That is the problem in this society that men are always right.

[MacLove999]

No. That isn't true. Me2 movement was solo based on this narrative that if a girl says i was raped or i didn't cosent. That there should be consquences.

[Asker]

I'm not taking about rape you can't lie on someone when they didn't rape you.

[Asker]

I'm talking about being a piece of shit and lying to women so I can get what I want that kind of dude.

[MacLove999]

Rest is case closed. A man or women buys a service its business transaction. Similar to stripper getting paid to strip.

[Asker]

You don't see that men see women has sex objects. Women don't be escorting men if it does happen it is rare. I don't want to be a piece of meat. Why don't you be a woman so you can see how annoying it is for guys to act like animals in heat.

[MacLove999]

Am sorry you felt that way.

[Asker]

You don't know how it feels because you are not a woman. So your life is easier than mine

[MacLove999]

you're right i dont. But i do appreciate what sex workers do for us. I would never see them less then beautiful women they are.

[Anonymous]

So much bullshit here.

[Asker]

Young guys don't understand nothing nothing but a bunch of pieces of shit on here.

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry, but it's hard to take seriously anyone who has such poor grammar and punctuation. And besides, you are just another bitter woman.

[Asker]

Maybe I have a reason to be bitter because of men and you all's trashy attitudes.

[Opinion Owner]

"... you all's trashy attitudes" LMAO! You are a fucking hypocrite but you're just not bright enough to realize it.

[Asker]

Clearly you are a hypocrite because for me being nice doesn't work. Everytime I be nice I get walked over and than when I act like a bitch you all call me bitter make up you all's minds what you want. It says to me that you are all the stupid ones because you men get easily bored with a woman.

[Asker]

You're dick is small.

[Asker]

Says the person with the baby dick.

[Anonymous]

Found the bigot. What do I win?

[Anonymous]

This could all be solved by walling off a couple of continents and splitting up the genders

[Asker]

I actually do agree with you.

[Opinion Owner]

It's the way of the future

[Asker]

Since men and women can't get along and always putting the finger at one another.

[Opinion Owner]

Exactly, politically would be interesting as well

[Asker]

You said something smart unlike these other dudes who just say stupid stuff to make even more problems.

[Anonymous]

Are you from an alternate reality where women are treated like adults?

[Asker]

Well does it give a man an excuse to be a boy. Where he acts like a manipulative and controlling narcissist who intent was to get sex anyway. I like how people only say something to the woman about having sex but not the man like he doesn't have any responsibility if she gets pregnant he can just start running and say he isn't the daddy.

[Opinion Owner]

Take your pills and don't get pregnant. Simple

[Asker]

Women might as well not even date because men can be douchebags and get away with it. Might as well not even try to get married if a bunch of guys are trying to cheap pleasure that is out of us women's control. It isn't really anything to solve but leave their asses alone.

[Opinion Owner]

Great. Then stop dating men and don't get married

[Asker]

Yeah it is pretty much hard to reason with you because you men are always in the right. Men do have it easier it is a man's world so a woman is pretty much arguing with a 2 year old.

[Anonymous]

Let's be clear here:

YOU are the one saying that.

It's not something that i think, so if dont like it then stop being it.

You are the problem that you are complaining about.

[Asker]

How am I the problem if I can't control other people's actions and what they do? I am just sat ng it doesn't matter who does the wrong the woman is always at fault.

[Opinion Owner]

Because you are perpetuating this idea.

[Asker]

I didn't do anything it isn't my fault that people are narcissistic and leave me for another woman. Is it your fault when women use you for what you give them and they just take?

[Opinion Owner]

Quote: narcissistic and leave me for another woman So, it would seem that this is what you are really talking about, you had a bad experience with one specific person and instead of talking about that one person you decided you would start raging about an entire gender or society as a whole. Also regarding this, quote: Is it your fault when women use you for what you give them and they just take? Yes, it is.

[Asker]

A lot of people I see cheat and that isn't a lie. Can't really make people do what they are supposed to if they dont want to but leave them alone.

[Opinion Owner]

No, that's right, you don't get to choose what other people do you only get to choose how you respond to what they do and how you feel about it. Life isn't fair and it doesn't owe you anything.

[Asker]

Well I don't like to hear people's mouth about things not working out when it isn't in my control if you know that the world doesn't evolve around me. People need to mind their own business especially when they have the same problems or go through worse. I asked why people are always criticizing women all the time when they don't have control over if they are ready for love or not.

[Opinion Owner]

Quote: I asked why people are always criticizing women all the time when they don't have control over if they are ready for love or not. YOU are the one doing that. I'm not doing that, that isn't what i think but you decided that it's what everyone thinks.