After being a gag for an hour and reading all the questions I'm pretty well turned on and I go to another chat site with random chatting and I role play and when I asked the girl but her fantasy is what is her dream what does she want to experience so many of them say my fantasy is rape now is also known that it's just a fantasy they don't wish it on anybody it's just that forcefulness and that intensity that goes with it I don't think it's wrong I think it's a fantasy and it's something that they want to experience in fantasy only but it can get pretty hot pretty sexy as a fantasy I know two girls that were raped and I don't wish it on anybody and when I found out I found one guy and I beat the living fuck out of him and then I called the police called her and I told her she had to press charges on him otherwise he was going to keep doing it I have been touched Bad Girls and I have said stop it I've had to walk away one of them was in my house I told her just get the fuck out I know what it feels like I know what a girl feels like to be touched when you don't want to be touched I can't even imagine not being raped if a girl gets raped any of you girls out there to get raped call the police turn the motherfuker in and put his ass in jail otherwise she's going to keep doing it I don't know if anybody has daughters but that scares the fuck out of me and I would go to prison probably if somebody raped my daughter
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I've read that one of the most common female fantasies is rape. No woman would every want to actually be raped and brutalized. But in our fantasies, we are in control and everything is safe.
So why rape? It must be that many women enjoy being dominated like helpless damsels at the hands of a gorgeous man who will use them to satisfy his appetite. He is a ravenous beast and she is his succulent prey.
The fantasy indicates a desire to be dominated, controlled and used by a strong, aggressive man for his pleasure. I imagine the fantasy involves excitement, like the thrill of a roller coaster or chills while watching a scary movie.
In fact, a fantasy is exactly like a movie that we invent with our imagination.
An active imagination is an indication of a healthy mind.
Some romance novels feature women who are conflicted. She feels excitement and erotic desire for the tall, handsome, mysterious protagonist. She knows it is wrong. She senses danger. She thinks "No, no, no!" but is powerless to resist his hungry lips. Mad with desire, he rips open her bodice to feast on her tender breasts, and then roughly takes her. She is overwhelmed by a combination of conflicting emotions like fear, dismay, revulsion, helplessness and most of all, lust and desire. Her pussy is wet and yearning for repletion. Feeling his mouth, his hot breath, and his powerful hands on her body, and his manly strength and energy deep inside her body fulfills the very nature of her womanliness. Her orgasm is inevitable.
At least that is the fantasy.
Another popular fantasy for women is sex with a vampire.
Interestingly, studies have found that women who reported having sexual fantasies involving submission were more sexually satisfied than women without such fantasies.
I had a girlfriend that was into a rape fantasy. She met a guy online, who was also into a rape fantasy. They talked about it a lot. She decided to finally meet him. After the date, she invited him over to her place. They sat on the couch and talked. She went into the kitchen to get something and he followed her in there threw her to the ground and raped her.
She was so mad and felt used and humiliated. I asked her what happened after he raped her? They sat down on the couch and talked a bit. He then got up and left. He then ghosted her.
She was considering calling the police and filing a rape report.
What exactly did she THINK was going to happen when she invited a guy she didn't know with rape fantasies over to her place after telling him she had rape fantasies? The police probably wouldn't have done anything, but even if they did, the DA would never have prosecuted the case, because it would be a certain loss. Would you invite a stranger over who was a known bank robber, after you told him you had a pile of cash and dreamed about being robbed at gunpoint, and NOT expect to get robbed? I seriously don't understand people's complete lack of common sense.
I mean didn't she invite him to rape her? Wasn't that the whole point of meeting up?
@Hangry06 I guess what happened is she decided it wasn’t for her once it actually came time. Women these days…… so indecisive
No it is not. A real rape is terrifying, of course. But the desire to be forcibly fucked by someone you love, desire, enjoy - that is, optional rape - must be a wonderful fantasy. I love this fantasy. 😈
Hmmmmm. You fantasize about being kidnapped?
fucking sexyyyy
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Absolutely OK. The JOY of being "TAKEN" seems quite common among women. In today's environment in America I would want a signed agreement from a woman before I acted on that so I wouldn't be accused of sexual assault in the morning.
I did NOT understand that level of submissiveness until I met a sexually aggressive "hot wife" in 1977. She had two different styles:
1. She would tease and taunt me about doing the "sexiest things" TO ME! Then I had to say, "PLEASE mistress, PLEASE MAKE ME DO IT! When it was over, I had to ADMIT that I ENJOYED "IT"! I told her OFTEN, I DO ENJOY IT MOST when you MAKE IT about YOUR pleasure.
2. Enter the room and say, "I GOT laid. That is when I NEED a man the MOST! Lay DOWN so I can sit on your face! To finish she always offered me her ass hole and said, LICK THAT TOO"! THAT caused a state of PRIMAL MALE ECSTASY in me! I WAITED for THAT PART! I really DID! That was just plain RAW PRIMAL SEX! NOTHING MATTERED BUT HER PLEASURE! Oh, the SOUNDS of her pleasure! When she had as many orgasms as she could, and there were MANY, she would say, NOW you can fuck me from behind so you can "EAT" your cum TOO!" I WANT you to rub your face in "IT" and ENJOY YOURSELF! I DID!
THAT is HOW a woman "TAKES A MAN". No assault there, ONLY the most INTENSE state of PRIMAL MALE ECSTASY! I ADORED her for THAT and told her so often. She called me her "dirty f------ cum licker (DFCL)" and gave me 2 tags for by dog collar, DFCL and BAHL (best ass hole licker). I wore them BOTH with GREAT PRIDE!
I called her my goddess or my "WILD f------ c--t"! She liked that and would say, "YEAH, I like that. NO other man has had the balls to call me "THAT"! No man can TAME ME!" ONLY a fool would TRY to tame her! She was who she was and WE made the MOST of it.
Oh, did you notice that the two tags that I was SO PROUD of had NOTHING to do with intercourse? Intercourse was only her way to get "wet" AND SEXY. Lady Chatterley "reveled in his stickiness"! Today's women make a man ENJOY his "stickiness"! A woman asked me to inhale her scent after sex and I WAS GONE forever! SHE KNEW what was going to happen!
Nah I don’t think there’s anything wrong w/ it Bc ultimately that’s a consensual fantasy which is a green light for anyone who enjoys role playing.
CNC is fairly common and practiced. I wouldn’t say it’s wrong, but it’s not for a lot of people….
Thanks for mentioning CNC, had to look it up and learned something new
You’re very welcome.
Not really but a rape fantasy is nothing like the real thing.
Often those that have told me they fantasize about it, they want to cheat and think some guy will be nice, gentle, and take care of them, all against their will of course as they will never actually ever cheat. They think their man will not blame them for it, cause it wasn't their fault.
No fantasy is wrong, no kink is wrong so long as everyone is okay with it.
When I hear rape fantasies, I think of domination fantasies. Don't think anyone wants to be raped in real life, as that is scary/you don't know what will happen, and it's without consent. In your head you are in control of your fantasies.
because you're not wanting actual rape.
lack of control in a controlled environment is your actual fantasy
Your 'fantasy' is idealized and 'scripted' ... in ultimate 'reality' YOU ARE 'in control'.
Think back to your childhood and HOW you CHAFED and rankled at being non-consensually
FORCED to do what YOU found 'unpleasing'~ Even in adult rolePLAY most have a 'safe' word
withdrawing the 'victim's assent.
It turns 'real' when it no longer 'stops' and your physical self
becomes but a means to your Assailant's ends and YOU become a 'thing' rather than a 'person'.
'Used' WITHOUT DUE REGARD for damaging One's 'playmate'.~
I mean that sounds like something you’d want to talk to a professional about.
A psychologist, counselor, therapist.
Not for any particular reason, but just to see what they have to say.
I fear that there could be men out there, some CREEPAZOIDS out there that are more than happy to take advantage of someone like you.
I had a similar situation to that. So yes the best idea is to speak with a Counselor.
It's the lack of control. I have the same fantasy and I've talked to my parents about it. I might get some heat for this one, but while talking to the boyfriend about it I mentioned that I'd be open to the idea of someone I perceive as a stranger doing so long as he knows them personally and sets it up. Logistics of it are still hazy, but communicating about it is a huge part
No heat, but how about asking the boyfriend to put on a mask and give him a key to your place to let him take you at an unsuspecting moment. As someone else said, have a safeword of it starts feeling too freaky for you.
I see where you're going. We live together. Not to mention I know what he feels like. One thing we talked about was having said person speak a specific word or phrase that would give me a small heads up that it's set up and not something worse
Yes, and that's an option, but if he is a stranger, he won't know "you" nor you him. There's a thrill there, certainly, but also the potential for it to become real rape. He holds no special feeling for you and will just use you because he thinks "you're gonna love it." Meanwhile you're getting more than you asked for. Just be careful.
It's called cnc (consentual non consent i guess). You are in a safe situation, you and your partner have talked about it before, you have safe words (when it starts to get uncomfortable/painful and isn't sexually arousing anymore, you can stop it at will).
After all this, your partner gets a free pass to force himself on you however they want. Rape is purely non consent and unsafe.
What you actually need is rough sex, someone who fuck you like he is raping you BUT it's someone you trust and it's for pleasure. Makes sense?
If it's consensual, you do you.
Your probably best calling it a fetish to be dominated in an extreme way. If you want to be full on raped your willing to be full on used abused hurt potentially in ways you will not recover then left to deal with it yourself and potentially end up pregnant.
Speaking as a guy who is a crisis counselor and has a number of kinky female friends I will say that tape fantasies are extremely common and most women and men have them.
The important word of the question is Fantasy. Sexuality is natural and will fantasize about all aspects of our sexuality even darker ‘taboo’ subjects. It can be helpful to explore different scenarios in your fantasies and see what appeals to you and why. Done properly fantasies can be acted out with consenting partners to make some wonderful and fun sex.
Rape us a crime but fantasies if properly and responsibly explored can add add some fun kinky spice to your life.
Rape fantasies are not the same as actually rape obviously. Unless you're fantasizing about some random smelly stranger doing that to you in the most inappropriate of times I think you're pretty normal with that one.
Once it's consensual it's just that a fantasy just like doing a nurse routine or a cop routine it doesn't actually make you a first responder
Well according to some feminists all PIV is rape anyway. :)
https://witchwind.wordpress.com/2013/12/15/piv-is-always-rape-ok/
Having arousing fantasies of invading somebody else's body is VERY messed up. I would consider talking to a Counselor, because this is unhealthy and just all around NOT NORMAL.
It’s a common fantasy among women. I don’t know why. I read this article It’s one of many many on this subject.
https://theestablishment.co/i-didnt-want-to-be-aroused-by-my-sexual-assault-but-i-was/index.html
When this happens it’s devastating to a women I would imagine. I can’t imagine as it’s not happened to me. I can see how it would mess them up though.
Hopefully you’re talking about CNC and not actual rape…
CNC of course.
What is cnc
@SHREYASH007 consensual non-consent
No.
Fantasies are different to reality and as long as they stay fantasies, it's NP, although doing that roleplay with another consenting adult is fine.
I have them too, except I'm the one being dominated by a woman.
It's not wrong, but like all things in the bedroom it should be disgussed, what eachother's boundaries are.
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