Rough and dominant sex is better with your partner or with a stranger?

Can a stranger think less about your feelings and that way he can be more dominant?
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  • I don't have a partner so I have to go with the stranger LOL and in their name can they have the initials BJ standing for beautiful juices but honestly I think it strangers just fine as a matter of fact I think it's very very hot when you meet somebody and you know right then and there you're compatible you both want the same things you both just look deep into each other's eyes telling each other what you want without saying one word and the moment you walk into this room together you reach down pick her up and back of her knee so she can rap her legs around you hips push you up against the long is tear open her shirt and your lips on her neck and her lips you stretch your arms up over her head and you hold it there and you just let her slowly slide down your body did you kissing her you Softly whisper in her ear I'm going to fuck you so deep and good you grab her by the hand and I mean you cool her hard over to the bed I would go down first so she could be right on top of me I would roll her over my legs in between her spreading and far apart as I get on my knees oh wait a minute time out I'm sorry this is just a question anyway I think I answered it

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  • I wouldn't have sex like that with a stranger and neither should you. There is too much potential for things to go wrong. People can be injured, sued and so on.
    That stranger doesn't know what your pain tolerances are, what your boundaries are, what your kinks are, or what your limits are.
    A lot of people, especially young men think that being a dominant means "I get to be in charge and beat up women" and will claim to be the most domly dom to ever dom a dom. They are missing the skill set that comes from time and experience so they don't understand that there are places a riding crop should not be used and someone gets hurt. Sex is supposed to fun and a trip to the emergency room is never fun. With a stranger, you run a big risk of being with that guy
    Strangers do not know how you work and what the best way to build you up is. There is an art to this. The best sadists are the ones that can bring you to your limits and push up against them without breaking them. How can someone you do not know ever hope to do this?
    Before any sort of BDSM session there always needs to be a conversation in which you discuss all of this. As you learn each other it will get much better over time.
    My advice is that you join the local BDSM community and talk to the people there. There are websites that can help you find them.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Sex of any kind is never better with a stranger, unless your kink is having sex with strangers! Think about it, what it going to be better, sex with someone who knows exactly how you like it, where you like to be touched, and that although you love being touched in that other spot, if it’s touched for too long, it starts hurting? Or sex with a complete stranger who has no clue what you like? Is it something that can be nice for a change every now and then? Lots of things are nice every now and then, but does every now and then make it better for the majority of the time? No!

    • @crazygirl2 exactly

    • @ChrisMaster69 Huh? Thanks Chris, I figured I’d get a mostly pink approval, and an all blue disapproval.

  • I think it's better done with your partner. Someone who knows you. If I'd go see a stranger and as I close the bedroom door and turn around to face him and he sees I've got rope and a whip in hand, he might think I'm a serial killer.

    While with someone you know, you know what he likes. He knows what I like. You recognize the eachother's limits/signals better.

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  • For me, with a partner because I trust them.
    I don’t trust strangers to stop if I tell them to.

    • Why would you want it to stop? 🤔

    • Tf do you mean?

    • Once the love lotion is in motion, why would you want it to stop? There is no stopping until someone passes out from pure pleasure.

  • No sex with stranger its most dangerous thing.

  • Would have to be with a partner for me. I need to trust him. Trust that he will stick to my limits, or push against them just enough. I need to trust that he will be there for me after as well.

  • with another man, with my husband we like the build up of slow to start with, in our threesomes, its like the flirting is good, but once the sex starts, we want it over, quick and rough so we can enjoy the tender slow sex, more like love making, hope this makes sense

  • I'd never be able to relax around a stranger for it to be possible enough.

  • Sex is never really better with a stranger.

    Also anyone going for rough and or dominant sex with a stranger needs to seek help.

    TRUST is a huge thing in that area, anyone willing to have rough and dominant sex with a potential psycho needs to be incredibly careful.

    Your partner or someone you understand emotionally and trust would make things so much better on every level, especially from the feedback you both share.

  • I let loose with my partner more than I’d do with a stranger. I think it’s a personal thing and really depends on your personality, I could see it go either way.
    but for me I feel more comfortable with someone I know and open up more. Sex has always been better for me with a girlfriend vs a one night stand for example.

  • With my partner lol
    I wouldn’t F no stranger.. dA hell?

  • Stranger. 100%

  • This is a really good and creative question. 2 Hypotheses here;
    a) the stranger will be more dominant because feelings aren't involved OR
    b) the partner will be more dominant as they know you and feel comfortable enough to be dominant/rough with you. There is a trust there.

  • I don't think I can do that with you 😂

  • There's a big element of trust involved so I prefer to know my partner before I let her dominate me.

    My wife isn't into it, which is ok. My ex was VERY into being in control, which was great fun.

    If I was ever single again I'd rather be more submissive again but in the end it's what works for you together, which all comes down to trust.

  • I kinda agree with you

  • it kind of matters if your partner is into it or not.

  • Both!! 💞

  • In my experience the strangers are always a lot more dominant because they genuinely just don't care about the girls pleasure during sex and I've always preferred to be fucked by a stranger.

  • I think stranger

  • With your partner you have more trust you know they won't overdo it and push the boundaries

  • Maybe... but the person I want to have primal rough and dominant sex with is not a stranger even though I have never met her in person. That all said, if ever given the chance, I would fuck her like the world is going to end... hard... deep... ass slapping... hair pulling... fucking all her holes...

    • @shreya_bj_shiry Just to update my reply... shortly after I shared my "answer", I exploded while gazing at pictures of the woman I mentioned

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