I have perky B-Cup boobs that make me self-conscious to take my shirt off during sex. How do I get over this?

[Anonymous]

For context, my boyfriend and I have been dating for six months and I still have this issue.

[OpenClose]

I mean that sounds perfect to me.

But just me saying it won't have you believing it. You can tell it to yourself, but the insecurity will still eat at you. You might think I'm "just being polite" and set my opinion aside rather than take it to heart.

So to get past it, you'll probably need to push through the fear a bit so that you can have some positive experiences and see it for yourself.

Chances are, if a guy is seeing you naked, "oh man something something boobs criticism" is not on his mind. It's probably just "boobs!".

[Anonymous]

As a guy your age, I really couldn't care what size a girls breasts are.

My ex was very self conscious about this, she had B-Cups that were more on the bigger size going into C-cup and she would say things to me like you are saying.

I thought she was one of the most beautiful girls I'd ever seen.
She was slim, hour glass shaped, quite short for my height (5'2') and it just made her breasts look the perfect size on her frame. I personally hate massively big ones on a girl, it's never been my thing.
Quite a few of my guy friends also feel the same way about the matter.

Don't be insecure, I bet you're a pretty young woman and your boyfriend feels the same way about you.

[Sirenboobzilla]

Bigger isn't always better. I understand that how you view yourself isn't always the best nor is it how others view you. It took me time to love my body for what it is, especially my boobs. I wanted them smaller for a long time. Eventually I accepted them and grew to love them. If you feel strongly about them, there's always augmentation

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

You have what most women want lol. If you’re self conscious, you can always cover up, but if you want to get over it, you have to start loving it and recognizing that he loves it as well. Also refer back to my first sentence lol.

[jerdanro]

Your man will love it too when they still defy gravity at 40. 😋

[PrettyPriya]

What exactly about your size makes you self conscious? Do you think they are too small?

[Asker]

yes. i wish they would bigger. if i could, i’d get implants in a heartbeat.

[PrettyPriya]

Careful what you wish for. Mine are bigger and I would love to have your size. Grass is always greener...

[jerdanro]

B cups are great. Natural breasts are the most beautiful.

[MrOracle]

Perky B-cups are fantastic - I have no idea why you see that as any kind of a problem. It's worth noting that the average porn star - across 45,000 female profiles that have a bra size listed - is a 34B.

[Daniela1982]

And you're complaining about being perky?

[MTC29]

Perkey B-cup sounds ideal. Personally, I don't like wearing clothing while having sex. I would have asked you to take off that shirt a long time ago.

[ohshee]

Well then for me you have the most beautiful and the best boobs around I like that size I like the perkiness of it and if you have deep sensation and I really like it let me ask you do you have very good sensation

[Asker]

good enough sensation lol

[Lionman95]

Start by taking it off with the lights switch off. That way you can used to it and he might not notice it.

[EmmaMary]

What exactly are you self-conscious about?

[Asker]

the fact that they’re not bigger

[EmmaMary]

Just how much bigger though?

[Asker]

to probably a c, maybe a d

[EmmaMary]

Like @prettypriya has mentioned, the "grass isn't always greener on the other side of the fence". You really should be extremely happy with your lovely size bust, which many women would absolutely die for.

[PrettyPriya]

@emmamary Precisely. I would love a B cup. The asker should feel lucky, not self-conscious. I truly mean that.

[slatyb]

Realize that not ever man desires large-breasted women. I don't, and presumably your boyfriend doesn't either or he would be dating someone else. Perky? There's a lot to be said for perky breasts. Yours sound about perfect. Listen to "Night Moves" by Bob Seger: "Points of her own sitting way up high... way up firm and high."

[Miristheiss]

Perky B's?

Those are the BEST!!!

[Bricealan]

I don't not get it!!! I and most guys LOVE B perky nipple breasts!!! I could suck them all day!!!

[Dargil]

B-cups are lovely. Perky makes them even better. You don't realize how much we like them. They look youthful, fit and athletic.

[AviatorTom]

Perky B-cup sounds very sexy to me. I bet your boyfriend thinks the same.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Perky B cup boobs are great!

[FunkyMonkee]

Well, what IS the issue? Do you think they're too small, too perky, not pretty? No matter which, I'll bet he wouldn't mind at all!! My ex-fiance had a pair of C's that were kinda saggy. I'm not thrilled with saggy tits but I had no issues with her because I was madly in love with her. Those tits were part of the package. I'm not about to throw out the baby with the bath water!

[Asker]

i think they’re too small and don’t look “woman” enough to me

[FunkyMonkee]

You can grow them! There's a lot of videos on YT that show how. If they work or not, I can only go by what the girls in those videos say. There's also things you can take to make them grow. BreastNexus. com has an entire section on that! Even guys have great results! One guy got up to an H cup!!

[Asker]

i wish i could take them but it probably won’t be good for my body. those products have tons of hormones in them and too much progesterone (i’m on hormonal birth control) in my body could make me have fertility issues or cancer in my uterus down the line. my only option for guaranteed growth is implants.

[FunkyMonkee]

Well, the stuff I'm talking about is all plant-based stuff and vitamins. You're worried about cancer (one of the easiest things to cure) but, you'll risk getting implants that could cause a lot more damage if they leak or, when you have to have them taken out, it makes your tits even smaller than they were to start with? There ARE other methods! At least one of those videos says that if you just slap them for about 5:00 a day, it'll eventually cause them to get bigger. There's also suction method. They have clear plastic cups you drop them into and then turn on a pump to suck all the air out and you just leave them like that for 20;00 at least once a day. No drugs or pills needed in either case.

[Asker]

okay i’ll definitely look into that. thank you.

[FunkyMonkee]

No problem, hun!! I hope at least one of them works for you. I'd try them all before I go for implants, if I were you. Besides, if you're only 18, your tits are actually still growing. I'd wait to do anything drastic until you were at least 23.

[Asker]

i’m about to turn 20 in a few months. 23 seems so far away :(

[FunkyMonkee]

I know. At that age, 3 tears is a long time but, when you get up here where I am, a year blows by in just a few months!
I don't think the slapping method would hurt.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AVOD-EI8-so&t=9s

[FunkyMonkee]

There's no nudity so, I have no idea why it's age restricted.

[helva]

Nothing wrong with perk B.

[Socal99]

There's nothing wrong with b cup tits that's a mouthful and a handful that's nothing to be ashamed about you are who you are you don't have to go and impress somebody if a guy doesn't accept you for who you are and your body the way it is fuck him he can kick rocks as some women say. I'm sure your breast b cup look amazing I'm sure you have really sexy nipples don't go and get a boob job because some guy doesn't like them I would be completely content with a woman that had b cup

[FilmGuy93]

Juist ahve sex with the lights off and get more comfortable with it that way. It's not like the guy doesn't already know how big your tits are. He's not gonna wake up the next morning after he sees them and be shocked you don't have melons.

[awkward_author]

Work toward being proud of your body in general. It's important to understand there's nothing wrong with the size of your breasts. Every woman's breasts look different, and I'm sure your boyfriend will love them.

[MrtoddsWildRide]

Size doesn't matter. You say perky and that is what really makes a man notice. He obviously like them so please do not think that your breasts are unattractive.

[AndrésC64]

Enjoy it! Depending on your body frame, that's about the perfect size. Most men, or at least many like that size.

[Asker]

I'm 5'5 and 125 pounds. is that a good frame for my size?

[AndrésC64]

Sounds great!