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Is there anything a girl can do to make her partner last longer, or does it totally depends on the guy?

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  • Actually it depends on both the guy and girl and fewer outher factors

    •practice makes man perfect and.. regular exercise of abdominal pelvic muscles help him last longer and have greater sex

    •prolong foreplay and lot of oral sex

    •Doing intercourse you keep taking small gaps for few seconds and during that time u ask him to go down on you or u do outher stuff for few seconds and do not stimulate his penis for some time...
    then you you give him blowjob for some time and then again go back to fucking...

    You can keep repeating this process by taking small small gaps during intercourse and u can prolong it for really long time

    •using condom can also help in prolonging the intercourse and him lasting long because it feels way too good without condom and he will cum soon so it's better to use condom

    •avoid few positions and keep them for last.. few positions can be really crazy and make him cum soon so it's better to try those positions during end

    •and asking to masturbate half an hour or 15-20 minutes before you start having sex can be one more way for him to last long

    • @Prachiii TQ 🤗🤗🤗

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  • The slower you go, the less likely he'll cum fast. A good analogy to lasting, is like a fast break in basketball, after you've just stolen the ball... if you try and run down the court too fast, and slam it, you may miss the slam (or make it) but, you've just allowed the defenders to be on the other end of the court already, which could allow for an easy score over there as well.

    You really would much rather take it down, maybe fake a shot, and then set up a play.

    The only thing a guy can do, is work on his stamina. But that would be on him, not you. Also, YOU could do more foreplay, so YOU can get there faster. Also, it might help him masturbate and cum, before having sex, since he'll need to regenerate etc..

    https://www.bustle.com/p/the-analogy-that-transformed-my-sex-life-because-maybe-anyone-can-be-a-pro-25590

Most Helpful Girls

  • Women have probably been asking this question for generations. I think it’s all up to the guy.

  • Take your time and build it up slowly, don't go all out, condition him

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  • Prachiii, Sometimes that happens with guys especially if it has been a while since he last had sex or masturbated. When you have sex with him try to go slower and not let him just "jackhammer away". What also works is if you give him a handjob first that way he should slow down after one orgasm. Or consider going for round 2 or 3 with him. Encourage him to masturbate more as he will not be so ready to cum quickly. What are your thoughts?

  • The sort of things you can do are if your on top slow down your pace if things are happening slower he will take longer to cum.

    Learn the signs that he's about to cum if you get him close to the edge you need to look for an excuse to stop briefly. Excuses you can use are changing position, pull him close to hug and kiss him so he's not thrusting, go for a drink or have a pee that'll give him time to cool down a little.

    Try positions that are aimed at moving slowly.

    Use more lube or something to numb him up a bit.

    Finally talk with him and explain how you want to help him level up and enjoy your time together for longer

  • Well what are you doing now?

    If your the type of girl that just lays there and makes him do all the work you might not be able to do much.

    Things you could do.
    Make sure he dose plenty of foreplay, if you feel you aren't getting enough by time he busts then have him do all the foreplay stuff before he ever gets his dick wet.
    Make out a little, have him play with your nipples, suck your neck, blow and play with your ear. Have him play with your vagina, fingering, eating you out, or just playing with the clit, something you know? Like if you aren't getting enough make him do that till you are good and horny, hell make him do it till you orgasm once.

    The other thing you can do is be the one doing the work, if you're on top and facing him you can watch him, anytime he's about to bust you can stop, if you're doing the sex you can control when he cums.

  • If the guy wants to go, he should be able to go. Same with when a woman wants to leave, she should. Why keep them around if they’re unhappy? You want them to continue to be unhappy?

    • Why would that make him unhappy?

  • There are methods within the Kamasutra that a couple can practice together.

  • Well, she was 22, and I was 26, and I had a hell of a time to keep from shooting before I wanted to. I tried, Benzocaine, on the HEAD, and it did numb it some, but then I would not stay as hard as I wanted to when pumping. She said that the guy before me could pump like mad for a long time, and not shoot his was until he wanted to, and she though he had a hard time shooting, but that was not the case when she had her mouth on his cock. It this point in time, I use Viagra to stay hard, and Benzocaine to desensitize the HEAD

  • There are skills that can control the pace.

  • My wife practiced edging on me which helped me tremendously when I was young. As I got older I naturally was able to last longer to our benefit

  • There are penis rings that fit snug they can serve the purpose and/ or vibrating penis rings that serve the purpose for you and for him

  • You can change positions some allow men to cum faster while others may make you cum faster. Also the speed to can affect it, he'll last longer on the second round so you can go again.

    Other then that probably just practice and there are things he can do to last longer. Such as exercise, diet (what he eats) stuff like that.

  • You could use nummbing lubes, but there's basically nothing the woman can do

  • Yes, tell him to stop wanking himself before having sex. Like at-least a day or sometimes several days more for more quickie guys. They gotta stop making their hand have less sensitivity than a vagina.

  • Don't be too hot... don't be too tight... don't be too wet! If you can get all those things down, it might work! lol

  • -Switching positions during sex helps.
    -Encourage him to engage in some "self care" a couple of hours before hand
    -Using condoms.
    -Getting him to spend more time on foreplay. That one doesn't help him last longer, but can level the playing field.

  • Probably be disengaged in the sex or turning him off.
    Other than that, it's all on him I'd say.

  • He has to masturbate A LOT
    If you don't masturbate, you can't build up stamina.
    He needs to masturbate like 2 or 3 times every day

  • girl can do a lot to make partner last longer... u can follow me so we can discuss this on dm

  • Give him a hand job before PIV, or suggest that he jerk-off first. You could do mutual masturbation.

  • buy a numbing gel or cream

    • follow me back?

  • He needs to take medicine for it. Zoloft. Tell him to talk to a doctor or check out Hims. I have heard it works really well.

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