How often do you randomly get hard?

[Apple1996]

Not from something sexual just like it pops up for no reason

[TCredo]

It's more randomly semi than full on hard... that was something that happened when I was much younger lol. I'll get random semi's on and off during the day... full on hard is related to something sexual that triggers it :)

[TCredo]

@apple1996 Thanks for the MHO on such a fun question :)

[ChrisMaster69]

A fair bit

not at all helpful today in meetings all day which involved standing up and presenting to board etc.

[Apple1996]

Haha standing in front of everyone like that must be terrible

[ChrisMaster69]

@apple1996 I don’t mind standing there in front of everyone, however having to use my IPad Pro as a bloody ‘shield’ is a bit of a pain 😂🤦

[ChrisMaster69]

@apple1996 thank you for MHG, most appreciated

[MrOracle]

Purely no-reason boners? I'd say very rarely. They were much more of a factor when I was 13-15 or so.

Now, do they happen sometimes just seeing a hot girl who is moving or positioned a certain way, or who just has a very attractive shape? Sure, if I'm relaxed and it's not a public situation where I need to be in control, that can definitely happen.

[God_of_Thunder]

It happens a few times a day, at least. I'd say 4-5 a day, on average.

[MCheetah]

Sometimes.

[matchrestore]

It still happens occasionally, but far less often than it used to when I was a teenager. Probably once a day on average.

[ohshee]

There is always a reason and nine times out of 10 is because I feel energy coming from the person it's one of the most beautiful feelings in this world and if you understand that you can feel it very deep and the moment I start feeling that things just start happening LOL

[Lonewulf57]

I think you don't understand the male form that well. It never "randomly" pops up. It happens because a guy reacts to what he sees, hears, thinks or feels (aside from morning wood, which is leftover from a dream you were having right before you woke up (thereby thinking)).

For me, morning wood still happens, but instant arousal happened more frequently from 12-19.

[Apple1996]

50% of guys here have it randomly popping up

[Lonewulf57]

I have to disagree. It might have been when they were starkers, and a cool wind blew by, but it doesn't pop up for "nothing"

[Apple1996]

Ah I don't know I've had my husband tell me that it's completely random. Also have 3 boys and they only ever get random boners since they are kids it's obviously happening randomly

[Lonewulf57]

you're 25 and have three sons who are old enough to have boners? um okay, but let me explain husbands and sons a little. Husbands get embarassed to explain they glanced out a window and saw the next door neighbor or some random hot woman in a bathing suit, whatever, and got a boner then had to explain it. They feel like theyre cheating, thus cover-up. Sons, if theyre in puberty or older, and especially to their mom, don't like to explain their boners. They don't even understand this new change to their body that happens, and thus coverup. But boners don't JUST happen. Like I said, it could be from a cool breeze (thus tactile), or from someone they see, or a fantasy that comes unbidden to mind, or someone talking naughty on the phone, but it needs a trigger to occur.

[Apple1996]

My kids are little. Still happens with babies and little boys. And nah I know that my husband isn't seeing anyone outside or anything like that. We are pretty open about rating people that we see run by the house. It is random for a lot of guys like happens for non sexual reasons

[NYlatefun]

She's right, maybe you don't get them @lonewulf57 but other guys do, i do get completely random boners in addition to "logical" ones.

[Lonewulf57]

@NYlatefun Okay, fair enough. I dont talk to other guys about their boners, and as you said, it doesn't happen to me, so..

[AncientWisdom]

Yeah as a boy and a younger man I hard to be careful I had to control it or sometimes get stuck setting down til it went away. As I got older it happened less but even at 55 it still can do that and of course I wake up with one.

[Wrldtrv12]

Almost never, I wish I had that problem.. since mine is erectile dsyfunction!🤦🏾‍♂️😂

[Apple1996]

Oh no that sucks

[Wrldtrv12]

Lol eh you get use to it!🤷🏽‍♂️😁. And I've adopted a sense of humor about it 👍

[NathanDavis]

random arousal can happen sometimes but that's it... no "random hardons"

as the experienced grown-up and adult that I am, I am very much in control of it... if a hardon happens is because I let it/want it... or, others want it... lol

[Apple1996]

Interesting I think some guys can't control it

[Still-alive]

i definitely can't control it lol

[NathanDavis]

they sure could... they just don't want to, or they are creeps and immature... or 12 year olds, like I once was... lol

[Still-alive]

you don't speak for all men...

[Apple1996]

Awh no I don't think that's true. It probably that you've learned to control and other guys just haven't. Doesn't make them creeps

[NathanDavis]

@Still-alive did the suit fit or?

[Still-alive]

lol gosh you reek of arrogance you know that...

[NathanDavis]

@apple1996 yes, exactly as you said... (= it is something you can, and have to learn to control as you grow up, in order to be more functional in society and also something you have to be willing to do, so you are right as for the rest of my comment, I didn't mean they are all creeps and perverts... what I mean is that many men are creepy perverts that lack self control and cave into their primal urges while others, just don't want to control... and that's more of a playful situation, two different things, it's a situational context

[NathanDavis]

@apple1996 which, by the way... is something I learned to control between 12 and 15 years of age, otherwise... I would have run into a lot of trouble in High-School and College, not being able to control myself... lmfao

[OlderThanILook]

It happens. Sometimes you just 🏃‍♂️🚶‍♂️🧎‍♂️🪵