Did you lose your virginity or did your virginity lose you?

Question

What I'm saying is.. did you puposely go out and try to lose it... Or did you jus wait around for someone to take your virginity?

Because I've been a virgin for 24 years and not sure any girl will ever try to take my virginity sadly... I thought maybe I should go outside and try to lose it myself.. but that's kind of sad.. I don't think anyone does that.. I think people jus come along and take their virginity if they're attractive enough.. so I must jus be ugly

Dexter_Morgan42 · Accepted Answer

I was going to parties and flirting with girls, but I wasn't on a mission to get sex. I was young and very idealistic back then, I was a hopeless romantic.
I started dating a girl and I was incredibly patient. I wasn't even trying to have sex.
Eventually she was making moves on me, kissing, grabbing my dick and she would get completely naked under the covers when we would cuddle.
Then I took off all my clothes too and one thing lead to another. I wasn't a virgin anymore.

RobT312 · Accepted Answer

for me it was a mutual thing. my girlfriend and i were both virgins and were ready for sex and shared the experience together. she is long gone now, but can't complain really!

SnakeBoop · Accepted Answer

okay, drop the whole "woe is me, nobody wants my penis for sex" routine.
its boring, its a turn off, and no wonder. That attitude means you may as well be waving a big red flag saying "emotionally desperate and nearly an incel"

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

it was stolen…

PrettyPriya · Answer

I did not go out and purposely look to lose it like I was on a mission.

MTC29 · Answer

I was caught completely off guard by a woman who was much older than myself- in fact she was older than my mother. That is how it was.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Purposely lost it, was not trying we decided to be each other’s firsts.

dustybiker · Answer

It could always be worse. Be happy you’ve not been sexually abused. You have comfort in being able to sit there and assume you are ugly, which probably is not the case.
You could also switch your life up. Go try new things and meet new people through them. Go get passionate about something. Being good at something is attractive.

EmmaMary · Answer

I very happily lost my virginity... Thank You.

slatyb · Answer

I had it in my coat pocket but I forgot to take my coat when I left.

Dargil · Answer

Its not lost. It is given away.

IveGotNoName · Answer

Lost it to my boyfriend of 1.5 years at the time.

jamesgoldman · Answer

I didn't purposely lose it, I didn't wake up and say today is the day I was lurned in because I was oblivious to her plan and fast forward a bit I was no longer a virgin