Is having sex with an older person okay?

I have gotten to know my older neighbor well she’s almost 60 I’m 37. I noticed that we’re both attracted to each other and the idea of sex with her totally turns me on. I wonder if it’s a sustainable relationship though, given the huge age difference
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  • I'm betting she's love to play with a younger guy. No harm in suggesting it.

    A few suggestions. Enjoy lots of foreplay, get both of you really turned on before penetration. And use lots of lube... older women tend to be dryer than younger women, and it could be painful for both of you.

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  • It depends on your motives. I'm not into much older women and to me getting involved with a much older (or, indeed, a much younger) woman just for the sake of having sex with her feels like the basest form of exploitation; I wouldn't like to have anyone treat me in such a reprehensible manner. If real love, mutual trust and respect, and compatibility are there, however, nothing is wrong with it and it could work out fine for both.

Most Helpful Girls

  • It would make more sense emotionally than someone your age chasing teens. Not without challenges though. My neighbors in those ages lasted about five years. He was decent but ended up acting like a piece of work in the end and Karma bit him rather hard for it.

  • Perfectly fine. Most of my sex live has been with people almost 30 years older or more

    • Wow Rebecca

    • @pinedarose i just prefer experienced guys.

    • Okay I have one actually

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  • It is okay. Go for it. I’m 31, and my wife is 69. We’ve been married for twelve years and have amazing sex.

  • I can understand that. When I was your age I was quite attracted to a woman not quite 60, but she was married at the time.

    Sustainable? How long does it have to last? If she's amenable, why not? She will know that it will end at some point.

  • It may not be sustainable due to her age. But if you're both into it then it's nobody else's business what the two of you do.

    • Yeah I’m thinking a relationship might be hard, especially since my kids are young

  • As long as you are not a child

  • Consenting adults engaging in pleasure? Sure.

  • Of course that's OK, as long as you both agree and are of legal age to do so. Please enjoy those nice moments together.

  • sure, I'm not sure of a relationship other than sex.
    When you are 47 she will be 70 and so on.
    It has worked, but she may just want a young stud.
    Older women know stuff.

  • I did for a few years. She was 6 months older than me.

  • If you think she is hot then go for it. At least you won't have to worry about getting her pregnant.

    • Yes absolutely

  • It's totally fine. You're both consenting adults.

  • Have fun and don't worry about what other people think

  • You do what makes you happy

  • Yes, it is

  • Really weird

    • Really, she’s not a granny woman at all

    • Still. That's much older then you. Very weird

    • No she looks 45 tops, Stiffer’s mom kinda woman

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  • What do you mean by "okay"?

  • I banged a 58 year old doctor when I was 22. People will stare when you go out, but who cares.

  • It is what ever you are attracted to so i dont see a problem with it

  • No issues. Do whatever feels right.

  • May not be sustainable since she is old enough to be your mother, but you two could have some fun.

  • Not for a guy.

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