What can I do about my boyfriend wanting a 3some with me and one of my friends?

[Anonymous]

I am not wanting to do it. He says he did it before and thinks I would like it if I tried it.

[Anonymous]

If the idea of it doesn't turn you on, tell him you're not interested. He may just be using a threesome as an excuse to have sex with your friend, especially if he already has someone in mind. You could tell him you'd consider a threesome with him and another guy but not another girl, to see how he reacts.

[Asker]

Ya I thought about that he really wants to fuck one of my friends. Not sure though for sure.

[Opinion Owner]

I'd keep an eye on him to see if he's constantly checking out one of your friends in particular or getting friendly with her.

[nonyabeezwax132342]

Tell him you're not comfortable with threesomes.

Unless you are, then tell him you're not comfortable with her, and find someone less involved in your life, like a tinder date.

Communication is key in a relationship. If you won't listen to you it might be time to move on.

[nonyabeezwax132342]

If he* I swear this keyboard...

[integrale77]

Well you want to suggest it's with a male friend of his instead of a girl.
Another option is if you have a trans friend maybe when he finds a surprise he will change his mind.

[LiamSawyer]

Not much, he obviously doesn't love you enough to give up on his fantasy. He just wants the best of both worlds... loving you and cheating with you informed of it.

[Aqueeld]

Break up with him...

Because if you don't want something and he is forcing you to do it then he is not the guy for u..

He doesn't love you if he loves you he will respect your choice and not force you to do something like this

[Asker]

Ya that is why I asked. Not sure. He does not bring it up all the time but maybe every few months. So he really wants to but I am still not sure I would enjoy it.

[Aqueeld]

So are you confused your going to enjoy it or r u completely against it

[Aqueeld]

First tell me what r ur thoughts? Would u b ok with one more dick inside u outher than ur boyfriend?

[Gwenhwyfar]

Tell him no

[4afriend]

U might like it if u tried, but if u don't think u will like it, don't. Don't ever feel uncomfortable in a sex situation.

[MrtoddsWildRide]

Introduce him to your male friend. See if he still wants to hook up with you and your friend.

[ashish804]

he want to bang ur frnd

[Asker]

Ya I thought about that he really wants to fuck one of my friends. Not sure though for sure.

[ashish804]

yeah it is...

[HappyJon]

If you dont want to, then don't. In a situation like that it could be very unhealthy FOR YOU. It may permanently damage your trust with anyone you are with in the future. This kind of thing MUST be totally mutual. If he keeps harassing you about it, there are some underlying issues.

[AbruvAvgMatt]

If you don't want to do it, then don't do it. Simple.

Out of curiosity, ask him if he would share you with a guy friend.

[Asker]

Lol ya I don't know if he would

[888theGreat]

he really wants your friend and using you to get her ass

[Waldoe]

he is trying to manipulte you into getting one of your girlfriends to have sex with him... he is a "User"

[driven159]

If you are not comfortable with it and he insists then you need a different boyfriend he should respect your feelings

[Guido]

Tell him to take a hike and find a new boyfriend. Not uncommon to ask for things we desire but you gave him your answer and he does not respect you enough as he keeps pressuring you. Dump his ass and find somebody that respects you.

[CubaPirate]

I'd advise you to dump him. Because you're obviously not enough for him

[lycanthrope3]

Tell him to go back to the girl that did it

[RogueScorpion]

two girls become a boy but i never let my girlfriend have sex with another guy i'm jealous

[MrSmithee]

accept or deny

[Anonymous]

Tell him only if you get the same treatment and get to have some fun with him and another dude and see how he reacts

[Anonymous]

Dump him.