I like being told I'm big down there even though I'm not? Your thoughts on this (long paragraph ahead)?

[Ray123456]

I hate to be yet another person to ask a question regarding penis size but hear me out.
I know a lot of guys like being told things like "you're so big!" and "your d*ck is huge!" but I wanna know how common it is for guys that like that even though they know they're not big and their partner is lying to their face.
I'm 7 inches and I know I'm a little above average but I don't consider myself big (I consider big to be 8+ inches) but I'm still happy with my size and I'm aware that most girls don't even care about size anyway. However I do enjoy girls pretending I have a huge d*ck but I'm a bit insecure about it because I feel that I shouldn't like being told I'm big unless I really do have a big one. I've asked a few girls before to talk about size when dirty talking cause it's actually my biggest turn on (yes it's that easy to turn me on) butI'm a bit worried that they think I'm insecure because of it. I'm not insecure about my size but I'm sure a lot of girls would think that a guy basically telling them to blow smoke up his ass is a weird and insecure thing to do. I can't speak for other guys but for me I don't like being told I have a big one because I like having my ego stroked or anything like that. And a girl acting like my c*ck is massive isn't going to actually make me think it's massive no matter how many times she says it. I know how big I really am and I'm fine with it. The way I see it is, when a girl tells me I'm big even though she doesn't really believe it, she's still saying it to make me feel good and that's mostly why it turns me on. Yes she's lying to me but I don't care cause she's still trying to make me feel good. What are your thoughts on this?

[TreeMan18]

Well your comment does suggest your insecure about your size, I guess that's why you have a negative reaction to when someone says your big as you know it's a lie one that you have probably told yourself. Your forgetting one thing how can you know if the girl is lying or not, how big someone thinks it is, is subjective and will be different on case to case girl to girl depending on what they have seen and their physical limits/ personal preferences. In other words compliments can make people with low self-esteem feel uncomfortable because they contradict their own self-views and it sounds like that self view you have was given to you by society as what is considered big is different for each person so you can't assume 8+ is universal as the idea of big and small it's a subjective idea so can't be used by to assume all women think that way next time you hear it instead of assuming their thinking ask them and get the truth otherwise stop meta-analysising it will get you nowhere, if you want to go of statistics which is less bias and subjective then it says that above average not 'big' or 'small' just different.

[Ray123456]

What lie did I tell myself? I don't tell myself I'm big and someone telling me I'm big isn't going to change the way I view my size. You see, when someone says I'm big and I'm aroused and in the moment I love it but later on I worry that they might judge me because I basically don't care about being lied to. I'm not insecure about my size, I'm insecure about being judged for something that arouses me but a lot of people would consider strange or insecure. I think what you don't understand is that I don't mind being lied to. That's not what bothers me. Whether someone actually believe that I'm big or not doesn't matter to me. I still want them to pretend I'm bigger than I really am because it turns me on.

[TreeMan18]

When a girl tells you that your 'big' you say it's a lie, why cause you have probably told yourself that it is not big so that statement contradicts what you tell yourself in your head that's why you feel uncomfortable/ insecure. It sounds like your insecure but it's not specific to your size as you have made clear, it could be a sneaky case of projecting your insecurities of your size but if your comment accurately describes your situation then I agree it seems like that isn't the root of the problem rather if you where projecting it would be your fear of judgment which is the basis of social anxiety ( is an overwhelming fear of social situations like meeting or speaking to people. Due to fear of judgment) ultimately this feeling is a mix of factors. Correct me if im wrong but I will list a few psychological reasons/ processes that it could be but until you see a professional we can only speculate. I think their are many factors as to why your feeling this way, but it's like the what came first the chicken or the egg debate we really can't know for certain you just need to deal with each of the factors. I believe one of these factors is your insecurity, Insecurities are related to standards set by the people we interact with and these standards, a standard is a level of quality, something that is accepted as a norm, and generally used as a basis for judgment as People constantly evaluate themselves they need standards in order to accurately judge themselves Social comparison theory is the idea that individuals determine their own social and personal worth based on how they stack up against others. so when your standards are set by others it means your self worth is based on other people opinions and in turn your self worth becomes more dependent on external validation.

[TreeMan18]

This causes you to not feel true to ourselves and can lead to perfectionism people pleasing and low self esteem if these are not already there and caused the insecurity, these are the other factors which I'm happy to go into in more detail this comment is mainly about insecurities anyway back to it -standards they can be set by others or can be set in/ e. g The kind of childhood you had, past traumas, recent experiences of failure or rejection, loneliness, social anxiety, negative beliefs about yourself, perfectionism, or having a critical parent or partner and insecurity is bad as it means if our standards are set by other develop when we compare ourselves to others and feel less than. A simple explanation of insecurities really is the uncertainty of current systems in place to a achieve a particular outcome- so following that rule your uncertain of your current system which is embracing your kink to achieve your inteded outcome which is not to be judged usually intended outcome like I said earlier is usually a result of standards if those standards are not set by you then as described further up will happen because not wanting to be judged means you prioritize other people's view and validation especially if you have been raised on self worth = achievement then it = fundamental sense of self esteem comes not from within but others so constantly seek other approval and attention kids should be raised on validation from effort/ progress not conditional. If that's correct please clarify or use above equation in that order and tell me what intended outcome is also is insecurities/ fear of judgment/ perfectionism prominent in other parts of your life? Funny thing is fear of judgment is merely a projection of your own self-judgment- Hope this helps TreeMan also I can expand and list the other factors if you want

[TreeMan18]

The kink itself is fine there is no evidence kinks highlight mental health/ well being especially as you said you are confident with your size

[Ray123456]

Wow that's a lot to take in damn. Do you study psychology? lol.. See when a girl says I'm big, in my head I'm thinking it's probably a lie or she's exaggerating but I'm aware that she could genuinely believe what she's saying cause as you said what each person considers "big" is subjective. Either way there's no problem there. People view things differently and I'm fine with that. But let's say I'm with a girl that doesn't want to mention size. Maybe she views it as typical boring dirty talk we hear in porn and it turns her off. Or maybe it's because she knows some guys don't like girls talking about their size so they just play it safe and avoid making any comments about it. What do I do then? Try to ask her to say it? Just thinking about that makes me uncomfortable cause I know the reaction will most likely be negative even if she doesn't show it. You can see the replies from two girls here, one girl said in that situation she would be annoyed and one said she would be turned off so my worries are valid. No one likes being judged like that. But regardless, I do have some social anxiety. Nothing extreme but common stuff like the fear of public speaking. For me I have no problem talking with just one person but in front of a group of people I tend to stutter sometimes because all the eyes are on me and I feel nervous and exposed which of course means I'm afraid of being judged. Sometimes I have trouble expressing my feelings because of the fear of being judged even if it's with people who are very close to me. I don't like being an open book. It makes me uncomfortable. I rarely compare myself to others cause usually nothing good comes from that since we tend to compare ourselves more with people in a better situation than us. But honestly I don't really mind being this way for the most part. I view people as the source of many problems and usually it's just better if I keep things to myself. Also thank you for your opinion!

[bean2k21]

Girls just act like you have a big cock
So they can pretend like they're in a porn
And turn themselves on it's all mental

[Ray123456]

Yeah I'm sure it is like that for some girls.

[muscularbumblebee]

7 is big.. what are you on about lol. Most likely they aren’t lying. If they were lying and it was 4 or less then that would make them look silly probably because it’s obvious of both. Either way a better compliment would probably be ‘you’re the perfect size’ then oh huge but hey that’s up to you guys to decide obviously haha

[Ray123456]

Even if you consider 7 inches big I still want the girl to pretend I'm way bigger than that. I don't care if it's obviously not true I still love it. Also I don't like being told I'm the perfect size cause I feel like she's trying to avoid mentioning size and I don't like that. "Perfect" is too safe. I don't want a girl to be scared to talk about size. And again, I don't like it because I want validation or want to be complimented. I don't care about that. It's purely a turn on for me.

[muscularbumblebee]

Fair enough

[Gwenhwyfar]

Seven inches is big! Well above average

[Ray123456]

Thank you but I think "well above average" is a bit much. Also I reasked this question because for some reason the last few lines got deleted when I submitted it. My main question is: what would you think if a guy told you to talk about how big his c*ck is even though he's really not that big. Would you judge him harshly? Would it turn you off?

[Gwenhwyfar]

It would annoy me

[Ray123456]

Thank you for your opinion!

[Gwenhwyfar]

No prob 😊

[AmandaYVR]

You're missing a couple of things here.

To some girls, you are big. They haven't been with someone as large as you.

Worldwide average is 5.5-6". So you're also bigger than them.

You seem like a bit of a skeptic. Just because they say it doesn't mean they are "blowing smoke up" your ass.

Part of this is personal experience. It's an intimate thing. It takes time to accumulate this... sort of knowledge.

Another factor is girth. Some girls might say they prefer length over girth, but girth is great. It never hits the cervix, the one really sensitive part. (And not sensitive in a good way.)

I think you need to loosen up, lighten up. Just have fun with sex. Stop overthinking this. It is a compliment.
Sure, some girls will say things to try and make a guy feel good.
But some other girls say things they genuinely mean.
Now don't negate the latter just because of the former.
When a girl really likes your personality, and she says she likes your dick... man, you've got it made. Move on to real problems. Or just wait. They will come. This... this is the fun stuff.

P. S. I've never lied to a man about his, saying I liked it when I didn't. I want every man to be able to believe the words when he hears them. At least from me.

[Ray123456]

Actually that's not even my problem. A girl lying to me about my size doesn't bother me at all. It actually turns me on. What bothers me is that she might judge me for that. What I said about a girl blowing smoke up my ass is what I felt like I was asking for when I ASKED her to talk about my size when she wouldn't do it. I copy pasted this paragraph in the next reply from one of my replies here because it explains my situation better.

[Ray123456]

"See when a girl says I'm big, in my head I'm thinking it's probably a lie or she's exaggerating but I'm aware that she could genuinely believe what she's saying cause as you said, what each person considers "big" is different. Either way there's no problem there. People view things differently and I'm fine with that. But let's say I'm with a girl that doesn't want to mention size. Maybe she views it as typical boring dirty talk we hear in porn and it turns her off. Or maybe it's because she knows some guys don't like girls talking about their size so they just play it safe and avoid making any comments about it. What do I do then? Try to ask her to say it? Just thinking about that makes me uncomfortable cause I know the reaction will most likely be negative even if she doesn't show it. You can see the replies from two girls here, one girl said in that situation she would be annoyed and one said she would be turned off so my worries are valid. No one likes being judged like that." A girl here told me that 7 inches is big and that a better compliment would be saying it's perfect so I said : "Even if you consider 7 inches big I still want the girl to pretend I'm way bigger than that. I don't care if it's obviously not true I still love it. Also I don't like being told I'm the perfect size cause I feel like she's trying to avoid mentioning size and I don't like that. "Perfect" is too safe. I don't want a girl to be scared to talk about size. And again, I don't like it because I want validation or want to be complimented. I don't care about that. It's purely a turn on for me." Imagine if a guy who you don't think is that big ASKED you to tell him that he's huge. You'd probably we weirded out and turned off. THAT'S what bothers me. Hopefully this explains things better. Also thank you for your opinion!

[AmandaYVR]

Ok, sorry, I misunderstood a bit. So, in some ways you seem pretty clear-headed. But what is truly motivating this request, is the real question here. It's all jumbled up. Is this a sexual fetish, or kink (the difference being a necessity for satisfaction vs. a desire put not requirement), or something of a deeper psychological desire? It occurs to me that maybe what you like about this is that the girl is willing to lie to you, doing whatever it takes to make you feel good about yourself. Yet you keep saying, it's not this, it's not that... Oh really? You sure? Of course it's about validation and affirmation. At least on some level. Maybe you have a deep-seeded desire to feel powerful. You chose the delivery method for this feeling to be through some symbolic virility. You're worried girls might be turned off by you requesting this. Yes, many will be. You can't extract compliments from others. You know they're not genuine. Why are you setting it up like this?

[AmandaYVR]

Honestly, you can't have both. Getting what you want, not being judged, and having no guilt about what you want. You will be judged, assessed, yes. In the context of sex, a lot of girls will get this. It's not completely unlike something said in a dirty baby talk voice (which I never understood.) "Ooooh, you my big stwong man... " It's all an act. Is there anything truly authentic that is sufficient enough for you to get off, feel sexually satisfied? The best kind of compliments are honest, unprompted compliments and observations about themselves. If I was the girl in your bed hearing this, I'd be thinking 'This guy is missing something. He's not ok with who he is. He's not comfortable with his body, being in his own skin. He wants to be more.' Sounds like trouble to me. I would think this guy isn't genuinely confident in who he is. But then, that's me. I'm into realism, connection, depth, vulnerability, honesty. That's the turn on for me. I don't want compliments extracted out of me. I want to mean everything I say. What I would expect guys want to hear is "I love the way you fuck me" or "You're so good at..." I'm not into illusions and delusions. But a lot of girls would probably be just fine with it.

[Ray123456]

The reason why I'm like this doesn't really matter to me. I mean it's not THAT deep and it doesn't bother me THAT much. Are you suggesting that this is something I should probably look more into and try to "cure" myself? This is just a kink, which by definition is "an unconventional sexual taste or behavior". A fetish is "a sexual fixation on a nonliving object or nongenital body part". And I don't NEED to be told I'm big to get aroused but it definitely helps. But you're right, one of the reasons I like it is because the girl is willing to go out of her way and lie to me to make me feel good. I said this in the original question. "The way I see it is, when a girl tells me I'm big even though she doesn't really believe it, she's still saying it to make me feel good and that's mostly why it turns me on. Yes she's lying to me but I don't care cause she's still trying to make me feel good". Also don't most men want to feel powerful and virile? It's not unusual.

[Ray123456]

The main takeaway for me here is this: Life INSIDE the bedroom and OUTSIDE the bedroom are separate. What I like during sex doesn't have to be connected to or similar to what I like in my normal life. If you think that in my everyday life I'm not all for honesty and authenticity you're definitely wrong. If you don't genuinely mean what you say, don't say it. Don't bullshit me. Do you think I'm the type of person that fishes for compliments? Hell no! During sex, it's a different story. I don't mix those two things up. I guess my kink is kind of like roleplay. Roleplay in the bedroom isn't by any means "real" or "authentic" but it's still fun and enjoyable to live out a fantasy. I don't consider my kink about validation, affirmation or illusion because it's just that, a kink. This is just how I see it. You want honesty in all aspects of your life and that's fine but to me, not everything has to be "real" and that doesn't necessarily have to be a "bad" thing that needs need some sort of psychoanalysis. Hopefully it doesn't sound like I'm getting defensive.. What if the guy you're with explained this to you and told you how he really feels about his desire. Would you still brush him off as being in denial like you think I am? I know it's sometimes hard to understand where someone is coming from, but partners should understand and accept each other. If I'm with the right girl who gets where I'm coming from then I have to nothing to worry about anymore.

[AmandaYVR]

No I don't think this is something you need to "cure" or eliminate from your sex life. But you asked the question about how girls do/would feel about being asked to do this, so that's why there's a discussion here. Based on that fact alone, yes, some will think it's fine/fun and others will think it's/you're a bit weird. You have to accept that as a byproduct of what you want. I do actually agree with you that not everything is something deeper, needs psychoanalysis and all that. I'm just an extremely analytical person and I analyze many/most things (especially if asked about it) so there you go. I get that it is roleplay. I almost used that word. Nothing wrong with that. I'm just a realist who doesn't relate to that personally. I want to know how people think, but the more something departs into fantasy and make-believe, the less interested I am. It's like physics. I think dealing with the laws of physics is a challenging limitation here on Earth. I could care less how things might work on distant planets, or if we had super powers. Those extreme fantasies are boring to me because they are so ungrounded. The superhero gets punched or thrown through a wall, and I don't hold my breath wondering if he's going to die. He'll get up. There's about $100 M dollars at stake on a sequel. But some guy pretending he's a cop and she's been very naughty, or a girl pretending she's a nurse and needs to fix him up... sure, go for it. Pretending to be something else is just something that appeals to people more or less.

[AmandaYVR]

But I would never want a guy to say, "Wow you tits are so big, I love them!" if I had small ones. I have large breasts and I know how some small-breasted girls feel inadequate, so this example is irrelevant to me but I'm trying to draw a close parallel to you. If that was the case, it would make me feel like I was signalling to the guy that I am insecure about my breasts. And that's not hot, in my opinion. It means I am not comfortable in my own skin. But in your case, do you get more confident, 'turbocharged', when a girl says it to you? See, I wouldn't. I would feel lame for requesting the lie. But that's me. I only get emboldened by truthful things; things that are specific to me, and it's their opinion, unprompted. I'm just saying that if a person like you meets a person like me, she's going to think what you don't want her to think. Will she do it anyway, for you? Maybe, probably. But you can't stop her internal thoughts from whirring away... does this guy feel inadequate? The inside-outside bdrm thing is not straightforward in my opinion. I don't have final conclusions on that one but I don't think they are as compartmentalized as some people claim they are. Or, perhaps, it is because of one that the other exists - such as someone who feels one way (less than happy or ideal or whatever) in their work or day-to-day life, and compensates in the bdrm, buoying themselves to balance things out. But that's not always the case. Some people reveal who they are in the bdrm. Their desire for ultimate control comes to the forefront, for instance. I do strongly disagree that it's not about affirmation or validation. I think you're in denial about that one. The rest, go for it. Have fun. Maybe tell the girls they are the hottest piece of ass you've ever had. I'm sure it will help them relax and get an ego boost themselves; even if they don't entirely believe it.

[Ray123456]

Hey, to each their own. I respect your opinion. I do agree with your point about the inside outside the bedroom thing. It just depends on the person really. About your question as to if I feel more confident and "turbocharged" when a girl says it to me. Not really. It just really arouses me. Simple as that. I don't even view it as an ego boost. It's just really hot hearing "your cock is so big" come out of a girl's mouth, and if she wants me to lie to her about her breast size whether she's actually insecure about them or not, I would have no problem with it whatsoever. But that's probably because she's like me. Most other guys would probably judge her. You didn't answer this question though: "What if the guy you're with explained this to you and told you how he really feels about his desire. Would you still brush him off as being in denial like you think I am? I know it's sometimes hard to understand where someone is coming from, but partners should understand and accept each other. If I'm with the right girl who gets where I'm coming from then I have to nothing to worry about anymore." Basically if he told you that he's not actually insecure and doesn't feel inadequate would you still not believe him? If you still think it's about validation does that mean you think I'm lying about not being insecure about my size?

[AmandaYVR]

I still can't quite wrap my brain around this. (Which might add an element of humour here because that seems to be the crossroads, or maybe disconnect, between how you and I see this. ? It's not up to me to decide or claim I know what you really think and feel about this. However you are asking the question, not to necessarily interpret or analyze you, but how we would feel. I can't really put myself in this position because I've never had a lover who wanted and said something like this. It hasn't been in the realm of men I have known, ever. I feel like I'm just a no-vote, honestly. I just don't get lying, even when it's mock lying. It's like a gift. Or a kind gesture. Most people only want them when un-prompted. I am particularly like that. I can't fathom asking for these types of things, it's just not my personality. So I can't relate to you. But ok, ok, if push comes to shove... if I really care about the person, their desires and needs become important to me, and I'm way, way, more likely to compromise and/or adapt my thinking, because their happiness is important to me. They might genuinely open my mind up to something new. But for me, in order for that to happen, I have to get to know and respect and really care for the person. Otherwise, on a completely superficial level, I'll just think 'he's insecure about his size.' It doesn't mean I won't say it, in the moment, but there's no way I will think otherwise. I don't do, never have done, stranger hookups where there was no intention of pursuing something, so again, it would never happen with me like this. I wouldn't care about a stranger's sexual satisfaction much. A partner... I'll do a lot for them. I don't think you and I will agree on this. I'm not calling you a liar. But I still can't accept your wording on a lot of those. You side-step words such as validation, affirmation, ego, etc. You use softer versions of the words which mean a very similar thing though.

[AmandaYVR]

What if I rephrased it to say, you're not insecure about your size... but you do wish you were bigger? Does the word 'wish' still not sit right with you? See, to me, they're just varying degrees of the same root. I think you may be trying to intellectualize and rationalize your way out of some deeper feeling. But again, doesn't matter what I think. At the root of this - and here's where I think we can both agree - if you really want something, it makes you happy, and your girl does it for you, then there is no problem. Then she's proven to you that she's good for you, because she considers what will please you. You want her also to not think less of you for asking, and you want to know where the female population falls on this. Unfortunately that is really not something you can ascertain with 5 other pink responses here. (It's probably tricky to word into a poll, but you could try that on another q.)

[Ray123456]

I don't get why it's such a hard concept for you to grasp. It's pretty much roleplay which you've stated is not really your thing but even if you can't relate to it, you can still understand why it appeals to people. Sometimes people just like to escape reality whether it's during sex or not. It's fun, common and it makes sense. Roleplay is technically "lying" is it not? It's still enjoyable to a lot of people. To you, if someone likes to roleplay someone in a position of power (for example, a cop) then they MUST have a deep-rooted desire for power. Even if you think the degree varies, your reasoning is still too black and white to me. I don't think it's that simple. I just think it depends on each individual person. These things are complicated. But I'm no psychologist and you might be right. A lot of our feelings and emotions most likely do have a deeper psychological root but I think you're oversimplifying it in this case. Let's say someone has a humiliation fetish. Does that necessarily mean they secretly want to genuinely be inferior? If you get off on being called "worthless" does that mean you desire being worthless? Possible, but probably not. It's on a case-by-case basis.

[Ray123456]

To answer your question on whether I wish I was bigger or not. I'd say no. Do I sometimes fantasize about being bigger? Yes, but rarely. I know I'm already bigger than average and if I was even an inch bigger than I already am it could cause problems. I don't want a penis so big it scares girls off or makes sex for them more painful than pleasurable. I don't want to be too big. So no, I don't wish to be bigger even if I sometimes fantasize about it. Would you call a person who's already physically attractive insecure for wanting to look like a supermodel even though they know they're already attractive and they're still happy with their looks? This is why I think your reasoning is flawed. I feel like the reason why you don't like the words I use and why you think I'm dodging the real reason why I feel this way is because I like being told something "positive". Like I enjoy having my ego stroked. Which, understandably might rub people the wrong way. What if I told you I get off on being told I have a small penis? Would you still believe I'm insecure and not comfortable in my own skin (I'm not saying that's what you think of me specifically but as you said, that's what you would think if you were with a partner like me)? Probably not cause it's enjoying being told something "negative". But I'm just assuming.

[Ray123456]

If a person generally has a dominant personality in their everyday life but prefers to be submissive in bed, what would you think of them? I think being dominant is who they really are and who they always want to be. Your sexual desires are part of you but they don't define you. I use softer versions of the words you used because they more accurately describe how I feel. I'm just being honest and telling you how I really feel. However I don't deny that I might feel this way because of a deeper psychological desire. It's definitely still possible. Also just to be clear, I hate having to ask a girl to call me big. I feel lame doing it. I've already stated that just thinking about it makes me uncomfortable. It's always better when it's unprompted because just the fact that she likes saying it is a turn on itself for me and also the fact that if she says it herself I don't have to ask for it myself and possibly make things awkward. And if she doesn't like it I wouldn't still want her to say it just to make me happy. And I just can't compare this to a kind gesture or a gift like you do because those things are simply different for me. But still, even outside of the bedroom, you don't have to be honest all the time. Sometimes it's just not the right thing to do. For example, when someone is sad and you're trying to console them, you might tell them white lies or you'll make them feel even worse than they already do. You just have to read the room and act accordingly. It's just part of interpersonal relationships.

[Ray123456]

I think the real problem here is my fear of judgement, not body insecurity. So it's not about the way I view myself, but rather about the way others view me. That's just how I feel. The reason why I asked this here is because I just wanted to get it off my chest because I've had it on my mind for a while and I've never told anyone about it. And also to hear people's general thoughts about it. I wasn't looking for someone to tell me something I don't already know or give me advice because it doesn't really work in this case. I already know that you sometimes just can't control what people think about you and this is just something I have to live with but I don't being "analyzed".

[LikeALog]

Seven inches is considered big. Some even consider it being very big.

[Ray123456]

I wish I didn't mention my size cause now people are avoiding the question and focusing just on that..

[SarahRoberts95]

7 inches is really big. I believe that would put you in the 99th percentile.

[Ray123456]

That's hard to believe but I looked it up and you're actually right. Wow..

[KatherineJ]

Just take the compliment, say “thank you” and move on with your life.

[Ray123456]

Read the whole thing please.

[KatherineJ]

@ray123456 the right girl for you would do it.

[Ray123456]

But what do you personally think? What would you think if a guy told you to talk about how big his c*ck is even though he's really not that big. Would you judge him harshly? Would it turn you off? That's really the main question here.

[KatherineJ]

It would be a turn off.

[motheryoudliketobang]

When you boost a guys ego he will fuck you better so I’m all for it

[Ray123456]

This girl gets it

[In_Trance]

I'm sure you love the attention for guys

[Ray123456]

I'm not sure what you mean..

[ronaldo75]

7 inches isn't that big, it's above average. Just enjoy what she's telling you and leave it at that

[Ray123456]

Yeah but I'm bothered by the fact that my biggest turn on could be a turn off for my partner. If wouldn't want her to tell me I'm big if it turns her off.

[Dasjdee1]

No such thing as one penis size anyway

[Ray123456]

What do you mean?

[Dasjdee1]

It fluctuates

[Ray123456]

What does that have to do with what I said?

[Dasjdee1]

Because you’re talking about your one size. What does that even mean

[Anonymous]

My username on here is BigGuyHungLikeAHorse but I'm only 5 inches down there

[Ray123456]

To me you're just "Anonymous" lol. That's funny though

[Anonymous]

I have a average size dick but like being told it's small

[Ray123456]

That's actually quite interesting I didn't know that was a thing. I figured if you like being told you're small you really do have a small dick.

[Opinion Owner]

No I once had a friend she walked in on me changing after I had went swimming there was a lot of shrinkage she laughed and made comments about me having a small dick and it really turn me on

[Ray123456]

I see. It's not fair to judge a dick when it's soft though.. So how do you feel about being told you have a big one? Does it turn you off or are you indifferent?

[Opinion Owner]

It was shriveled-up but sticking straight out so it look like I had a little boner