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Some men don't want to get married. The reason is that the same fruit and food is eaten every day. so I wouldn't eat the same fruit and food?

Some men don't want to get married. The reason is that the same fruit and food is eaten every day. si i wouldn't eat the same fruit and food What do you think about it?
Are women a fruit or a food? Why do they see women in such a low position? Why do men who see women in this position get angry with women who see men as a wallet? Isn't this a matter of action and reaction? Is marriage only based on sex? Being a family, being a confidant is being two halves of an apple isn't it?
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The modern Western world is destroying the concept of the family. But as a Muslim, I see that Muslim men do not want to get married. whereas Islamic law is just. I agree with you on a lot of things. For example, when there is a child, the man should pay the child support. If the woman is in a very difficult situation financially and the child is with the mother, then alimony can be given until the mother recovers herself, and this depends on the man. but if the mother has bad morals and behavior
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  • This is something a few men SAY - because there's a basis in truth that all men understand - but even though there is some truth there, it's rarely the actual reason a man wouldn't choose to get married.

    It's true that men have a strong instinct to sleep around - to spread his seed. This is an instinct that we developed that allowed the species to survive and grow and helped keep us from going extinct, as so many of the earlier humanoid species did. Think back half a million years, when there were only thousands of homo sapiens. Impregnating more women meant more children and more genetic diversity, which made it more likely that at least some of the children would avoid genetic diseases and could also survive viruses like COVID that might kill a significant portion of a population. Scientists say that it takes roughly 1000 generations to alter instincts in any significant way, which means our instincts today are based on life about 20,000 years ago. So, yes, that part is true. And while women certainly have their desires too, their desires are more about hypergamy - securing the best situation for her and her offspring - it's not the same drive to sleep around that men have.

    But despite the last paragraph being true, that's not why most of the men who are avoiding marriage are avoiding it. Men who avoid marriage primarily avoided it because they wanted to avoid conflict and hassle, especially at home, where they need to be able to relax and recover from the workday. Some men either just had a low tolerance for conflict, knew they were generally disagreeable themselves, or recognized that their (low) status only entitled them to problematic women. More recently, though, this has changed, and that's mostly due to laws past in the 70s, pushed by radical feminists, that created family courts and stacked the laws heavily in favor of women, PLUS the Feminist movement itself, which quite intentionally took away as many of the benefits that men received in marriage, while maintaining the expectation that men still provide all of the benefits that women have always enjoyed in marriage. Yet, women can end the marriage and collect cash and prizes from the man, even if SHE was the one who cheated or was otherwise the primary problem. I'm not suggesting that men never do anything wrong - I've advised women to divorce more than a few times - but it's hardly a secret that the laws are very biased against men.

    Today, the legal, financial, and custody issues are the primary reason that many men refuse to marry. No sane man would ever accept a marriage contract if it was analyzed as a business contract - yet that's exactly what it is to the state, and it's enforced exactly that way. But due to social pressures, men cannot even propose making changes to this, lest they be labeled abusers and misogynists and in many cases lose their careers, so it will be up to women to push for changes to the rules that make divorce rules a lot more reasonable. Otherwise, more and more men will avoid marriage, and people won't have kids, and whole bloodlines will go extinct.

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  • Its simple. First off, lose the fruit/food analogy. Its confusing for some.

    Men don't want to get married to gold diggers.

    Basically, we want partners who won't just see us as a source for income, but rather someone who will help us raise a family, be emotionally supportive to us, and will help us feel whole.

    Even IF we find someone like that, if things do not work out due to ANYTHING, and it results in a divorce, the courts can claim up to 70% of our income in child support and alimony for the rest of our lives. Only 14% of fathers win 50/50 or more for child custody, as in the mother usually gets primary custody (90/10 in some cases, mothers favor.) Even if the mother is an abuser of the child, jobless, homeless, a drug addict, or irresponsible. Most of the time, the mother has to be found guilty of MURDER before the courts will consider the father as a possible primary care taker, and in most of those cases the grand parents on the mothers side are considered before the father.

    The point being is that there are no incentives to settle down get married and have kids anymore. In fact for incentivized against it with the court system alone.

    The dating scene also isn't a good deal for us because a vast majority of women only view us as a source of income. They have stated, because they have pussy, men should do what ever they can to be with them, and that pussy is all the need to bring to a relationship... Which isn't true. Most men want a companion, partner, friend, and lover. The lover part is only a bonus.

    With hookup culture and with the Court's the way they are towards men and fathers, mix with the attitude of these women who marry men just to divorce them, there is no reason for a man to get married or have kids these days.

    If you want to marry a decent man today, you need to insist on a prenuptial agreement, and, a 50/50 custody agreement partaining to any kids you might have together, signed and notarized, before you get married.

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  • The food analogy is just the easiest to explain our temptations as I see it. It doesn't mean I think of women as food. It's just because some women seem so absent of temptations towards other men that I'm trying to come up with something they can relate to without actually being me. Most people can relate to smelling pizza at a restaurant, for example, and being appetized. It's like trying to explain to someone who has never seen something how something looks like. Every comparison you make will be flawed.

    • My favorite analogy is human eyeballs. A great chef can probably use the right aromatics and seasoning to make even a stew made of human eyeballs smell amazing. Most of our noses will say, "Yummy! I wanna eat that!" But that doesn't mean you actually want to eat it, especially if you find out it's made of human eyeballs.

    • I really wonder sometimes if women have much of libido if they're confused. Don't you all see some handsome guy and have some temptation, at least, of sleeping with him? Or at least a basic curiosity of what it's like? Why do I have to come up with food analogies going to absurdities like human eyeballs to try to explain this? Are we *that* different?

  • Some men remain at a shallow level with "relationships" because they are afraid of having a real relationship.

  • Maybe I’m the odd one but have a relationship I don’t want to give up and I want to get married. Happening this year and can’t wait to start a family

  • If you muslim then he don't even need to hide his greed, he can have 4 different "fruits".

  • I don't want to get married again, but not for any of those reasons at all, and don't think that's really the reason most men don't want to ever get married either.
    It's more than just sex its the freedom to as you please. It's to do with not having someone else in your life that you constantly have to consider with every action you take, and decision you make.
    Being single means you don't have to consider someone else's feeling when you decide you're going out for a drink with boys tonight or a split second decision to spend money how you want to spend it, and not have to reach an agreement with someone else first.
    Yeah sex does come into it too, but it's far from the main or only reason, but yes I like having my options open. Having said all this I was married for 9 years so I probably have a different perspective on it than guys that have neven been married.

  • Some men do not want to marry because too many women have a "plan". They will love you and have sex with you but fear you as well. I had one of these.

  • Ehhh…wha…lol

  • Some men just don't like a women who has been fuck by a lot of guys, just like some women don't want a man who doesn't have a lot of money. Both sides of the argument are understandable to a extent. The men are saying that a women who lays around a lot becomes emotionally detach and harder to please. While on the other side women say that men who don't have money can't do anything for them because they aren't capable of buying the things they want

  • Why should a man get married? Just so he can get legally robbed by his ex wife later on?

  • I want to get married.

  • for reason womens change character in married

  • The only reason men won't marry women is they don't trust them.

  • It’s called “an analogy”... jesus why are females so simple

  • You missed the entire point because you failed to understand what an analogy is. The point is that some people don't want to have sex with the same person for the rest of their life

  • Marriage would be great if you knew for sure there was no divorce down the road. Sex is only part of a relationship, a woman isn't like food. Marriage isn't what it used to be and even though children are great, look at the rotten world you are bringing them into.

  • Wrong !!! Men don't want to get married because of divorce. We get fucked over.

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