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Girls are way more into guys than guys into girls?

guys may be more into sexual things but thats as far as it goes, they just say oh yeah she's hot i wanna cum blah then its over and nothing else. they rarely stare or approach girls. i mostly see girls staring at guys and adding guys on social media like snapchat asking them out. attractive girls act way more flirty in public, dress well, wear makeup to impress and attract guys. girls want relationships which proves girls are more into guys because they want to spend most of their free time with them. this is a major inbalance in humans
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  • I always assumed it was the other way around, though I've never properly looked at it. My general idea of it is that many women (not all) see men as tools, and relationships with them as transactions. Hence onlyfans, sugar babes, gold diggers, monkeybranching, orbiters, but also more generally the obsession with men's wealth, social status, ambition, intelligence, strength, etc. rather than just physical attraction and fertility like men, and most animals. That's not necessarily bad either, these selective pressures drive men to be better and help everyone in the process.

    With that out of the way let's look at what you've got.
    "they rarely stare or approach girls"
    Sure they do. That's the whole "male gaze" thing that feminists like to complain about. I generally hear that men make the first move too, but that may have changed.

    "adding guys on social media like snapchat asking them out"
    I don't really know about snapchat, but I know that interaction on dating sites are mostly driven by men. And while GaG isn't a dating site, it expresses the same sentiments of interest in men and women. How many men do you follow, vs how many men follow you? Then look at the same for any guy's profile on girls following vs followed.

    "attractive girls act way more flirty in public, dress well, wear makeup to impress and attract guys"
    Good point. However, that's women appealing to some of what men want. Women aren't attracted to the same things as men are. So as for men appealing to what women want, you have men pursuing careers, going to the gym, developing their hobbies and personalities to be interesting, and generally competing with each other to be the most successful in the eyes of women.

    "girls want relationships which proves girls are more into guys because they want to spend most of their free time with them."
    Both guys and girls want relationships, though I wouldn't know how to show it one way or another; takes two to form a couple.

    "this is a major inbalance in humans"
    There probably is an imbalance. I'm still not sure if it's one way or the other, but regardless I wouldn't expect balance in anything natural or free anyway.

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  • I disagree that guys are not into relationships... it not true. But guys are less likely to start off with a girl thinking its going to turn into a relationship. Dating is hard and there are a lot of twists and turns, so yes guys want that investment from women as much as women do. And sex and physical attraction play a large part in relationships on the front end. Most guys prefer finding on awesome lady to settle down with and be with, without the hassle of having to beat the streets play the constant cat and mouse games of dating.

    Now as far as guys being less likely to approach or flirt with women these days is more true than ever, I do agree with this. There is more pressure on women more than ever to show and interest or make their interests known. But that is a by product of the "Feminist" and "Me to" movements. Guys have to be way more cautious on how they approach women, and since women are equals they need to put out more effort if they want to find the right man.

    The age chivalry is over, because it was premised on men playing a dominate role in society and women being more passive... so chivalry and traditional courtship days are over, and men are not to blame for that.

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  • False.
    False.

    How many women are still even heterosexual nowadays? I swear, I'm so sick of running across the dykes nowadays ("bisexuals"). Once I stop seeing lesbians everywhere and stop seeing OnlyFans thots exploit loser men, I'll start believing this.

    I think you're saying this OP because you're only 19 and your "bitter cunt" days haven't arrived yet; usually after college and as you near 30. You're still young, naive, and pure, and haven't been corrupted by feminism and being dumped by Chads (the ones YOU CHOSE) yet. Give it time. You'll become a bitter fourth-wave misandrist and/or lesbian yet. I mean, I hope not, but the statistics aren't in your favor.

  • If it's so then why lesbian porn is your favorite porn category? :)

    Girls are way more into guys than guys into girls?

    • Umm no way Asian is that low and Ebony that high. Mature is not that high that makes no sense.

  • I can see where you are coming from, and you make an excellent point.

    But I am not like those guys. It's true I want the sexual stuff, but I want it from someone I am in a relationship more than some stranger I don't know and then move on to the next one.

  • WANNA BET?

  • well wiht the girls nowadays, that's no wonder xD how can you expect men to like women, when women constantly claim men opress them, rape them and have unfair privileges over them?

  • Not I disagree... yes, sex is something thats hard set in us, sometimes it takes preference than romance. But, that doesn't mean we only want to stick our dicks, we care for you all, we feel happy when you're happy.

  • Are you saying girls are more horny than than guys?

  • That goes 50-50.

  • Disagree. It's on an individual basis not based on gender

  • Girls want the 20% of men. Also feminism has made asking out women a very scary task in this day and age, also social media has made it so that women discriminate on height a whole lot more.

    Guy are not choosy for women, just dont be painful in the personality category honestly and not obese literally everything else is fine.

  • lol stupid question

  • Not sure about other guys but I want someone whom I an talk, flirt all day, admire her beauty, discuss with her on any topic, hangout with her. Its not all about sex. Sex is just temporary, I want permanent things and genuine bond with her :)

  • interesting. i have the opposite experience. sometimes guys idolize girls, and we call them simps. we don't really use that word for girls because they mostly seem to mind their business, focusing on themselves.

    • idolizing isn't really the same as fancying though

  • girls are flowers, u jus sit there looking all pretty, and use your petals to make the bees wanna come over and pollinate you,

    the bees (guys) aren't motivated by the same thing, we jus wanna pollinate as much pretty flowers as we can because nature and god made it that way so we produce more offspring and build up our species,

    u get what im saying? u can't expect guys to wanna sit there and stay with the flower all his life the same way u girls do, thats jus not how nature works,
    the way it is is correct

    • but the problem is the bees stopped trying to pollinate the flowers because the flowers started making rape accusations jus for landing on them

    • and now the flowers are sad

  • I don't think that's true. Lots of girls just want friends with benefits, not relationships. And a lot of girls don't care about what kind of guy he is, only looks are important to them, which doesn't last long in a relationship.

  • We don't usually stare or approach because it could be mistaken for sexual harassment that's why we usually don't approach.

    • well spoken

  • Yeah, no

  • Yes true

  • Wrong. Men do not share how they feel.

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