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Do guys think it’s hot when girls are virgins?

I’m really nervous about having sex for the first time (I’m 20 years old, I know, late bloomer!), because I just can't imagine being a total newbie is all that sexy. But sometimes I hear it's very attractive to men.
Do I lean into the fact that I’m an “innocent virgin,” or do I just pretend I know what I’m doing? I’m wondering if guys think it’s hot to kinda teach their girlfriends how to have good sex, or if it’s just annoying.
I don't think I'd be able to successfully pull off "I know what I'm doing" either, so it might be kind of a waste to try. I suppose coming off like a try hard is more embarrassing than being a virgin.
So, what do y'all think?
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Most Helpful Girl

  • Lol late bloomer... sis I am 24 and I haven't had sex (out of choice ofc!)

    I think just enjoy it. Don't worry too much about what you come off as. Go into it with no expectations and just enjoy it. Do what you want to do in the moment.

    • Bruh I'm 27 and not by choice at all 🥲🥲🥲

    • Ahhhh

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Nope not at all.
    It has nothing to do with the person.
    it might some weird guys who are into fetishising the whole thing.

    If anything it can be a passion killer.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Not really, I would prefer my girl to have just a little bit of experience

  • More of a challenge to give her a fond memory than "hot".

  • I do! I'd love to try one just once!

  • from my view virgin gals are a rare jem that I'd like to try at least once, I'd love to see that still intact hymn, then see it partially stretched/torn and finally after I've broken it. Working with the gal making sure her first time is amazing would be very exciting to me. my only caviet would be no condoms allowed.

  • Meh, sometimes.

  • Yes i love virgin, innocent, shy girls

  • Yeah, some of us think it’s hot.

  • Yes.

  • I guess some

  • Tell him you're a virgin. For me, the attractiveness of a virgin is that she never trusted anyone else enough to have sex with before me.

  • Not anymore. I've been with virgins. Not the most memorable for me.
    Evidently it was for them though because they catch feelings fast.

  • Only til a certain point, then it's fkn weird

  • No, this has never been an issue with me. I think it’s a fetish, like foot fetish. And can be problematic as it leads to pedo behavior.

  • Depends on the guys. Some guys don't see that as hot.

  • you are only a virgin for the 1st few seconds... then you aren't. even if the sex is Horrible...

  • Doesn't matter to me

  • It’s a good thing. There’s no need to pretend about anything. You can just casually mention you’re a virgin.

  • I like to claim I'm a virgin, only because I've only had sex once but I only had condomed sex. I haven't had non condom sex, so, I still like to claim I'm a virgin. Is that a lie?

  • It just doesn't matter. Just be who you are.

  • Don't pretend or worry too much about it just focus on your own pleasure, shady liars are a turn off. Virgins are much better than someone who can't keep a partner and spreads viruses

    It's also depressing you think 20 is a late bloomer since majority of 20yo guys are virgins but hate to admit it because they know most women would find him more attractive if he got hiv from sleeping with tons of women

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