Why do guys always want to sleep with me? Does it mean I’m not girlfriend material?

Why do guys always want to sleep with me? Does it mean I’m not girlfriend material?
I seem to get a lot of guys bringing up sexual things to me like “damn your booty” or “I want you” or even to the extent “I want you inside me”
Why do guys always want to sleep with me? Does it mean I’m not girlfriend material?
Before anyone says “it’s cause of how you dress” I know plenty of girls who dress sexy and are in serious relationships so why not me?

I’m not super model but I feel like I have an alright body so I can understand why some guys may get excited but why don’t they mention cute stuff like “I wanna get to know u” or “I really wanna make you my girl”

I don’t know what vibe I’m giving off but seems like guys just aren’t talking about serious stuff

just cause a guy talks about wanting to sleep with me does it automatically make him an F boy? Or should I just blame his testosterones?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Usually men want to have sex with those they find sexually attractive.
    It means men find you sexually attractive.
    Girlfriend material?
    A girl who'd make a good girlfriend is someone with girlfriend material.
    humility, a loving heart/spirit, a cute sense of humor, someone who is faithful and committed and loyal, someone honest and respectful, high character, someone who is feminine and not a masculine ball breaker, someone giving and loving.

    Those qualities make a good girlfriend.

    Do you sleep around? Are you having sex with a lot of guys? Are you partaking in casual sex? If so, you are more likely to be the target of those seeking one night stands and conquest and not someone who wants a long term relationship.

  • Guys want to fuck everything. That's just the nature of guys. It's got nothing to do with you, other than in the most superficial and tangential ways.

    "why don’t they mention cute stuff like “I wanna get to know u” or “I really wanna make you my girl” ?

    Because they don't have to. Guys can get laid without having to do that stuff.

    Try to understand it - Guys want to get laid. They will do/say whatever to get what they want. That includes lie, fake interest, fake a whole relationship if need be.

    • True but look how many guys are in long term relationships or even engaged 😭

    • They are in relationships with girls, sure, maybe. And maybe they aren't cheating on them. And maybe they will not end in divorce.

    • I’m confused. You said guys can get sex without relationships then why are so many guys in serious relationships then? And take cute pics with their girlfriends and buy them ring

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  • i think to have such feelings for ur opposite sex is natural but for boys i think its much more but darling it absolutely does not mean u r not girlfriend material... i find u perfectly cute and sexy as well and i am sure there would be many who would just love to have u by their side
    u may have not had good experience yet but this is how it is honey u will always get guys approaching u just for sex but u will also get guys who will want u to spend time with them
    and for the "way u dress" dont u ever listen to anyone's crap about it coz ur dressing style only says one thing about u n that is u r a confident person but yes some guys dont like that though coz if u r confident that means u won't be a sub to them

  • Surely your personality. I can't see anything else.

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  • They want to sleep with yo because your sexy hot... if they do not want to date you i might because of your personality. I do not think it has anything to do with you way of dressing you look very respectable.

    So you might have to do some self reflections and make what ever changes that you think you need to make in order to be the best version of yourself. But guys like confident women that emotionally available, generous and kind.

  • Trist me guys also want to sleep with their girlfriends

    • Yeah but I didn’t even make it to the girlfriend stage 😞

    • So u just slept with them and they left u? That 1 pic dress vibe is for sex not for girlfriend its that cluub get laid look. 2pic looks alright more girlfriend type of look. But thats just looks then would have to see how u communicate with them. Do you give them attitude?

  • Listen to what I’m about to tell you.
    All men want to sleep with all women. All men are basically dogs that are easily attracted to and wanting to sleep with any young woman of fertile age that they see. That doesn’t mean that you should stoop to their low moral level and sleep with any of them. Have respect for yourself and make a man show you respect and trust before becoming anything serious. And when a man becomes your boyfriend, you let him know when he may sleep with you. GOOD LUCK OUT THERE QUEEN

  • I think they wanna only sleep with u coz of ur clothes. Some of them (not all) think that this kind of girls are easy and they wanna only sleep too.

    • All my friends dress revealing and have boyfriends 😭 must be my skin colour

    • Hmm.. I don't know. But if yes-don't care about it.

    • Don’t care about what?

  • You a beautiful sexy girl with elegant personality and man is lucky whom you marry and he enjoy your beauty in real life..

  • The outfits you are wearing in these photos suggest an interest in sexual activities.

    • Doesn’t mean I’m not girlfriend material though

    • Didn't mean to imply that you weren't.

  • No it does not. You do have a "look" that induces sexual feelings (that's a compliment).
    But you are not obligated to give it up because you make me hot. Get to know guys better and ration your sexuality so that is earned, not given away.

  • There's "dress sexy" and then there's "dress for sex". In your pictures, especially the first one in the pink minidress, you are dressing for sex. If that's not what you want, then tone your dress down a bit.

  • A lot of guys are just looking for as much sex as possible with attractive girls as they can get without commitment. They are drawn to you because you are very attractive. Don't be discouraged. There are still guys looking for a serious relationship.

  • They find you attractive, so they want to have sex with you. Regarding why that's all you receive, you're probably just meeting the wrong guys.

  • I suspect it is related with how you dress.

    • Or just I’m ugly

    • And the guys masochists.

    • Come on.

  • Because you're not fat.
    There is a pandemic of OBESE WOMEN in America.
    All you gotta do is not be fat and you'll get attraction from 99.999% of dudes out there.
    Being a female in this Social Media driven society is like playing LIFE on "Easy" Mode.

  • Sex is a powerful thing and the problem you will have is separating the people that want to fuck you and the people that want to fuck you, but also go out with you. Comments about your appearance are easy because they're visible to everyone and you're conventionally attractive. Your personality and everything else is hidden so they can't really comment about that.

    Also, men are kinda dumb.

  • Do you determine your relationships with men based off what THEY want?
    Or what YOU want?

  • Well you are quite beautiful and have a banging body so most guys want to sleep with you but those are just immature guys with just sex on there mind then actually having a girlfriend. Also some guys might think your wearing very revealing clothes that what you want just sex and those guys are just dumb and don't know how to talk to a girl like gentleman.

  • It’s how you present yourself. Sure, you might meet the very rare man that wants a relationship, but your approach is not appealing to long term dating. It’s sex. How many relationships have you had where you were friends with the person first and no sex?

  • You're just very attractive and give off a warm/ romantic vibe. There are plenty of guys who would hold off sleeping with you but they'd still have a strong desire to be cuddled against your body.

  • Depends if you give in to sex right away if so hey figure your just a hook up

    • I make them wait date 3/4

    • Ok the thing is guys like a girl to make them wait at least a month that shows them your marriage material

  • Guys are horn dogs. Make them pay for it or wait on “mr. right”

    • Yes, we like to fuck.

  • So... You think guys don't want to sleep with their girlfriends?

    • Yeah but I don’t even make it to the girlfriend stage  it’s always the seeing each other stage but never an actual relationship

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