Help! I can’t get turned on by my boyfriend?
I find him very attractive and I catch myself staring at him sometimes thinking ‘geez your hot’ so I definitely love his looks, and his personality is great also, he is totally my type. We haven’t had sex yet, but he’s given me oral a couple of times, but I don’t get off from the oral and I haven’t ever gotten even wet from him which is a big problem..
I find that my biggest sexual turn on I think is when a guy has a bit of fat. Not like obese or overweight or anything, but I do love some meat on their bones or a bit of chub or something, I don’t know why, but I find that’s what arouses me the most. The thing is, my boyfriend is a twig... like he’s actually so skinny.. I’m starting to think that’s why I haven’t cum or gotten wet yet 😬 I get way more pleasure when I’m touching myself thinking of a certain celebrity/their figure I find super attractive.. that’s so bad I know, and I feel like a terrible person!
I’m so confused tho because I get excited around my boyfriend because he’s cool and hot and I do find him attractive! I don’t know what my problem is 😔
I also feel like I would enjoy him inside me more and that would give me more pleasure than him just touching me and giving me oral because it’s more pressure, but I can never get wet from him so how am I meant to stick it inside me? He’s tried with his fingers before and it really hurts.
Far out, can I overcome this problem or are turn ons really that important?
I just really hope this relationship isn’t doomed
Superb Opinion