Why would a single straight woman not want or need sex?

So I'm speaking to this 29yo woman who says she doesn't crave or want sex. She does not want to get married and she does not have the time and energy to date. We matched on a dating site which means she is actively looking for something, just can't determine what such a person would be looking for. Here are some of the questions which arise:
Should I prepare myself for gold digging vibes?
Do you get woman that want love without any physical touch?
Is she looking for friendship only?
This is new to me, please advise?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Simply put, some people have low sex drives. There's nothing wrong with that.

    These people are still capable of loving a person. They just don't have the need or desire for sex.

    If you or whoever their partner is can accept that and live with that without the threat of resentment towards the person in the future, there is nothing saying that the relationship won't work.

  • Thats kind of odd that she’s on a dating app but not looking for sex or a relationship.
    I think it’s best to ask her what her intentions are for matching with you and going on a dating app.
    Maybe she just wanted friends? Still, it’s best to ask her.

Most Helpful Guys

  • It means she doesn't want to have sex. With you.

    There is nothing wrong with you but if she doesn't want to bond with you on more closer level then you have to decide what you wanna do.

    Having a female friend isn't bad though. She can be helpful in other ways. Just not as a girlfriend.

  • She does not want sex and has no time for dating and does not want to get married? what is she doing on a dating site? I don't know what she wants. Maybe somebody to listen to how lonely she is.

    • Thanks for the MHO😎

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  • I dont need want or need sex. Its just not something I crave though intimacy in things like cuddling and hugs are always nice

  • In my experience, most women don't actually want or need sex. Unless they're on their period. Or unless it's another female. Most women seem to have extremely low sex drives, even compared to the mediocre everyday man.

    This 29 year old female you're apparently talking to, sounds like they don't want to be with anyone, at anytime, at all though (asexual).

  • Sounds like it’s one of 2 things... she either has a low sex drive for her age and maybe filled her life with other interests, or it’s a polite way of saying she doesn’t want sex with you or she’s not that interested in you

  • Could possibly be depression. Either way, if she's on a dating site, I'd suggest staying away.

  • on certain medications, not into it for some reason, past trauma, not interested

  • Uhm.. have you never heard of asexuals?

  • She sounds depressed. Stay away.

  • She’s probably just asexual and just looking for companionship.