Are you talking about the first time penetration? There is no way to guarantee a completely pain-free first time or every time sex experience, but there are things you can try. Having a partner who is willing to go slow, be patient and encouraging, and engage in steamy foreplay is a great way to ensure a positive first-time and every time experience.
Most girls and guys – both experience discomfort and pain when they have sex for the first time, it could be for a variety of reasons. If her hymen is intact, she may experience pain and a bit of bleeding as it stretches during penetration. It is an opening that varies in size and can be thick or thin. The more stretchy her hymen is, the less painful first-time sex is likely to be. This is the most common source of first-time sex pain.
The average penis size is about six to seven inches long when fully erect, and the vagina is typically between four and seven inches long. The vagina can stretch high and wide during sex and childbirth, so a too-large penis is usually not a cause of pain. One common cause of discomfort is when the penis is deep in the vagina and hit the cervix. This may feel more uncomfortable than painful, and you can usually resolve it by trying shallow penetration or a different sex position. Do not be afraid to express any concerns you have, and be honest and open to discuss sex with your partner and watching it on web to understand it. It will help relieve a lot of anxiety.
Making sure that her vagina is sufficiently lubricated before you both initiate sex helps improve your odds for a great experience. Lots of foreplay - kissing, touching, oral sex, and oral stimulation of her boobs and nipples can be helpful. Avoid sudden movements; let it be slow and gentle. Classic missionary is most common; placing a pillow beneath her pelvic area for additional support can help control the depth. Most people want their first time to be special and memorable, and it is normal to have high expectations, but it is equally important to set realistic expectations. Be fair to yourself and your partner, and try not to expect an unrealistic fantasy only found in the porn movies. Ask her where and when to touch, and when you both are ready, physically, mentally and emotionally, she can help you to penetrate ease using her fingers to press in.
What you are going to do is not fucking, it is lovemaking. Feel free to add personal touches like music and lighting to set the mood. Choosing the right place to have sex is a first step in the process. It should be a place where you can both feel relaxed and comfortable for at least a few hours before and after sex. If you experience pain during your first time, it usually becomes less painful with time, as her hymen continues to stretch and her body gets accustomed to it. If you experience dryness, use water-based lubricant.
Virgin here, but if I were have sex with a guy, I'd want to take our time and not rush the process. I assume it'll be awkward but I wouldn't mind it at all since the two of us are inexperienced.
I suggest asking them if it feels good and experiment a little too. Both of you should be taking account of the other person's reaction to specific actions you do. Respect it if they say, "no". If they don't want to go further, vice versa, don't push it. Consent is very important.
Also, I suggest wearing a condom or something for first time in case of stds. I've heard stories of people not being aware someone had a std or getting unwanted pregnancy.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Relax! Don't rush it. There is no guidebook or instruction sheet for a woman's body. Each is different and has their own ideas on what feels good and what does not. Don't stick anything inside her until she's good and wet. Listen for her moans and whispers, learn how her body responds to what you are doing.
Don’t rush. Be relaxed. Plenty of talk, kisses, touches. Admit your nervousness to each other. Remember it is about giving pleasure, not taking pleasure.
Enjoy!
Make sure you both care about one another and are actual friends. Bc the first time is awkward. Better with a friend and lover
Get her wetter than an otters pocket before you even go near her with your dick. Don’t be afraid to experiment, don’t be afraid to ask her what she likes. Check in on her. Don’t be afraid to laugh and joke around - I freaking love a guy who’s comfortable enough to laugh along with me when it suits. Have fun - it’s just sex
She will let you know what she likes and doesn’t like. Please pay attention to those cues. And foreplay goes a very long way to make it much more enjoyable.
Take your time and use protection!
Ask your partner before doing this. Every people likes different things. it is meant to be a pleasure for you and your partner.
Listen to your partner before doing anything.
be come and cool
Take your time, make sure you both feel comfortable and relaxed about it. Lots of foreplay, let it get tense between you. Use protection for sure!! There's never a guarantee it won't not hurt the first time. Make sure the girl is wet otherwise it will be uncomfy for you both but will hurt her more.
When playing with her clit, whether it's while having sex or before BE GENTLE, honestly it feels sm better, you boys seem to forget how sensitive it is down there!
Always communicate what does and doesn't feel good, take your time, it's all about giving pleasure never getting. Check in on each other to make sure you are both enjoying it cause that's what it is about!
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