Seriously a guy will not get hard if he is not roused.. but a young attractive women sitting on a guys lap... well his mind might wander in places that he did not intend it to go.
So no not always, after a certain age it takes a lot more than just that... but I assume since your 19 this guy was pretty young... so yeah if you are sitting on a 19 yr old's lap that is all it usually will take. And honestly if the guy didn't get hard I would think your either super ugly or he is not into girls. But if you were sitting on his lap in a way that you could feel his dick get hard then you where pretty cozy with him. When girl sits on my lap and is not being or intending to be sexual then she usually more down on my thighs and round my knees and away from my junk.
As far as how not react... well I if it happened to me I would say sorry I didn't mean for it to happen but your a sexy women and my mind wandered... but I guess I would appreciate it if you didn't say anything, because I would be kind of embarrassed about it. Since it was only a game and I would assume your not seriously interested in me.
i dont know what to tell you. look
if he is straight, and not dried ( as in had sex many times before u sat on him) then he should get a boner its normal reaction your profile picture shows you are sexy so i would get a boner , same as any healthy guy should. unless we are in relationship and we care about another girl etc.. and that time we will do our best but it depends from guy to the other how strong are their well power + how strong their urges like when last time they had a satisfying sex
Most guys do when they are younger I think. They seem to control it better when older, but it still happens. It's not awkward for me anymore, just a fact of life. Men have two heads and only think with one... the other is more primal... lol.
Kris i think with my head i can control the ejaculation but having a hard on feels good
It was always fun to feel that happen back in school.
Do you enjoy it?
@Prince_09 all part of the normal fun, yes.
Great i want to experience it 😅
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Yes, sex on my mind like a brain tumor. An average man should get hard 12 times a day and that’s biology. So, don’t sit on my lap girl unless you wanna make my day.
Without a doubt... Now, in big people's world when one says "sitting on my lap" it is often interpreted as... I am hearing you say "Sit On My Face, and tell me that you love me and I'll Sit of Your Face and tell you I love you". Yes, on both accounts.
I would think only if he gives her a spin.
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I guess it really just depends on what's going on I'm eating guys can control it it's not going to get hard if you don't want it to because you're trying to respect that person but depending on the whole scenario if you wanted to get hard then it's going to get hard and if you don't want it to get hard it's not going to be hard
Considering that I can get hard by accidently bumping into a wall, Ima go with yeah
It is a normal part of being a young guy. Yes most would get hard and there is nothing to be embarrassed about. I'm sure he went home and masturbated immediately afterward. As you know 99% of young guys do that frequently... but most will never admit it.
What else happened in the game? Did everyone's clothing stay on, were you allowed to touch?
I (we) played it a lot in college. Usually everyone would end up naked with a lot of touching or handjobs. It was kinda fun!!
let’s not go there haha
Ummm sounds like fun!
Yup. 99.9% of the time.
At your age I did.
If that were me, then I'd either "let her", but make sure that she'd know that it was inevitable. ... or, (not gonna lie) actually try to deny her (or) shove her off. Not enough time to think of a less "desperate" way before she'dfind out, and (potentially) feel offended.
Spoon position, no. Straddling and facing me like on a park bench? Ohh yes.
A straight guy will almost always get hard when a cute girl sits on his lap
When I was a teen, hell yeah, but not so much anymore...
Years ago some girl sat on my lap and worried she was going to make me get hard
IF so, probably because I almost NEVER GET girls to sit on my lap! I doubt I've had more than 2 or 3.
All guys do as far as I know by experience
Maybe he finds you hot
If you sat on my lap I would be extremely hard you're cute ass which I'm sure you have because you have very beautiful breasts very sexy looking very attractive especially if you sat on my lap and kind of grind it a little bit I would be super hard you're a hottie
Not always, but usually I will get hard.
Yes!
Absolutely normal.
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